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Selena, 43
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

Offline, last seen Sat, 16 May 2026 18:09:25

About Me

I believe that no great relationship can last without true friendship. Looks bring people together but the personality and chemistry is what keeps the relationship going. Integrity, honesty and honor are qualities that mean something to me, hopefully this is you too? A great sense of humor will win me over and if you can't laugh at the situation, something is definitely wrong, I like to have fun and smile and enjoy life. I love relaxing by the river watching the boats and sunsets. I enjoy a date where we do something fun and spontaneous and if you like to dance and listen to live music that is a great bonus!I have a very strong Faith and God is #1 in my life. Hopefully there are a few men with Faith left? If you also like working out (running is great) .. I try to stay healthy but every once and awhile I gotta have Taco Bell, In and Out Burger or Pizza :) Age really isn't important because it is the maturity of the person in the body that makes the difference. I am not looking for a relationship with someone in their early 20's. Sorry but that is just tooooo young :) If you believe that a relationship is what happens on a one night stand...don't *** is NOT why I am here I am hoping to find a guy who is looking for more than a text buddy or someone to call when he has nothing else to do. I don't need a guy with me 7 days a week but going out once every other month is not enouugh time to grow any relationship. I am here looking to date and eventually and hopefully find someone who would like to get off this site with me and end the crazy shopping process.Thanks for viewing my profile and if I haven't scared you away by now, feel free to message me. I know I didn't say too much about myself but if there is something you have to know, just ask...(keep it respectful please) If you message me and I do not reply forgive me..If I feel an attraction and think we might connect I will reply :) Simple yet creative is best :) I think we will both know in the first 20 minutes if there is chemistry or not. No need to drag things out :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Motorcycle Racing
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