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Wendy, 52
United States, Tennessee, Franklin

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Nov 2025 03:49:01

About Me

This is the short version:I love to kick back with a glass of wine or pint of beer or forge ahead into the great outdoors. I'm a paddler and have my own canoe. I love adventuring in the city or out. I am a cat lady though dogs are cool too (and kids).I like midnight swims, spring showers, cooking over an open fire, dinners with friends, jeans and sweaters, good food, ice-cream, strong coffee (and 5 minute steeped tea). I like badminton, movies, books, dancing, singing, gardening, kissing, hiking, camping, feeling the wind against my face and the crunch of snow under my feet. I like to howl at the moon but I'm sometimes shy and need a push. Other times I light up a room.This is the longer version:I wanted to keep my profile short but perhaps I need to speak more to who I am and what it is I'm looking for. Perhaps this will narrow the responses I get...I only need one.I'm not lonely. I like where I'm at in my life. I like what I do, the things I've discovered about myself and the roads I've traveled down. I have a great family and a wonderful and ever growing group of friends. If I find someone to hold hands with ...well, that would be lovely and that's why I'm here.I want that special feeling that two people have when they look at each other across a crowded room. It's cliche, but it works.We need to be on the same page when it comes to humour. There's no hope if we can't make each other laugh. I can be silly, the clown, witty, dry, sarcastic or just cute and goofy. If you can make me laugh you will win my heart. I hope that's how I will win yours.Dancing. I love to dance. If you dance like a crazy ass punk rocker than we may be perfect for each other. This is not a prerequisite. It would just be nice.I almost didn't put relationship because it puts so much pressure on that first meeting. Or maybe even more so on the next which would really be our first date. The first meeting is really to see if we're on the same page or at the very least, the same chapter. And see if there's an attraction.It's important. Attraction. For women it's not necessarily how good looking you are. It could be your words, your confidence, your shyness or boldness. It could be your love of the outdoors or the way you smile. I like earnestness. I like handy men. I like soul. I like someone that isn't afraid to get his hands dirty. I like passion both with me and for the world. You needn't be vocal about your love of people and the earth. You just need to have it. It's important to me that your political views lean more to the left. I work-out because I have bad knees. I don't have a drop dead gorgeous body. I work-out so I can do the things I enjoy and not kill myself. I like to relax. I'm pretty laid back and so not high energy. I simply like to do a lot of different things. This doesn't mean I have an insurmountable amount of energy. In fact I need my down time. I'm not always good at communicating my feelings but I think it a very important part of keeping a relationship healthy. I like discussion. But I don't think we need to fill all the silence with words either. We all deserve respect and kindness. If we meet, let's keep it simple and easy and maybe at the very least have some intelligent conversation and a few laughs.I'm pragmatic. It's the journey, not the destination. Ok...the destination is good too!Yikes - That's one freakin' long profile. :) Let's meet and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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