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Darcy, 41

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About Me

Hello and thank you for reading my profile. I am a very happy, positive and upbeat person and live my life by the glass is half full theory. I have chosen a career that I love that affords me the ability to help others and to utilize my mind. I am divorced and have a 14 year old daughter that lives with me full time (99% of the time). Therefore, you must love to be around children. I am a very involved parent and give fully in all that comes with raising a child. I am always laughing and most find my laugh contagious. I am a very social person and can start up a conversation with just about any person. My hobbies include spending time with family and friends, movies, shopping, church-God is good, reading, traveling, arts, concerts, basically enjoying life is important to me. Not the type of person to sit around on the couch every weekend; however, I do enjoy dinner at home and relaxing for the evening with friends, family or that special someone. I love to take road trips planned or unplanned, sometimes unplanned are the best vacations. I enjoy anywhere from sitting on a beach, going to the mountains or just exploring a new place. I am not an adventuresome person in the sense I will not be doing sky diving anytime soon (terrified of heights), but I am always willing to try new things to a certain degree. I have a very small family and have friends that have become family and I do enjoy spending time with them as I feel we all need our time to ourselves. I think it helps us to appreciate the time when we are away from our significant other and creates a desire to be with them even more. What I am looking for...a stable, like minded person that is content in his life and looking to date to see where it might lead. I am not looking for hang out or a casual relationship. I would like to meet that person that starts out as a friendship with hopes of progression to a more meaningful relationship. I do need to be with a person that is not afraid to communicate and that can hold an intelligent conversation. I feel communication is key in a relationship, good or bad. I am very independent in the sense that I do not need to be tended to ***; however, if I am dating someone I do need to hear from you on a regular basis. Even if it is just a quick hello, thinking of you, etc. just to know I am being thought of that I am a part of your life. It is the small things that can make a difference in a relationship. I was raised in a very small town; however, I am a city girl at heart, but value both. I work hard but at the end of the day leave work at work and I look forward to my downtime and look for the same in a partner. I am not looking for anybody to support or take care of me; however, do value somebody that can. I am a firm believer in that we support and take care of each other. I do take care of myself and my general attire is jeans, blouse and flats, which is what I am comfortable in. I own dresses and heels and know when to wear them! I am not in the gym everyday and only go because there comes a point in life where you have to exercise to remain healthy. I am not a stick thin girl, nor will I ever be, I definately have curves; however, am very secure and confident with myself and in my body image, so if you are looking for the thin, model type, then I probably am not the girl for you. I actually eat on dates and enjoy doing so. I love a great dinner with a glass of wine.I also believe in treating each other with respect and kindness. These are two key factors along with communication, that create a solid friendship that can grow into a lasting relationship. I am very respectful of others and appreciate the same in return. Please *** would like to chat and get to know more about each other. Have a great day! Casual meeting where we can talk and get to know each other. Drinks or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pam

