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Lynette, 44
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

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I am divorced with 2 kids who are both over 18 the oldest is married with kids so I have grandkids. I have a stable job that I have had for 15 yrs now. I am a positive person who tries to find the good in every situation. I am looking to date with long term in the future. I don't do one night stands or fwb. I am honest an upfront I do not cheat. I have been through a lot which I am sure most have. I just do not take it out on the next person. I believe you do have to know about each other past somewhat in order to know about each other. But I believe it is more how you deal with what you have been through that it has made you a better person not a bitter person. I am not like most but that is for you to find out. I do believe that attraction is something you have to have.Also please have all your teeth and keep them clean and in good shape mine are not perfect but I have them and they are not rotten or missing just something I am big on sorry. Or you will not contact me I am just honest enough to put it out here. It is not everything but you do have to have it an chemistry u can be attracted but not have chemistry. But there is much more. I have a second job now selling It Works http://makeoverbymichelle.myitworks.com some awesome wraps and other products they are all natural tighten, tone, firm along with other things(men get your six pack back) I have lost a lot of weight thur these products an got healthier with the all natural products I am now off my bp meds thanks to them as of ***and I have been on them for years and have been off my chol. meds for awhile now too. You should check it out. Son is going to college an going to be going into the army in the future. I work with kids and ones that are special needs I think they are so special and gods gift so if you are someone who make fun of those pass me on by. I am someone who does not do drama I avoid it as much as possible. I do not like to fight or argue. I believe you should be able to talk about things. An when something is bothering you don't just let it build and build say something and talk. Other wise it ends up building into a big thing later on. Communication is the key to a good relationship. An trust and honesty are a must. I am a happy with me and do not need a man to make me happy. It would just be a better thing. I have a sense of humor and I am laid back and enjoy laughing and I think you can have a good time doing anything with the right person. I like country music an older rock. Not a bar person at least not to go get drunk but to take a motorcycle ride or to go hang out with people or listen to a band. Just not a every day thing. I like nascar ,movies and cuddling. Along with many of other things. Feel free to contact me an ask me questions I am honest an upfront don't be shy.Update: I am done with physical therapy my all natural products seem to help more with being hurt then anything and help with the healing process I will be back to work by next school year.I am going back to work woo hoo thanks to my all natural products and finding the right physical therapist too. Hope everyone is having a great time be happy with yourself first then you will be able to be happy with someone else.And not sure why you add me as a favorite or want to meet me and do not send me a message I do not bite! I upgraded my phone lost all my country music and trying to figure out all this new stuff. Yes I was old school with old slide out and no internet phone lol. And was very happy but had to upgrade so if for my job there was a accident or bad weather and needed to reroute oh well need to figure out how to get ringtones without paying for them again on this phone. As these are terrible. lol I think the first date should be something casual somewhere were you can talk and get to know each other. To see if you get along with not so much pressure. The second date to me is the better one. I think you kinda decide by talking an seeing what each other wants.***\\\***Put this ***On your ***Profile if ***Someone***\\\***You know***\\***died***\ ***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---or who may be fighting it***!!!***Put this on your ***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces also to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***May her lakes and rivers bless you. May the luck of the Irish enfold you. May the blessing of the Lord behold you God Bless!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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