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Isabel, 40
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

Offline, last seen Mon, 09 Mar 2026 00:26:00

About Me

Soooo.....update ***I often wonder why there are so many people on earth that are single and don't want to be. It shouldn't be this difficult to find someone you are compatible with. But after looking through the sea of faces that are single, it must be. Also, i am not big and tall, but I would be classified as bbw in today's standards. I am looking for my soulmate. I honestly think I have already met my soulmate, but we both took different directions in life. There's a good chance you have already met your soulmate, too. So, that leads me to the next section here.I understand that most guys have good girl friends that are part of their life, and that is cool with me. I also have guy friends. I am not ready to "move in" with someone or even get married at this point. Marriage is the only way I will live with a guy. I also do not drink and drive. Not even one drink. So, our meeting can be at a restaurant or bar, but I'll be having a coke.Things I like to do for fun are sewing (I try, anyway), thinking, writing letters, admiring flowers, making homemade pizza, etc. So now the topic of sports...I am not into them. However, if you are, I wouldn't mind sitting on the couch beside you rooting for your team. I will probably ask you to explain what just happened or talk to you throughout the whole game. I do not hunt. Or ride 4 wheelers. But I love to camp, though.I'm not so much into movies as I am music. I would choose listening to music anyday over watching a movie.I am trying to lose weight. I feel like I should say this so it doesn't seem like I have "given up" on myself. I have reluctantly accepted myself as a bbw, but honestly had a lot more fun buying clothes when I was thinner. And now they have a weight watchers app for your phone- so cool!!Hopefully this helps decode me a little. I am one of those simple/complex people. I like the simple things in life, but sometimes those are the most complex.Talk to ya soon. Things that sound fun: listen to a band, meet for a drink( soda for me), planetarium, a poetry reading, library, art galleries, etc.Things that don't sound fun: movies(theater or rented), putt putt, coffee when it's hot outside, swimming, cuddling, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Middle Eastern Vietnamese Drama Romance Sci-Fi Western
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