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Alma, 43
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

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About Me

I am a non smoking 40 something educated professional women. I have been divorced for several years. I have two VERY active boys; soccer, baseball, basketball, swimming, track so on.....They keep me on my toes. I also play a great deal of softball in my limited free time. I enjoy, dinners out and going to sporting events. I like to sit on the couch and watch a baseball (Tigers) game or a Lions or Steelers game. I like to camp, and go on the occaisional weekend get away. I love to be around friends, at a bon fire or a barbeque. I love the beach and the lake. I am a mood listener when it comes to music, I like all of it, but not necessarily RAP or hip hop. I can be a very sweet and caring person, but I am very protective of my children. I love to cook, and try new things. My favorite food is sushi, or a nice steak. I have had very little luck in dating, and relationships, so I figured I would try this for a bit...I don't want just a casual fling, so if that is all your interested in, please don't contact me, this is overwhelming enough! I don't want to have anymore children (um really) but I do want the man I meet to have children, family is VERY important to me! I would like a guy that knows when to have fun and when to be serious, and can function comfortably in all settings.....ie: play hard, and also be responsible.*****I am looking for a professional, someone who is comfortable with putting on dress pants and tie, and then the next day wearing jeans and casual shirt or clothes to play in the mud. Someone that is comfortable in any situation and is serious but knows how to let loose and have fun! ********** As flattered as I am, I really am not looking for someone alot younger. I can not have anymore kids, and I don't feel that it is fair, I have lived that portion of my life, I am looking for someone that is raising their children, or have raised them and moved on to another chapter. I am sorry (it does make me feel good though) I think the first date should be a dinner out, as it is the most casual, comfortable, and gives you time to talk and get to know each other. OR feel free to wisk me off to a tropical island for that drink at sunset! jk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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