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Ilene, 32

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About Me

I would consider myself layed back and easy going. I have many close friends, friendship is one of the greater things I value in my life. I am a lover not a fighter, I dont like the feelings of resentment, anger, or hostility. I have been known to go out of my way to please others. I have a very open mind and am not here to judge others. Everyone has made mistakes, I am not perfect so I dont expect someone else to be. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and can hold my own, so dont dish it if you cant take it. I dont get offended very easily, its not worth letting others get to you. I am one of the few people that know the term compassion. I have a way of thinking from all angles and views and not just my own. At times I hate it..lol I am a single mom of 2 young boys. I come from a strong family background. I was raised with morals. I do have standards and know how to respect those around me. I believe there is a time and a place for everything. I am a simple woman who knows how to find joy in the little things in life. Money doesn't buy happiness nor love. I am not shallow, or high maintenance. I don't need nor do I have 50 different hand bags or shoes. My kids have more cloths then I do. They come first not me or anyone else. I like the idea of being swept off my feet by the guy on the first date, but thats my hopeless romantic side and I know it wont happen. So I can easily go for dinner and dancing just as well as I can go for shooting some pool and having some drinks. I guess its all about where the night leads. No expectations, no disappointments. I guess the biggest advise I could give is this: Intellect is my biggest turn on.I'm not short. I'm bigger and better things in a smaller package. I'm compact baby!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Misty

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm me, that's who I am!Yes I'm singleYes I'm 32No I don't date womenPlease guys let's not be boring, if you want someone's attention say more then "hi" say something awesome!!!! Might sting a little so just laugh it off!! Reasons I may not reply:1. Your flashing money in a profile pic trying to be a "baller".. Not impressive :-/2. You give me some super cheesy pick up line without an interesting comment to follow.3. You send me "?????" Because I didn't answer quick enough (I have a life outside of POF)4. You send me 10 messages in 5 minutes, really give me time to answer JESUS!! 5. Your a cowboys fan... Booooooo!!6. Your convo is super boring, bring something to the table guys!7. No picture... Ok so I'm pretty simple, easy going, and laid back. Don't do drama (we all say that) or crazy! I love beer and football; and football and beer!; however, I'm not against being friends with short people lol!Be as corny or cheesy as possible, laughing is my hobby! Anything that's not lame....Walk on the beach- lameBeer and football- not lameGoing to a movie- lameGoing for food or drinks- not lame (must have table manners if there's food involved)Cowboys- lameHouston Texans- not lame

  • Georgina

    Online

    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a single parent to a young son. He takes first priority in my life. I work in the mortgage field but am looking to go back to school. I am a very content person.... whether it is in the city or in the country. I don't do well with large crowds... would rather just a couple of friends in a quiet setting. I enjoy most kinds of music. I like watching drama shows on tv. I find it hard to sit through a full movie!Please note... I have been married in the past.... things will move very slowly. I am looking for someone to spend my life with... not someone to spend the night with.I am looking for someone that has a relationship with Christ. This is one of the items I feel that I can not compromise on. So if you message me and say that you are not religious, I will probably not respond. Sorry! Also, you have to live relatively close. It is hard to start any kind of relationship if the people can't meet up to do things!

  • Ivy

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I grew up in a small northern MN town, spending much of my time outdoors and yes...shooting pop cans off the fence post. I graduated early from high school and enlisted in active duty Air Force by the time I was 18, in which I was stationed at several places (Cali, Korea, Germany) prior to returning stateside in ***in which I transferred to reserves and cross trained into medtech-EMT and began nursing school. I was officially separated from the military in ***. I work at HCMC ER Level I Trauma Center, a job that I have worked hard to get into with perseverance. I continue to remain active between work, gym and spending time with friends and family. I love to travel and have been several places throughout Europe in which I hope to someday return. I crossed skydiving off my bucket list and completed another jump this past summer! I am adventurous, energetic and extremely independent (not to be confused with stubborn). While much of my spare time has been dedicated to my career, my dating life has thus suffered. I work 12hr shifts (days/overnights) so this is something a significant other would have to be understanding of. It also means I have much more free time! I am new to online dating but am willing to give it a try if it means meeting my possible soul mate. Who I am looking for: someone who is ambitious, hard working and independent but also loves to spend time with me (of course!). You must have some type or drive or passion in your life. If you are lazy, do not work or looking for a "sugar momma", please do not respond. I will most likely dominate you, walk all over you, chew you up and spit you out (just being honest). I want someone who can keep me on my toes, make me laugh and enjoy simple things together...someone who will bring out my best and vice versa. I am one of the most down to earth people you will meet, a girl that is not afraid to get down and dirty, wear combat boots and heels in the same day. I don't mean to sound intimidating, but I am also not going to apologize for being independent and successful. I am really just looking for that well-rounded, fun loving guy! I think first dates should be simple such as lunch or coffee. If there is potential, then there should be a "spark" during the first brief encounter.

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