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Jayne, 43

United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

Offline, last seen Sun, 04 Oct 2026 22:14:02

About Me

*Sorry to all you shy guys but quite honestly I don't take the time to check out who 'wants to meet me' or who made me a 'favourite'. If you are interested in connecting please send and ***!*Actually I'm already happy with my life as it is, I just think I'd be even happier with someone really amazing to share it with. I don't really need anyone to 'complete' me as I am a whole person, but that life long love and companion sounds like a pretty great thing to me.I'm a pretty active person and am looking for someone who enjoys getting up and getting moving, but the occasional movie curled up on the sofa is alright too. The key word here is "occasional"; I am DEFINITELY looking for an active person and a non-smoker. If you're tired of heading out for some fun and excitement while your woman sits on the sofa watching TV and eating bonbons then we could likely have some fun together.I'm very independent and am not looking for someone to 'take care of me' but that doesn't mean that I would mind being pampered or spoiled a bit. You will certainly get the same in return.I love to laugh, so much so that I tend to laugh when it isn't completely appropriate. This is not to say that I am disrespectful. The exact opposite actually, and a respectful nature is a must for me in a prospective mate.Mothers approve of me. Fathers wish they were 20 years younger ;)I am intelligent, but not terribly serious. I have a quick and sharp wit, so I hope you can laugh at yourself. You're welcome to laugh at me! Okay, so actually I'm a total goofball with a wide type 'A' streak. Odd combo but maybe I wear it well.I have my act together and find myself busy keeping all the balls in the air sometimes. I do, however, have my priorities straight and will certainly make time for a good honest man. I hope you're him!PLEASE!!! If you're not an upbeat and active guy that's fine, but maybe respond to profiles of all those lovely, wonderful and caring women who are more suited to your lifestyle. Also, I am assuming you have checked out my photos so include some of your own if you would like a reply from me. An actual message goes a long way with me compared to a 'flirt' or some other impersonal contact:) Also, I'm looking for a relationship not a pen-pal so please think through your intentions and availability if you live quite a distance away. Sorry about the lengthy disclaimer but I really just don't want to waste anyone's time.Thanks you wonderful fellas! Have a lovely day:) Something easy and relaxed in an atmosphere condusive to conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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