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Pam, 31
United States, Maryland, Upper Marlboro

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About Me

I like to live my life by the following saying: Work like you don’t need the money, sing like no one's listening, love like you've never been hurt, dance like nobody's watching, and live like its heaven on earth. Explanation to follow (though a little out of order):Work like you don’t need the money: I love to work and have been known to define myself by my work. I enjoy work that is challenging and where I feel like I am making a difference, but have never really been focused on the money or getting to the top. I am content as long as I am progressing and growing. I have recently started working in management consulting focused on health care and analytics, which means I travel Mon-Thurs (has its pros and cons) and that there is plenty of work.Sing like no one’s listening, dance like nobody’s watching: I have been known to spontaneously burst into song or dance. This does not mean that I am great at either, just that they both bring joy to my life. I love the way that both make can take emotions to such a deeper level. I take Zumba classes every chance I get and enjoy the chance to go out dancing. I love almost all music. I am very close to my family and have a small circle of very close friends that may as well be family. This is where I spend the rest of my spare time.Love like you’ve never been hurt, and live like it’s heaven on earth: I love life and am thankful for every day that I have on this planet. This doesn’t mean that I don’t have bad days or that I haven’t been hurt; I just try to not focus on it. I have a deep and very personal faith, but do not necessarily define myself by any religion. I practice tolerance even when beliefs don’t match my own and try my best to love people for who they are. There’s more but I think that’s enough for now.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Cycling Irish Thai Vietnamese Action Horror Mystery War Boxing
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