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life goes on... seek peace and pursue it... 3**** fakers, haters, and wannabes....just so you all get it right in the future if u want to talk about me... i am not the kind of girl to constantly be in the mirror fixing her face because everyone who minds doesnt matter and everyone who matters doesnt mind what i look like im not a "couture girl" i am not materialistic but i do like to have nice things here and there... i like to party but on the right terms for the right reasons and i may over do it sometimes but who the hell doesnt. i like art, fashion, poetry...etc but doesnt mean i have to be fashionable or follow a certain trend... if u still don't quite understand who I am feel free to message me. I don't reply to a ***word message unless it is ridiculously funny ;) I'm looking for something serious so if you're expecting differently look elsewhere. Don't expect me to give it up on the first few dates or more. I like to make sure i completely trust someone before they get all of me but I'm very open To meeting new people. The perfect first date would be a night to the beach scene, get a drink and a bite to eat on the water or somewhere close. Even if it's a bottle of wine or something and we sit on the beach and smoke a blunt that's perfectly fine with me. First impression means a lot to me but if you mess it up and it's not that big of a deal I'm game for date two but if I'm not into you I will let you know and will never string anyone along. I keep to one person when I'm dating once I find the right guy they know they are my one and only and there's nothing to worry about from there on out. Xoxo hope to hear from someone genuine sometime soon lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anita

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am the mother of three grown children and a grandmother of two beautiful grandchildren. I raised my children pretty much by myself. I have a good job that I truely enjoy. I love to do new things and meet new people. I enjoy sporting events, movies, dinner (in or out) but mainly out...lol, cookouts, beach, pool, live music, comedy, dancing, riding motorcycles and anything really with my close friends and/or family. I really can't refuse a dare but only bet if I know I will win. I try to enjoy whatever it is I am doing and rarely have a miserable time doing anything. Life is to short to be miserable or un happy. Would love to find someone to try to enjoy everything life has to offer as I begin this new chapter of the rest of my life. I love to joke around and try to be funny...sometimes not as funny as I may think. Just love doing things...any type of things really. Haven't really dated in quiet some time, so not really sure what to say here. I guess for a first date it should be a public place so no one feels uncomfortable. Maybe dinner and drinks to talk and get to start learning about each other. And hopefully things click and there would be another date and could plan something together.

  • Geneva

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Thanks for stopping by to read my profile. My family and friends are my rock. My dog is my sanity and my calm. I’m hard working and love my job working for a food manufacturer. I’m most happy outdoors with the sun in my face, feet in the sand, waves crashing, sitting by a fire with an iced cold beverage, grilling or just chilling out. I like going out but also enjoy staying home cooking as well. I don’t mind getting my hands dirty, dressing in jeans and a t-shirt and kicking back. I have a very active dog that I take walking and hiking all the time, along with all of the responsibilities of being a dog owner, so we’re a package deal. I don’t have drama in my life, so I don’t expect it in return. I’m looking for a man that also doesn’t mind getting his hands dirty, comfortable who he is, knows what he wants and not afraid to show emotion or open up to the right woman of course. If any of this peaks your interest than please message me. Best of luck fishing!! Coffee or a drink...if all goes well, we can plan 1st date :)

  • Latisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have pretty much come to the conclusion that this thing they call "DATING" is for sans kids singles or non-custodial parents. Well, I guess it depends on your situation and whether or not you separate your adult life from your child's life. I am one of those mommies who is not wanting to be in that "This is your uncle this week!" category. If you happen to be a single dad who doesn't welcome your children into the revolving door of your love life then CONGRATULATIONS for putting your kids first and being the rare exception to the rule. Nothing wrong with introducing your kids to a significant other when the time is right or the situation is appropriate. But "Hey kids, this is Bambi and she is spending the weekend with us" just seems a bit tacky to me. But there are a few overnight visitations with either grandma or dad. And mommy does get a bit of me time now that she is in preschool for 4 afternoons a week. So I guess I could start scheduling lunch dates or mid-afternoon coffee house dates M-Th say sometime between 12:***pm. I am trying to get used to having this me time, but find that 3 hours goes by in a ***, that is my big disclaimer as it seems nearly impossible for me to be available to date at the drop of a hat. It takes some planning in advance to make sure it jibes with the visitation schedule or I can find a sitter. But for right now I think it is better to put myself in that boring, just looking for friends for now category. I am just being honest and not going to blow any smoke up anyone's butt. I am really pretty set in my ways and know what I like and don't like. I like going out to try new hobbies, experiencing new cuisine or checking out a band I've never heard before. I don't mind the bar scene now and again to do karaoke or listen to live music. I would even like to do one of those trivia nights. But I rarely drink these days due to finding I get a tad more tipsy than I would like. I like walks in the park, bowling, going to the movies, shooting pool and visiting art museums. Aside from playing in the park with my kid, dancing, the occasional aquacize class and tennis just for fun I rarely get my heart rate elevated for optimal fitness. Just not much of an exercise enthusiast, but know I should force myself to do more physical activity. I am a couch potato most evenings, and should just say In a Relationship with HBO as my *** Yes, I admit I am a bit of social media whore. But wean off what I call the facecrastination.So if all that brutal honesty hasn't bored the crap out of you, then please do hit me up for the initial e-mail conversation and "Let's Do Coffee" sorta deal. Late morning or early afternoon to meet up at a cafe or pub. Then we can do something fun and even active like a stroll thru a park or perhaps bowling. Tennis? I can't play very well, but like just the back and forth over the net. I love going to the movies, but that isn't the best for a first date as you can't really talk. Art museum would be a great first date as well.

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