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Lynette, 43

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About Me

I have been in upstate now for about 10 yrs... I was married 20 yrs...legally separated last 5 yrs and living in separate states.I am BBW ( hate that term ), but it is what it is. I am 5'8 and 250s. I am changing some old habits and working on becoming healthier..it is a work in progress. I am straight forward, no b.s., sometimes that works in my favor, sometimes it does not..lolI like to go out, when time permits (I do have my priorities)..but when I do go out..I love to have fun and cut loose.PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, be somewhat local :)If you like to know more then ask me.Thanks and happy fishing! to be determined upon chatting :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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