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Carly, 30
United States, Michigan, Bay City

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About Me

There is some things I would like to just throw out there... not to be rude but to narrow down the search and make this dating thing a little easier. I have high respect for someone that reads my profile and is genuinely interested in getting to know me. I'm not to fond of repeating myself when I have already answered you main questions here, there for I appreciate a " Good Listener. " I will not respond back to profiles with no pictures.I prefer to find a man of my own ethnicity.I am a highly aware individual, so don't try to pull any fast ones.I am only interested in someone who is willing to take things " SLOW "I do not do one night stands.Now, If you are still reading this far, haven't moved on already, and are still interested than I know a bit more about the type of person you are. What I am looking for:I would like more than anything to find a man I can truly connect with. Physically, Intellectually, emotionally, spiritually. I've never found the right person that I could actually say I bonded with. I like a guy who take charge of his own life and take care of his self. Someone I don't have to hold there hand through life, but rather walk beside them. I highly appreciate respect, integrity, compassion, honesty, and good communicative skills. I am looking for someone that has good relationship skills. Someone who has taken past experiences and learned from them rather than becoming bitter and jaded. I like a man that grows continually and strives for the better like myself. Someone who is personable, confident, and genuinely nice.****ness does not win me over nor does flattery. Being yourself is everything.. Living your own truth is everything! I'm not asking for the perfect person, I myself am not perfect and have flaws.. but I'd like to find the right one.. someone I can accept that accepts me in return. OH and I can't forget, I love a man in uniform! :)" There are no words that can prove anything, the only true way to judge someones character is by them displaying actions to show who they truly are and what they are all about. " About me:I grew up a competitive gymnast, Acrobat, and Performer. Gymnastics was my first true love in life. I miss is dearly more than anything and might go back to coaching again. I am very fond of all facets in the world of creative arts. I love to draw, sing, dance, write, etc. I am adventurous and love to travel but also have my moments of just wanting to be a home body. I have aspirations to go back to school one day when the time is right and further bettering myself for the future, I am currently a stay at home Mom at the moment taking care of my little boy who is a year and half old...as I believe at this stage a Mom's place is with her children even though I miss working. My Son is my everything and has me the best person I can be. I am traditional in a lot of senses but in other ways I am new age. I am very spiritual and highly spiritually intuited. I however do not believe in religion. I am very family and friend oriented, loyal, and protective. I can be a fire cracker at times but I am very passionate on what I believe is right and am not afraid to stand up for what I believe in. I am shy until you get to know me. The more comfortable I get with someone the more my personality comes out. I can't really say what would be a perfect first date, because I don't think there really is such a thing. First dates are always pretty awkward.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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