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Sonja, 43

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 08:07:46

About Me

A little about me..First things first... I have a two year old that is with me most of the time.. he does have a father not looking for a replacement. I am a kind hearted, down to earth and honest woman. I can dress up and be classy or take a fish off a hook! Independent sometimes to a fault. I love holding hands and getting the unexpected kiss! I enjoy getting out and doing things.. anything.I have a great job that I enjoy and it allows me to provide a beautiful home for my little man! I will try new things. I can do some of my own renovations, have my own tools and cut my own grass! lol I enjoy the moments spent with my two year old son.Dinners in or dinner out. You cook or I cook. Theatre, travel or cuddling in front of t.v.Red wine always takes the stress of the day away. :)I have travelled, I have lived.. I have had a good life so far. Just need a partner in crime! Lol About you? You must be kind and caring, tall and intelligent. And did I mention that you value honesty? You can take a fish off a hook! I would prefer if you were a father as I think a parent understands how children change your world and become your priority. Financially stable. I don't need someone I want someone to share my time and plan fun times! Spontaneous - last minute drives to anywhere. Handsome to me of course! Thoughtful and gentleman!! I have a 2 year old, so patience for me is important - I may not be able to give you all the attention you deserve when you want it! :-)Ps if you are looking for a MILF please hit the next button! I have too much respect for myself! A coffee and a smile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Virgie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    In a nutshell, I'm a pretty laid back, playful, affectionate, down to earth, romantic, passionate woman that loves to laugh and enjoy life. Looking for someone that I can spend my free time with, cook, movies, walks, relax, cuddle, discover new things and places, maybe build a great relationship with .. My ideal match is a confident, honest, compassionate, attentive, loyal,sensitive, kind man with a sense a humour...Someone That Is physically fit and That Has an elegant side to him.Btw I'm ***for your curiousity, I don't show up in your search at 47!) Coffee

  • Anna

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey there!..About me – I am a happy, independent, outgoing girl with a positive attitude. I am confident, funny, easy going, and take good care of myself. I love spending time around the pool or veggin’ at the beach, but the Fall is my favorite time of year. I enjoy watching pro football/golf, grilling out, and taking advantage of a nice fire in the fireplace. I have 2 kids - I share joint custody of them every other week. No ex drama by the way, we are still friends and he is a good dad. I have only been married once - for 16 years. I like various types of music, usually alternative, dancehall reggae, and popular country. I believe that solid physical AND emotional chemistry is a must, one doesn’t work without the other. About you – I am hoping to find a great guy that wants to start out as friends with the possibility of a monogamous relationship down the road. Looking for an all around good man who also has a great sense of humor and southern boy charm. I would like to find someone that likes to go places and do things but is laid back, not someone that is high strung or has to be constantly on the go. If you enjoy skydiving, extreme sports, consider yourself to be a daredevil, or have the 'need for speed' or constant adventure we would probably not be a good match. A guy that enjoys being near the water, grilling out, or just relaxing with family and friends is more my style. Someone that is a great dad and is actively involved in the lives of his kids and is serious about finding that special person to share his life with. DEAL BREAKERS - I am NOT looking for someone that:- is fresh out of a marriage or long term relationship - has really young kids - is other than white - is unemployed (it has been my experience on this site that 'self employed' = unemployed most of the time, so be honest about your situation)- lives with his parents or other family members due to financial problems I could write a book and make millions on all the hilarious situations and psychos I have run into thru online dating. A few dates I have been on would be worthy of their own chapters! I come to the table free and clear of baggage and am in a good position to be a real partner.- I am not in the rescue business. Whatever we decide is comfortable.

  • Tamera

    Offline

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Well - I feel I needed to modify my 'statement' since I've been on here a couple of months now. I appreciate most of the *** I have received, however, I don't 'do creepy'- so please don't waste my time (or yours with comments that aren't 'polite' - as I'm being now making THAT statement..LOL). Anyways, I will admit that looks do matter. I am NOT THE PERFECT PERSON and am not trying to be judgmental/critical (or whatever label you wanna call it), however chemistry does mainly start with visual attraction--but not always. I'm being bluntly honest and that's how I usually am most of the time. I'm the kinda girl that will tell you straight up so....Don't ask me a question if you don't wanna know MY answer. Most of my friends say I'm a man trapped in a women's body. Which is sorta true--haha. I feel I am all of the Sex in the City cast rolled into one. Romantic, funny, outgoing, adventurist and independent. Hopefully my new statement is appreciated by the right guy and we can start a new friendship. With that being said...back to my regularly (pre-recorded) statement...heheMy friends call me the tri-cities social director because I seem to be involved in so many events in the area. I have a lot of friends and try to help wherever I can. I am an only child and help my two independent parents when need be. I have a lunch date w/my dad every Thursday. :) I am a proud mom of my two grown children. I love to dance, listen to all kinds of music, play pool, cornhole, darts, ride horses, going to the beach, cooking and being with positive people- cuz life is too short!! First date should be casual- definitely somewhere public-because let's face it, i really don't know you (haha) BUT fun- there's enough pressure meeting face to face for the first time anyway.

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