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Moving further East in the new year!No pic, no reply.Chemistry just happens....there is no explanation.All I know is one thing. You can fight with yourself but the battle with destiny is a tough one to win! I've been through enough to know what I want and don't want and more importantly what I deserve. I am looking for someone that also thinks highly of themselves, it is an attractive trait. A good guy with a naughty side ; So if you think your deserving of someone good in your life, someone that will make you smile, someone you can trust and respect, then message me, lets see if we get along, have that chemistry for one another and go from there ;) I kind of just miss the simple things of being with someone. I miss someone asking me how my day was, making plans together, sharing a glass of wine together, cuddling on the couch, stealing kisses, knowing you have someone to talk to when you have a good or bad day. Someone that simply cares about you........I miss that friendship.Please don't message me if your intentions are not sincere and not truly interested in dating and getting to know each other. Playing with people's hearts and minds is not where I'm at in my life and neither should you be. You need to respect yourself in order for me to respect you, so no games. Simple. That's what friendship is about and how it grows into something more. Boy's can catch me, but only a real man can capture my heart.Most guys run or are intimidated by someone that knows what she wants but I am not looking for "most guys". I am just looking for one man that I can relate with, date, have fun with and see what develops. Being vulnerable is sexy.I'm only human, I make mistakes but I can absolutely promise you that when I say and do things, my intentions are sincere and I always mean well. Open communication, honesty and having an open mind is key for me. I always try and understand the other side as things are not always what they may seem to be. It is important for me as it shows maturity and an openness that we will be able to support one another even though we may not always agree.Finding someone that is willing to take the time to get to know you, that someone you have that *** with, that person you can talk openly with, is not easy to find these days. Looking for that connection, and if we do, I am open to exploring what possibilities lay ahead.A few traits/characteristics that attract me to a man, here it goes:A man with confidence (in a mature manner, not to over power someone)A man that respects himself (this is shown in how he treats others and respects others)A man that can communicate. (Mentally and physically ;***Misunderstandings can happen (true story) so I thought of this new concept and I like to refer to it as "speaking to each other" I know, I know...it's crazy talk but I think it just may work if both parties are open to giving it a try when needed ;)..then move forward.A man that treats others the way he would like to be treated no matter what (always thinking it's a reflection of himself)A man with a warm, genuine heart and not afraid to let me into his life. ( Cause I can only make it even more awesome! And who doesn't want to have awesome in your life? ;)A man with a beautiful smile, that makes me smile just by looking at him.A man with a sense of humor (love to joke around and be playful with my partner) A man that can kiss for hours and hours. (A kiss is just a kiss until we kiss) A man that can admit when he is wrong, (as would I) and doesn't hold grudges (as would I) (life is too short) and I honestly don't have it in my heart to carry on an argument. (See next line!) A man that loves make-up sex just as much as I do! (see previous line for not holding grudges) A man that isn't afraid to just "go for it" and put it all on the line for love. (No flip flopping in your decision making)A man that can be vulnerable (HOT and SEXY)A man that can forgive and forget (SEXY)A man that is honest and sincere.A man that is not selfish. A man that is open minded.A man that has patience (Sometimes when I really like someone I get nervous and don't think straight, be patient and understanding- The heart can do some messed up things sometimes)A man that likes to play games (keeping it in the bedroom!) no mind games please. Straight honesty and sincerity will win me over!A man that lives by "actions speak louder than words"A man that can be romantic.A man that is HOT and SEXY (many of the above traits will place you in this category with me) I don't think it's fair to say that any man would have ALL these traits, however these are just a few traits/characteristics that separate the men from the boys and that I do find attractive in a man. Finding a man with a few will do...many of the above portrays respect, honesty, friendship and pure Sexiness ;)Although I'm looking for someone to spend time with and develop a relationship with, I also very much enjoy my time alone. I, like yourself have things I love to do and friends and family I would like to spend some alone time with every once in awhile. You and I will have our time together but it can be just as important as our alone time. Through my life experiences, one thing I have learned is that anything can happen at any time and you can not plan it nor it may have been part of your big plan. I do believe everything happens for a reason and that it is usually for the best. Some of the most extraordinary things happen when you least expect it. If we connect and you are open to exploring our reasons for our paths crossing, lets meet and see where it will lead, we will never know till we meet! ;) I am a genuine person, when I give you my word, I am good for it, and when I say and do things, it will come from my heart. I guess that's the Cancer in me I believe in the good of everyone until you give me reason not to. If I am interested in you, I'll give you 100% of my attention. I truley believe that you get what you put into everything you do.I love a man who knows what he wants and goes for it! There is nothing sexier than confidence. I'm very independant and love my own space at times so I am not looking to take away time for the things that you may love. I would just like to just give you more things for you to love :)If your heart is open to a new adventure, I hope to hear from you, to get to know more about you and what we may have in common.

  • Christina

    Online

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm your pretty average, girl-next-door type, wholesome and sweet. I am confident. I love and respect myself and am looking for the same. I've been told I have a Betty Rubble laugh. If nothing else, it's infectious. I like to go have dinner and a drink after work with someone I enjoy laughing with. I love almost any kind of music. Love to go dancing. Salsa, old school, disco, free style or country. It's all good. I like bowling & picnics, being outdoors, movies, art & nature. I'm honest and simple, caring and respectful. I look for the good in everything. I'm grateful for what I have. I'm not looking for an ***, but looking for someone I trust to build a friendship with. Then we'll see where it goes. I'm not perfect and will not expect you to be either. I do appreciate a gentlemen though. You don't know what you don't know...Take a chance. I am a great choice! I do like my cup-a-joe and flowers never hurt :)

  • Angel

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have 3 children, 2 in high school and 1 is married to a soldier so military is around me all the time. I am ready to find someone who interested in me and wants more in life then being at home!!! I am happy at home but I want to get away also!!! Depends on the person

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