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Carly, 41

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About Me

I failed spelling miserably and hope you can please forgive any spelling errors (Math is my thing not spelling)I'm not a writer so I dont do Biography's. Wasn't really sure what to put so I asked my friends to describe me in ***words and here's the responses I got (not in any particular order)....-sufficient, intelligent, understanding, appreciative, sharing, saucy, thoughtful, cute, friendly, and a great sense of humor ;)At least those are the words my friends use to describe me .... I'm sure there are a few others that they just didn't want to say (to my face anyway LOL) ... after all nobody's perfect ..especially me.I work 5 days a week and try to spend lots of time with my kids too. I will make time for the right person but you must understand that my children come first. If this bothers you then please move on ...I'll wait for the right one.I'm not your typical girl. I'm not all clingy, I wont be calling you or texting every ten minutes. I expect you to have time on your own with your friends and me with mine as well as time together. I like to cuddle but don't like to be smothered. I am looking for a relationship but not willing to settle for the next guy that comes along. I'm comfortable enough in my own skin to be single until I find the right one. I don't believe you can come even remotely close to knowing someone by what they write about themselves. I'm very easy going and super friendly. I live life for the moment and my kids are my world. If you want to know more you will just need to message me. First date - short and quickHave a drink or go for a walk on the pier to see if we click or not. If we click we can set up a second longer date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 21-31

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  • Josephine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi a little about me. I'm very down to earth, honest, and compasionate. I love to have fun, but I also know when to be responsibal.I enjoy an inquisitive mind and a youthful sprit.I am an artist, I sculpt paint and much more. I have good a full time job that pays the bills. One of my favorate things to do is walk, in the city or forest. I see my self as very open minded I'll check out almost anything once. So if you like to play and have fun in life lets talk.NO PIC NO REPLY

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