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Sonja, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Silvia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Personality is passionate - put 200% into all that I do. Transfer this passion into what I hold dear - spirituality, family, friends, work, politics and painting. Value - integrity, truth & honor.Characteristics - (interesting, started writing these qualities to let you know more about me but, then realized what I am looking for as well...***Authentic, Honest, Positive, Steadfast, Confident, Enthusiastic, Gregarious, Conscientious, Loving, Healthy, Intelligent, Sweet, Romantic, Fun, Funny, Creative and Peaceful.Enjoy self-exploration and expansion. In the 5 Love Languages book - my language is "words". Other personality testing shows: MBriggs: ENTJ and on DISC test ***% DI.Appreciate someone who truly knows themselves. Communicator. Subtle mix of bravery with vulnerability. Someone who anticipates an amazing positive life and takes the steps to make it happen.Goal - to live an extraordinary life & currently in that process...I'm decent at the following (in no particular order):Parallel ParkingWorkPresentationsCreativity - Art & ThinkingFriendshipDatingLaughingBeing steadfastBeing thoughtfulDedicatedCan work a room - socialIntrospectiveTwo of my favorite compliments from close guy friends:1. If I was at war, I'd want you on my team (as in, I can count on you to deliver...)2. You don't do anything unless you are "all in."Favorite books: Recent - Pillars of the EarthTypically have a self-help, political and fashion magazine in rotationFavorite movie: Braveheart / Lord of the RingsFavorite Music: Country (Old & New)Favorite Food: Enjoy trying new placesHave a sweet tooth - love caramel corn Here's what I am interested in:You are interested in a positive, deep and meaningful relationship.The top qualities I am interested in:ChristianCommunicationKind / Positive / Generous spiritKnows what he wants & on the path - purpose Flexible co-collaborationFirst date:Coffee / wine meet up. If interested, low key food and music...Heads up dating preferences and for efficiency for both of us: 1. If you are uber-liberal politically - likely not a match. Have plenty o' liberal friends and can appreciate it, however, different philosophies about life. 2. Not much for days of text / talk prior to grabbing a coffeeAlso, I hesitate to put this on here bc I don't want to seem judgmental as everyone (including me) has some issue. I've met a few folks that are fantastic people who are alcoholics. Unfortunately due to my past relationship history, this is not my preference. Then we were both disappointed when it didn't work out. So, if you are an alcoholic (or if anyone else has ever told you that you have a issue) it would need to be a very special case for this to work - would only consider someone who was well-into recovery, a sponsor, done your work around it... With this said, I am a social drinker and good with being in relationship with someone else who is as well.

  • Jacklyn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If you don't have a picture up don't expect a reply unless you are willing to send one. Sorry to all the lovely black men out there, but I am just not interested. Update: Fellas, I have reached a time in my life where I want something more than endless dating. I want a man to see when I return from a business trip. I want a man to go on fun weekends together. Please be serious, honest, and forthright.Hello there fellow single and looking!!! I am a normal, somewhat well adjusted woman who is looking to date and hopefully find that special someone. I left this site for a while, but I'm back to give it another try. I am looking for a man who makes my heart go pitter patter and strikes that cord that makes me excited to get up in the morning and see if there is a message from him. You know what I am talking about...that certain je ne sais quoi that is not explainable, but gives you tingles none-the-less.I like my job and travel quite a bit, but I am home almost always on the weekends and can usually find a day or two during the week. When I am home, I work from home. It's a great gig.I don't live to work. I work to live! I like going to outdoor concerts and festivals, exploring restaurants, having a glass of wine, spending time with friends, having cookouts, or just watching t.v. together. I am nice, outgoing, and love to have fun so please have a sense of humor.Go on and message me if you are single...let's chat! First dates are...awkward. I suggest meeting for coffee and just talking for an hour or so. No movie dates! How are you supposed to get to know one another in a movie???!!!??? You should message me if you are quirky and enjoy life to the fullest. You like to have intelligent conversations. You like to have inane conversations. You like wine. You don't like intolerant people. Let's have fun!

  • Carmela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Its very hard to describe myself in a paragraph. I pretty much can have fun doing anything and I always try to look at the bright side of everything. If your a player, dont even bother wasting my time. I need to be number one and I dont play second fiddle to noone!!I want a real man who appreciates my worth.And finally, if your 20 and are just looking to screw a milf, dont bother!!Im not looking to train somebody on how to satisfy me!And guys one more thing, if every picture you have is of you holding a beer bottle, you might want to join the website 'plenty of alcoholics"! lol. I have more pics but I choose to send them thru my phone. I would like a first date to be fairly quiet so I can really get to know the other person.Sexual chemistry is very important because without that it probably wouldnt go any further.

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