Total users: 61,891,293 Online users: 223,079
Aisha, 47
United States, Colorado, Loveland

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Mar 2026 16:34:39

About Me

updateOctober 18th ***Hi guys! It seems my visiting this site recently has put me at the top of the viewing list as I have gotten many responses lately and I thank you all for doing so. I have hesitated replying back to any of the messages because a couple things have changed for me recently, very recently, and I fear is that those changes may not be those charicaristics you want in the person you are looking for. In reviewing my profile everything is pretty much the same as when I originally put this online about 6 months ago except for the fact that a couple months ago my boss decided to replace me with a computer software program. Hope that is working out for him but I have found being unemployed is one of my least favorite things in the world to be. Because in the past I have not been the kind of gal who saved money for an emergency...I am now finding myself in more than a bind. I could describe this but it's kind of depressing and quite frankly I'm not looking for a pity party. It's actually very embarrassing to admit this. So, what my primary goal in giving everyone this update is to be honest and let you know there is a real possibility you may not think I'm so great right now and may want to check back in a couple months. Hopefully, I will be back to my normal my happy go lucky self having shed this rain this quite massive raincloud that's over my head. I wish everyone well and completely understand if after reading this update you choose to pass me up for now. LoLMy original post:Hello- Thanks for taking the time to read my post! Lets start off with the preliminaries, shall we? ***About Me***I am in my mid forties, 5’4, reddish brown hair – fairly long, have bright blue eyes, and my weight and height are proportionate. We all have things if given the opportunity we may change about ourselves, but overall I like what I see in the mirror. Happy to say that once in a blue moon I still get those random "Hey Baby" glances so it seems there are others that like the view as well. I have been divorced a long time and raised my 2 daughters as a single mom. Proud to say they are 26 and 27, each forging their own paths in this world. Yes..they flew the coupe and I now have all this time on my hands. Even though my boss LOVES the production,I am not continuing down that road of "all work and no play". Work is something we do (for obvious reasons) not who we are. So..not being the kind of gal that hangs out at bars by herself, or dates people I work with, I thought this would be as good a place as any to see if I may meet someone special. Yes..I admit it. I am hoping to be saved from another friend or family member setting me up on a date with SOMEONE THEY KNOW THAT WOULD BE JUST PERFECT FOR ME (roflmao) Although I do cherish friendships, my goal is not to be a career dater. I am really wanting a committed relationship should the right guy come along. I would love to connect with someone to enjoy life with, to share laughter with and crave physical intimacy from (yes that is important to girls too!) I hope to find a relationship based on mutual respect with true and honest consideration for eachother. Communication is always key but I want to share a comfort level where times of complete silence are not awkward but embracing. I want that true friendship that encourages our individualities. Lets see here,I dont have any emotional baggage I carry around, I don’t nag, am definately not a drama queen. I am not a psycho, not a gold digger, and frankly not a very good cook. (Terrible would best describe my cooking ablilities) I listen as well as I speak. I like to be goofy and playful and have a bit of a warped sense of humor. On whole - I am an optmistic person (tempered with that little bit of skepticism that age has bestowed). I love scary movies – but can’t watch them alone. I love music – it is a foundation for me. I care about my appearance. I have manners and am comfortable in just about any social setting. I love being feminine and seek strength in a man (verrry sexy). If or when conflict arises, I always try to put myself in the other person’s shoes in attempt to see the other point of view. I will occasionally have a cigarette, and drink socially. If this in anyway is offensive to you, we will not be a good match. About you: You are between 47 & 55. You are intelligent, funny, goofy, strong, compasionate, patient, some-times compulsive, confident, and enjoy life. You are hopefully a little taller than me so that on occasion I can wear a pair of heels and not tower over you. You don’t have a difficult time showing affection to someone you feel worthy of receiving it. You care about your appearance. You have pride in the work or job you do – regardless of what it is. You possess the rare ability to say what is on your mind not only honestly but tactfully. You dont scare easily (I need someone to bury my head into when watching a scary movie.) You have time in your schedule to spend with a special someone. You are not closed off to the possibility of a long-term relationship should the right girl come along.I think this is a good start. If you are interested in what I have said and think we may have something in common – please feel free to drop me a line. Please – a little more than just “hi” would be nice – although it is a good icebreaker, it doesn’t tell me anything about you…. whatever feels comfortable for both of us

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Mexican Middle Eastern Portuguese Thai Family & Kids Martial Arts Dance Motorcycle Racing
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Nichole from Loveland | Woman | 46 years old | Aries
    Nichole

    Offline

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I know what i want when someone just bedazzles me. What that means is a feeling i will get so for now heres a little about me. I am a relaxed, nonjudgemental individual that is drama free and do not play games. I like variety in life . I love to laugh and live life to the fullest. I have a variety of interests and travel quite a bit for pleasure. Communication is very important to me as well and maturity and having a intelligent conversation. I am an independent person. I have balance in my life..l love a sense of humor in a person. I enjoy the outdoors, anything on the water...I love my job which keeps me learning new things everyday...I love baseball and watching football, tennis and golf..I have returned to school which I love... I am looking for adventurous people and know what they want... Serious people only apply!! I am not a serial dater. Something different and unsual but a good cup of joe is great as well...

    Chat
  • Adrienne from Loveland | Woman | 47 years old | Virgo
    Adrienne

    Offline

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Fun -wine -brandy old fashioned's- vball- Xcountry skiing -hiking -trail cycling I am a very friendly/ social person and can be somewhat silly/goofy at times. I love to laugh and feel that it is so important to have laughter in a relationship and be able to have fun no matter what!

    Chat
  • Nikki from Loveland | Woman | 46 years old | Gemini
    Nikki

    Offline

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am looking for someone who loves to live life. Works hard and plays hard. Loves to travel, cook, read, watch movies, trying new things, and isn't afraid to step out of their comfort zone. I love live music, dancing, and trying new restaurants. Spur of the moment day trips or even long weekends away. Long walks and great conversations. My kids have flown the coop and I am learning to enjoy all my free time. I believe in life it's important to be able to acknowledge your mistakes, fight fair and with passion, be willing to be fully open and honest, respect and love yourself, so you can do the same for others, and always be willing and open to hear others opinions, ideas, and thoughts. I love my job work a lot, but it is NOT who I am. I know how to take time off and I know when to relax. I am looking for someone to ENHANCE my life not complete it. That man has to be completely available mentally and emotionally. Be willing to do what it takes to make a relationship work. Be open and honest. Be trusting and trustworthy. Be comfortable in his own skin and proud of his life even his mistakes.The reality is we all have baggage, but it's how you handle it that counts. Not thinking you don't have any, cause that's never true...not at our age.Some fun facts about me - I can run a skid loader and love it. I am a master with a chain saw. My favorite places to shop include flea markets, book stores, cooking stores, any kind of home improvement store, and well yes...shoe stores. Other than that I am not a great shopper. I have jumped out of a perfectly good airplane and loved every minute of it. I golf and enjoy it...yet I can honestly say Bloody Marys help :) I truly enjoy sports both playing them and watching them...especially the Gophers both Basketball and Hockey I love to cook anything and everything. Oh and I love the Volkswagen commercial of the dad and son who can't throw a baseball to save their lives!! There is a lot more I could say, but I think we need to have something to talk about...don't you?? All depends on the weather

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: