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Ivy, 31
United States, New York, Utica

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About Me

I grew up in a small northern MN town, spending much of my time outdoors and yes...shooting pop cans off the fence post. I graduated early from high school and enlisted in active duty Air Force by the time I was 18, in which I was stationed at several places (Cali, Korea, Germany) prior to returning stateside in ***in which I transferred to reserves and cross trained into medtech-EMT and began nursing school. I was officially separated from the military in ***. I work at HCMC ER Level I Trauma Center, a job that I have worked hard to get into with perseverance. I continue to remain active between work, gym and spending time with friends and family. I love to travel and have been several places throughout Europe in which I hope to someday return. I crossed skydiving off my bucket list and completed another jump this past summer! I am adventurous, energetic and extremely independent (not to be confused with stubborn). While much of my spare time has been dedicated to my career, my dating life has thus suffered. I work 12hr shifts (days/overnights) so this is something a significant other would have to be understanding of. It also means I have much more free time! I am new to online dating but am willing to give it a try if it means meeting my possible soul mate. Who I am looking for: someone who is ambitious, hard working and independent but also loves to spend time with me (of course!). You must have some type or drive or passion in your life. If you are lazy, do not work or looking for a "sugar momma", please do not respond. I will most likely dominate you, walk all over you, chew you up and spit you out (just being honest). I want someone who can keep me on my toes, make me laugh and enjoy simple things together...someone who will bring out my best and vice versa. I am one of the most down to earth people you will meet, a girl that is not afraid to get down and dirty, wear combat boots and heels in the same day. I don't mean to sound intimidating, but I am also not going to apologize for being independent and successful. I am really just looking for that well-rounded, fun loving guy! I think first dates should be simple such as lunch or coffee. If there is potential, then there should be a "spark" during the first brief encounter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Canadian Italian Japanese Mexican Crime Drama Family & Kids Sport Thriller Sailing Snowboarding
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