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Tessa, 44

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About Me

Are you a man with heart and with soul? A man who looks beyond the surface?Do you have an active mind? Are you a thinker and an observer? Snowboarding (it's ok if you ski), hiking, swimming in lakes or the ocean, rock climbing, cycling, camping...or we can try yoga!I'm seeking a man to play with and a man to come home to. A man who can amp it up and then chill it down. A man who can build things with his hands. A man who reads between the lines but still colours outside of them. Are you a romantic?The first two things I look at on a man are his eyes and his hands. Hands can tell you so much about a person...Me?-to-earth, artistic, fashionable, athletic, philosophical, handy with power tools, business-minded, and well-traveled. Life is for living - good food, good wine and good conversation. I contribute to my community through volunteer work and "giving back". I'm looking for nothing more than what I am myself - which means a co-conspirator to compare notes with, play, travel, create, build a home and family and dream with. I'm not ever looking to "settle down" in the ordinary sense yet I hold fast to the wisdom of traditional values. One of my happy places in on a tropical beach at sunset in a sarong and flip flops. A strong relationship takes chemistry, connection, communication and commitment. Are you game? I used to be very serious about a number of things...running in circles and dancing on my tippy toes for a start. I'm an artist, an analyst and a bohemian. I use both sides of my brain.I also really love a big vocabulary...might you be my man? A simple opportunity to talk, maybe walk, and get to know each other or something completely different.....I'm now a backcountry splitboarder which is amazing!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Caitlin

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am pretty laid back for the most part. Like to laugh and have a good time. Laughter is great medicine!!! I like to be goofy and make ppl laugh.. I enjoy sporting events. I do prefer college football over pro . . . just saying. Love to go to concerts and to see local bands. Love to have nights out with a group of girl and guy friends. I like to get out on the dance floor when there's something decent to dance to. Enjoy time with my two teenage daughters though the older they get the less time I seem to have with them. I am not into games or a man that has/is drama. I know what I am looking for in a man.....I am picky according to my friends and girls. LOL My friends describe me as sweet, sexy and sassy. There are many things that come to mind but I think it is not as much of what you are doing as who you are doing it with that can make any first date great!

  • Karin

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I like to fish cook camping I want somebody that is honest and can be there self laid back I like to laugh and just get along don't like drama I like music fishing movies

  • Raquel

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    For many years I thought I had life figured out, then curve ball after curve ball came my way. I always tell my kids, you always have a choice, you may not like the choices but you still have a choice. I chose to move forward and try to make the best of things. I enjoy working out, when I have the time. Taking a yoga class, zumba class or some boxing is actually fun. The work is trying to find the time to go. There are many things I like to do but I don't think they are hobbies. I love movies, going on walks, trying new things and living life to the fullest. I am curently going through some career changes but my goal is to find something I look forward to doing every day. I love a wide array of music and basically only draw the line at polka but with a beer or two even polka sounds good. I have done the 20's drinking years, 30's child bearing years, and a long marriage. I am looking for trying new things but very much enjoy nights at home as well. Is there someone out there that thinks we could be a good fit? I haven't been on a first date for 17 years. I think the main thing for me is a plan. I don't want to do the, where do you want to go, what should we do.... Secondly, even if you don't think we will hit it off, at least listen and treat me well. Be kind, talk with me and for goodness sakes, look me in the eyes. I think I would want my first date to be at a park (biking, hiking, walking, talking) and dinner at someplace out of the ordinary like a little known cafe or mom/pop place.

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