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Lynette, 43

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About Me

I have been in upstate now for about 10 yrs... I was married 20 yrs...legally separated last 5 yrs and living in separate states.I am BBW ( hate that term ), but it is what it is. I am 5'8 and 250s. I am changing some old habits and working on becoming healthier..it is a work in progress. I am straight forward, no b.s., sometimes that works in my favor, sometimes it does not..lolI like to go out, when time permits (I do have my priorities)..but when I do go out..I love to have fun and cut loose.PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, be somewhat local :)If you like to know more then ask me.Thanks and happy fishing! to be determined upon chatting :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Natasha

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am very friendly and upbeat--some might even say bubbly! I'm very giving and I have a great heart, I like to laugh (even at myself) and if it's quick wit and spunk you want-- I'm your girl. I love animals and I'm a volunteer for Brown Dog Foundation. It's a non profit organization that assists in saving the life of a domestic pet (cat or dog) during an owner's temporary financial hardship, when the pet can be restored to enjoy a quality of life....I'm a white wine girl not red.....I have a fascination with Giraffes....I have TONS of amazing friends and I'm close with them all--you will love them!What am I looking for...? Well, my ideal mate will be secure and confident with himself, ambitious, honest, smart, witty, and most importantly --he will bring out the best in me! I want to be the girl that lights up your face when you look at me and makes your heart race when I grab your hand. If you want a funny, fiery, smart, outgoing, THOUGHTFUL, girl***by all means, introduce yourself!Oh wait.....MUST love dogs***: ) Something not so typical is always a nice change ;)

  • Anna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey there!..About me – I am a happy, independent, outgoing girl with a positive attitude. I am confident, funny, easy going, and take good care of myself. I love spending time around the pool or veggin’ at the beach, but the Fall is my favorite time of year. I enjoy watching pro football/golf, grilling out, and taking advantage of a nice fire in the fireplace. I have 2 kids - I share joint custody of them every other week. No ex drama by the way, we are still friends and he is a good dad. I have only been married once - for 16 years. I like various types of music, usually alternative, dancehall reggae, and popular country. I believe that solid physical AND emotional chemistry is a must, one doesn’t work without the other. About you – I am hoping to find a great guy that wants to start out as friends with the possibility of a monogamous relationship down the road. Looking for an all around good man who also has a great sense of humor and southern boy charm. I would like to find someone that likes to go places and do things but is laid back, not someone that is high strung or has to be constantly on the go. If you enjoy skydiving, extreme sports, consider yourself to be a daredevil, or have the 'need for speed' or constant adventure we would probably not be a good match. A guy that enjoys being near the water, grilling out, or just relaxing with family and friends is more my style. Someone that is a great dad and is actively involved in the lives of his kids and is serious about finding that special person to share his life with. DEAL BREAKERS - I am NOT looking for someone that:- is fresh out of a marriage or long term relationship - has really young kids - is other than white - is unemployed (it has been my experience on this site that 'self employed' = unemployed most of the time, so be honest about your situation)- lives with his parents or other family members due to financial problems I could write a book and make millions on all the hilarious situations and psychos I have run into thru online dating. A few dates I have been on would be worthy of their own chapters! I come to the table free and clear of baggage and am in a good position to be a real partner.- I am not in the rescue business. Whatever we decide is comfortable.

  • Odessa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm laid back and can enjoy doing just about anything if I'm doing it with the right person. I like being outside, but also enjoy reading a book on a rainy weekend. I do my best to live a drama-free life, and to always be kind to everyone I meet. I don't have any kids of my own, but I enjoy children of all ages. I'm a bit of an adrenaline junkie - I've jumped out of a couple small airplanes and I always ride in the front car of the roller coaster. I have a great life and I can take care of myself, but as good as life already is, I'd love to have someone to share it with. I'm looking for someone to share a pizza and make me laugh. The right person for me will be a good tipper and will always be polite to the waiter/waitress, even when a mistake is made. I think that says a lot about a person. He'll be a hard worker who likes to learn new things and enjoys a mix of going out and relaxing at home. And he'll still be holding my hand and sneaking kisses when we're old. Beau Beagle also requests that he be good at massaging his head in little circles under his floppy beagle ears. For a first date, I'd really enjoy doing something low-key - maybe a museum or doing something outside together.

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