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Tessa, 44
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

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About Me

Are you a man with heart and with soul? A man who looks beyond the surface?Do you have an active mind? Are you a thinker and an observer? Snowboarding (it's ok if you ski), hiking, swimming in lakes or the ocean, rock climbing, cycling, camping...or we can try yoga!I'm seeking a man to play with and a man to come home to. A man who can amp it up and then chill it down. A man who can build things with his hands. A man who reads between the lines but still colours outside of them. Are you a romantic?The first two things I look at on a man are his eyes and his hands. Hands can tell you so much about a person...Me?-to-earth, artistic, fashionable, athletic, philosophical, handy with power tools, business-minded, and well-traveled. Life is for living - good food, good wine and good conversation. I contribute to my community through volunteer work and "giving back". I'm looking for nothing more than what I am myself - which means a co-conspirator to compare notes with, play, travel, create, build a home and family and dream with. I'm not ever looking to "settle down" in the ordinary sense yet I hold fast to the wisdom of traditional values. One of my happy places in on a tropical beach at sunset in a sarong and flip flops. A strong relationship takes chemistry, connection, communication and commitment. Are you game? I used to be very serious about a number of things...running in circles and dancing on my tippy toes for a start. I'm an artist, an analyst and a bohemian. I use both sides of my brain.I also really love a big vocabulary...might you be my man? A simple opportunity to talk, maybe walk, and get to know each other or something completely different.....I'm now a backcountry splitboarder which is amazing!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues R&B Walking English French Indian Japanese Thai Baseball Soccer / Football Volleyball
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