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Darcy, 41
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

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About Me

Hello and thank you for reading my profile. I am a very happy, positive and upbeat person and live my life by the glass is half full theory. I have chosen a career that I love that affords me the ability to help others and to utilize my mind. I am divorced and have a 14 year old daughter that lives with me full time (99% of the time). Therefore, you must love to be around children. I am a very involved parent and give fully in all that comes with raising a child. I am always laughing and most find my laugh contagious. I am a very social person and can start up a conversation with just about any person. My hobbies include spending time with family and friends, movies, shopping, church-God is good, reading, traveling, arts, concerts, basically enjoying life is important to me. Not the type of person to sit around on the couch every weekend; however, I do enjoy dinner at home and relaxing for the evening with friends, family or that special someone. I love to take road trips planned or unplanned, sometimes unplanned are the best vacations. I enjoy anywhere from sitting on a beach, going to the mountains or just exploring a new place. I am not an adventuresome person in the sense I will not be doing sky diving anytime soon (terrified of heights), but I am always willing to try new things to a certain degree. I have a very small family and have friends that have become family and I do enjoy spending time with them as I feel we all need our time to ourselves. I think it helps us to appreciate the time when we are away from our significant other and creates a desire to be with them even more. What I am looking for...a stable, like minded person that is content in his life and looking to date to see where it might lead. I am not looking for hang out or a casual relationship. I would like to meet that person that starts out as a friendship with hopes of progression to a more meaningful relationship. I do need to be with a person that is not afraid to communicate and that can hold an intelligent conversation. I feel communication is key in a relationship, good or bad. I am very independent in the sense that I do not need to be tended to ***; however, if I am dating someone I do need to hear from you on a regular basis. Even if it is just a quick hello, thinking of you, etc. just to know I am being thought of that I am a part of your life. It is the small things that can make a difference in a relationship. I was raised in a very small town; however, I am a city girl at heart, but value both. I work hard but at the end of the day leave work at work and I look forward to my downtime and look for the same in a partner. I am not looking for anybody to support or take care of me; however, do value somebody that can. I am a firm believer in that we support and take care of each other. I do take care of myself and my general attire is jeans, blouse and flats, which is what I am comfortable in. I own dresses and heels and know when to wear them! I am not in the gym everyday and only go because there comes a point in life where you have to exercise to remain healthy. I am not a stick thin girl, nor will I ever be, I definately have curves; however, am very secure and confident with myself and in my body image, so if you are looking for the thin, model type, then I probably am not the girl for you. I actually eat on dates and enjoy doing so. I love a great dinner with a glass of wine.I also believe in treating each other with respect and kindness. These are two key factors along with communication, that create a solid friendship that can grow into a lasting relationship. I am very respectful of others and appreciate the same in return. Please *** would like to chat and get to know more about each other. Have a great day! Casual meeting where we can talk and get to know each other. Drinks or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Greek Irish Adult Fantasy American Football Cricket
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