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Whitney, 44
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 11:48:07

About Me

I am energetic with a great sense of humour. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am known for my quick wit and ability to laugh at myself. Much of my time is spent at kids sporting events - hockey in winter, soccer in summer (maybe a little on the loud side - but I like to call that Spirit) I like all kinds of music from classic 70's to what's out today. When I grow up I want to be a rock star, until then I will stick with karaoke and figuring out how to make a difference in this world. I am alot of fun (I have references... ;)) and am never to serious but do have a deep analytical side for thoughtful conversation. I love watching hockey (and am leafs fan to the core) and football yes - once I came to learn the rules (or the jist anyway)I am very sarcastic in a non malicious way and let's just say I am the,'class clown' of my office, never a dull moment, if I can help it.I have many friends and my best friendships have endured 3 decades, to quote sally field 'they really like me' (OR maybe they just feel sorry for me...yikes)and I like them. I am a bit of chatter box but full of passion and life...Lets face it I am female and have an emotional side as much as I hate to admit it, but it's in check and reasonable.I can converse with anybody anywhere- dare me...c'mon...and through a strengths test it was determined that my main strength is 'woo', I know...thought the same thing... 'what the heck is woo'...doesn't even sound like a real thing...but lo and behold it means 'winning others over'..... geez..My most firm belief is everything happens for a reason and what is meant to be will be - have to believe in something in this crazy world. I have kids - and they are number one and will always be. I am a mom (and eveerrryyyyything that goes along with that) first. Yes, the loudest cheerer at kids sporting events. "there's no crying in hockey'!!!! What I would like...well.. I don't have a type so to speak (or maybe I do, who knows).. apparently I use '....' a lot, annoying or endearing?, you decide..Anyway, humour is a must...perhaps someone to get me out of shell (which is probably the size of a pistachio shell)... look I am out....wow...that was fast...The obvious, honesty, compassion and sincerity are definite musts and well with me what you see is what you get...Respect and kindness.. we are grown ups here..There, off my soapbox...!! Phew! probably always awkward, uneasy, nerve racking - so how do you avoid that .... lol? KARAOKE bar!!! What could seem weird after that humiliation? Ok who am I kidding, it will take more then that for me to get embarrassed. And if you are at all worried - I have no problem with conversation and if all else fails we can talk about me....yes ok I can take the bullet here, I am so giving......Kiddddinggggg....coffee - in a crowded place in daylight, or something... ..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Drama Horror Romance Sport Soccer / Football
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