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Helene, 42
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Jun 2026 08:35:02

About Me

I am height-weight proportionate, non-smoker, gainfully employed and have a place of my own.....and expect the same. I am a easy going and honest person. I am not into playing games, so you shouldn't be either.I am NOT interested in or looking for "hookups" or "friends with benefits"... I am not interested in anyone who is looking to date multiple women.I am looking for some one special to share my life with, my partner in crime and someone that always has my back. Someone to grow old with.... Most importantly you must have goals and aspirations. I feel starting off as great friends can only lead to a wonderful relationship.I love to meet new people. I like live music, new restaurants or just a night home on the couch with a good movie. Please, if you do not have a picture posted, please do not respond to my posting. It is only fair...a pic for a pic.I am looking for someone who is striving to better themselves mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I am looking for someone who is striving for spirituality because We need to be equally coupled... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for financial independence because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business or who I cannot trust. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. Finally, I'm looking for someone with goals and aspirations. You always need to strive to better yourself.*****PRIVACY NOTICE*****WARNING--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Let's decide together. Almost anything can be fun with the right person!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Middle Eastern
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