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Ivy, 31
United States, New York, Utica

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About Me

I grew up in a small northern MN town, spending much of my time outdoors and yes...shooting pop cans off the fence post. I graduated early from high school and enlisted in active duty Air Force by the time I was 18, in which I was stationed at several places (Cali, Korea, Germany) prior to returning stateside in ***in which I transferred to reserves and cross trained into medtech-EMT and began nursing school. I was officially separated from the military in ***. I work at HCMC ER Level I Trauma Center, a job that I have worked hard to get into with perseverance. I continue to remain active between work, gym and spending time with friends and family. I love to travel and have been several places throughout Europe in which I hope to someday return. I crossed skydiving off my bucket list and completed another jump this past summer! I am adventurous, energetic and extremely independent (not to be confused with stubborn). While much of my spare time has been dedicated to my career, my dating life has thus suffered. I work 12hr shifts (days/overnights) so this is something a significant other would have to be understanding of. It also means I have much more free time! I am new to online dating but am willing to give it a try if it means meeting my possible soul mate. Who I am looking for: someone who is ambitious, hard working and independent but also loves to spend time with me (of course!). You must have some type or drive or passion in your life. If you are lazy, do not work or looking for a "sugar momma", please do not respond. I will most likely dominate you, walk all over you, chew you up and spit you out (just being honest). I want someone who can keep me on my toes, make me laugh and enjoy simple things together...someone who will bring out my best and vice versa. I am one of the most down to earth people you will meet, a girl that is not afraid to get down and dirty, wear combat boots and heels in the same day. I don't mean to sound intimidating, but I am also not going to apologize for being independent and successful. I am really just looking for that well-rounded, fun loving guy! I think first dates should be simple such as lunch or coffee. If there is potential, then there should be a "spark" during the first brief encounter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Canadian Italian Japanese Mexican Crime Drama Family & Kids Sport Thriller Sailing Snowboarding
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    Lynne

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    So a little about me... Well, I enjoy being active and eating as healthy as possible. However, I certainly love to enjoy some pizza or a burger every once in a while. For me anything outdoors is usually fun, from canoeing to swimming to fishing or trying something new! I want a man who wants to be great friends first and foremost. I am also looking for someone who has time for me and who wants to do things and spend time together. I am NOT looking to inherit ANY baggage or drama from past relationships. So if you are still hung up on someone else and trying to date to get over them please move to the next profile. I am at a point in my life were I don't have time for BS or games and would really like to go on my last first date and finally meet someone I can build a life with. I want someone to come home to, someone I can grow with and someone that will be as good to me as I am them. I believe in treating others as you would like to be treated. I truly appreciate honesty, even if it's not what I want to hear, I really appreciate the truth. Why this is such a hard thing for people, I don't think I will ever understand, as I am a pretty straight forward person myself. If you want to learn more just message me! =) You're the guy. Don't ask me, lol.

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I have a fantastic circle of friends and we always have lots of fun together. My family is very important to me. There is nothing I wouldn't do for them. I value people who follow their dreams, who are ambitious, honest and respectful to others. Arrogant people drive me mad. I laugh a lot! I have a good sense of humour and I always try to see the positive side of things. It's better to laugh than cry anyway. Sometimes I speak before I think…and it is not always a good thing although mostly hilarious. I also like to try something different every so often. I can't wait for the next one. Nothing can beat jumping in the mud to some good tunes! Check it out :) If you like what you see so far drop me a line and if I like what I see I will reply. It would be nice to see your picture too.

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    Isabelle

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I\'m the competitor\'s competitor. I always want to win and I always want to outperform my highest level. Please don\'t message me if you smoke, do drugs, are looking to hook-up, or are under my height.

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