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Velma, 41

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About Me

I have a very busy schedule, so I'm looking for someone who is flexible and easy-going. I work out almost daily and would like someone who is committed to being in shape and healthy. My age is off and it won't let me change the date. Not looking for perfection, but seriously - athletic means you work out regularly and have definition. Employment is a plus - not because I want you to spend all your money on me - just want you to be financially stable.The choices of "want a relationship" or "I want to date but nothing serious" or "Casual dating/no commitment" don't really fit for me. I need a box that says "I'm open to a relationship but not looking for it" (meaning I'm just fine where I am and while it would be amazing if there was someone great out there to spend a whole lot of time with - I don't have any expectations and am not attached to a particular outcome). Oh - and I need a box for personality type that says "unique" (the drop down list is way too limited).P.S. Please do not do not contact me if you are not at least 35 and do not contact me if you do not have a photo - I'll just delete ya.Please, please read the my profile before contacting me....If you are NOT athletic - do NOT contact me! Don't think me superficial - I stay in shape and am only attracted to men who do the same. It's that simple. Surprise me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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