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Irma, 44

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I'm a mom first and foremost but I think balance is very important- I always carve out time for myself and my friends and family. And right off the bat I need to say I'm not looking for a father for my kids. They have a good dad. And to that end I keep my dating life entirely separate from my kid's lives, just FYI. ;-)When I'm with my boys I will likely be in flip flops and a tank top with my hair up in a pony tail. I'm usually at the beach searching for critters at the tide pool or out in the waves with my oldest who surfs. But then when I'm not with my kids, I let my hair down (literally and figuratively!) and will rock my 6 inch stilettos and little black dress for a night out. ;-) I work very hard so I like to set aside time to play hard occasionally. But then come Monday morning I'm focused and back to working my tail off!I'm very fit- I run, bike or and/or lift weights almost every day and am definitely looking for someone who shares the same active, healthy lifestyle. I recently have started taking cross fit classes- ouch but I love it! And yes I'm a very healthy eater. You will never find me at a McDonalds although you may run into me at Whole Foods or a local juice joint. When I have a free night I usually like to get together with friends. I love checking out the latest hot spot, but I also enjoy a cozy night staying in and cooking with a nice glass of wine in hand. I think my friends would describe me as smart, genuine, loyal, dependable, caring, supportive, optimistic and down-to-earth. I'm "a giver"- that friend who organizes your birthday party and brings you soup when you are sick.I'm 5 years post-divorce and looking for someone who has similarly "moved on" and is in a good place. We all have our baggage (hey I've got 3 adorable carry-ons! :***but most important is that you have taken the journey, lived and learned. To that end, I prefer to date divorced dads who "get" my journey and where I'm at.I'm most attracted to outgoing "type A" personalities. Intelligence, wit and self-confidence are huge turn-ons. If you are tall or don't mind me being a little taller than you when I wear those platform stilettos then bonus! ;-)Also, yes my pics are current (although I'm NOT photogenic) and my age accurate, although most people guess my age to be around 35. I also prefer to date men close to my chronological age rather than whatever age I may appear to be...... ;-) Let's just grab a cup of coffee and chat!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Melba

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    The simple things in life make me happy, and I believe happiness comes from within. I enjoy gazing at the stars while on the beach listening to the waves under God's flashlight. My favorite time of year is Autumn. I love the chill in the air when you walk outside and take your first breath of fall, the roar from the stands on gameday theres nothing like it... Roll Tide Roll. I love thunderstorms and lighting shows nature fascinates me. I enjoy all types of music, and I am drawn to talented people. I am a southern woman with values and I enjoy culture, but I also enjoy a beer at a ballgame. I do know who drove #3 but do not have a memoral set up in my home.. I enjoy laughter and quiet times snuggling on the couch watching a good movie. I like true stories, suspense thrillers and of course chic flicks, but I would not torture you by making you watch one with me. I have always been attracted to men who read (other than the sports section) and a stimulating conversation to me is very satisfying.. I have been known to ramble but that is mainly when I am nervous. When I am comfortable and content I do not ramble "as much". I do believe in good relationships, and I think two people should compliment one another, and work as a team..to become "One".If you are interested in meeting please send me an e-mail. I know what I want and I know what I don't want. So let's give it a chance ... I look forward to hearing from you."Love doesn't make the world go round...Love is what makes the ride worth while" ************************************************************************************************ A nice dinner with conversation.... maybe even a good night kiss!

  • Concetta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    It was time to update the profile so here it goes: I am actually described by people who know me as a very warm, loving, caring, kind person with a wicked sense of humor. I love to laugh and love to make people laugh. However having said that I have a serious, deep thinking side to me as well. I am as trustworthy and as honest as they come. I am also a very sincere person as well i don't say something unless i mean it. I don't sugar coat things to spare people's feelings but I also have a very good sense of tact as well and know when to keep my opinions to myself. I am very loyal and when I find "the one" I want it to be for life this time. No cheaters or players. However having said that I am interested in and hoping to make some great new friends along the way as well. I am not a bar fly or a party girl by any means anymore I did that in my 20's and got it out of my system! I don't mind a nice dinner at a pub or a nice restaurant once in a while but I prefer a quiet night at home relaxing and cuddling on the couch maybe watching a movie or just discussing the day or spending the evening around a backyard fire pit with friends in the summertime of course. Please no heavy drinkers or alcoholics i have been down that road with disastrous results and don't care to find myself in that situation again. having said that i do not mind being in the company of someone who has a few drinks just not into watching someone get drunk. I do not drink myself anymore (maybe once a year i will indulge in a couple screwdrivers) but that is about the extent of it. I am a jeans and t-shirt girl for the most part and i don't mind getting dirty at all as long as there is a body of water or a shower not too far away where i can get cleaned up afterwards! I DO like to get all dolled up for special occasions though. Although i am not at all conceited i know that i am a nice looking woman but there is a great personality behind the nice looks and I have a lot to offer as a person if you take the time to look deeper than the nice looks. I believe that a person should be beautiful on the inside as well as the outside and that is the kind of person I try to be and the kind of person i am looking for. I am aware that good looks do not always involve a lot of muscles and a trim sleek body but i do want to find someone who takes care of themselves and keeps themselves in decent shape that is important. I am also and have always been young at heart but not immature so i enjoy the company of men that are younger as well as older than myself and it has been my experience that men younger and older than me enjoy my company as well:) lol I am not into playing games with people's hearts and minds and i cannot stand drama if i wanted to deal with drama i would find my own! I have some baggage but it has been dealt with and has been packed away. I am friendly and maintain a good relationship with my ex the father of my boys as i think that it is important for the boys to see their parents be kind to each other and because all around it just makes things easier. In the end I hope to find that person that i feel that spark with, have a great time with, who treats me well and with respect, and who i can love with everything i am and will love me back. I am not desperate and am willing to wait for what i really want but i am also hoping to make some good friends and want to get out and have a good time with some new people. Hopefully that is not too tall an order. I enjoy long walks, car shows, mud bogs, quadding, boating, camping, swimming, travelling (with someone), cuddling on the couch and watching TV or movies. Going to the river for the day or an afternoon on beautiful summer days is an absolute favorite of mine. I have a wide variety of music tastes. My favorite ones are pop/rock, dance, opera music, and a bit of country. PLEASE NOTE: no picture of you=no answer from me. Thank you:)Any questions please feel free to ask and I will tell you.If I have peeked your interest then feel free to message me:) We will discuss it and decide what we will both be most comfortable doing:)

  • Eddie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Looking for someone outgoing, funny , no drama, no endless texting and no games!! I love spending time with family and friends, anything outdoors and watching the Yankees:). Life is too short to be taken so seriously all the time, live it and have fun.Here is what I'm NOT interested in.. endless *** go nowhere , nonsense and I'm not interested in talking about sex the first 5 minutes after we start speaking!! If you are looking for a friend with benefits please keep looking , it's not me.I am only looking for someone between ***.

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