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About Me

life goes on... seek peace and pursue it... 3**** fakers, haters, and wannabes....just so you all get it right in the future if u want to talk about me... i am not the kind of girl to constantly be in the mirror fixing her face because everyone who minds doesnt matter and everyone who matters doesnt mind what i look like im not a "couture girl" i am not materialistic but i do like to have nice things here and there... i like to party but on the right terms for the right reasons and i may over do it sometimes but who the hell doesnt. i like art, fashion, poetry...etc but doesnt mean i have to be fashionable or follow a certain trend... if u still don't quite understand who I am feel free to message me. I don't reply to a ***word message unless it is ridiculously funny ;) I'm looking for something serious so if you're expecting differently look elsewhere. Don't expect me to give it up on the first few dates or more. I like to make sure i completely trust someone before they get all of me but I'm very open To meeting new people. The perfect first date would be a night to the beach scene, get a drink and a bite to eat on the water or somewhere close. Even if it's a bottle of wine or something and we sit on the beach and smoke a blunt that's perfectly fine with me. First impression means a lot to me but if you mess it up and it's not that big of a deal I'm game for date two but if I'm not into you I will let you know and will never string anyone along. I keep to one person when I'm dating once I find the right guy they know they are my one and only and there's nothing to worry about from there on out. Xoxo hope to hear from someone genuine sometime soon lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm an independent person who is looking for somebody special to do things with...walks, picnics, beach, skydiving, hiking, apple picking, concerts, plays, cook for, go out to eat with, see a game (I love football), yadda yadda. I'm goofy, affectionate and loyal. It takes me a little bit to trust people, but once I trust you it is unconditional. I am not judgemental (unless I'm people watching) and am not looking for somebody to "change" me. Although I'm no prude, I'm also not a "booty" call, so please don't bother to contact me if that is what you're looking for.I'm undecided about marriage and kids....that being said, I could be swayed in either direction. If it happens, it happens, if it doesn't there's a whole big world out there to see. If you have children I have no problems with being the best "friend" they could have...as long as you don't have 6.I'm honestly looking to find that special somebody to have fun and grow old with.Good luck to all. Decide on a place to meet and go from there?

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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  • Agnes

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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