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Sonja, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am height-weight proportionate, non-smoker, gainfully employed and have a place of my own.....and expect the same. I am a easy going and honest person. I am not into playing games, so you shouldn't be either.I am NOT interested in or looking for "hookups" or "friends with benefits"... I am not interested in anyone who is looking to date multiple women.I am looking for some one special to share my life with, my partner in crime and someone that always has my back. Someone to grow old with.... Most importantly you must have goals and aspirations. I feel starting off as great friends can only lead to a wonderful relationship.I love to meet new people. I like live music, new restaurants or just a night home on the couch with a good movie. Please, if you do not have a picture posted, please do not respond to my posting. It is only fair...a pic for a pic.I am looking for someone who is striving to better themselves mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I am looking for someone who is striving for spirituality because We need to be equally coupled... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for financial independence because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business or who I cannot trust. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. Finally, I'm looking for someone with goals and aspirations. You always need to strive to better yourself.*****PRIVACY NOTICE*****WARNING--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Let's decide together. Almost anything can be fun with the right person!!

  • Carmela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Its very hard to describe myself in a paragraph. I pretty much can have fun doing anything and I always try to look at the bright side of everything. If your a player, dont even bother wasting my time. I need to be number one and I dont play second fiddle to noone!!I want a real man who appreciates my worth.And finally, if your 20 and are just looking to screw a milf, dont bother!!Im not looking to train somebody on how to satisfy me!And guys one more thing, if every picture you have is of you holding a beer bottle, you might want to join the website 'plenty of alcoholics"! lol. I have more pics but I choose to send them thru my phone. I would like a first date to be fairly quiet so I can really get to know the other person.Sexual chemistry is very important because without that it probably wouldnt go any further.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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