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Della, 39

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About Me

I like to hang out and do a lot of "normal" things. Bowling, going to movies, eating out, cooking and enjoying a nice bottle of wine, walking around our many lakes too. In the summer I tend to hang out at my neighborhood pool a lot with my three kids and go fishing also at my family cabin.I hope to eventually find someone who I can be with in a committed relationship again. I am happy being single too but I also do look forward to being part of a couple again. When I am with someone I like to spend time a couple days a week with them too - even if just for a couple hours each time. It makes me feel like we are still connected even when we're apart - to remember the fun we had when we were together. Texting is a fun way to stay in touch when we're apart as well, but still nothing like being in the same room with someone you really like.Things I'm looking for in a guy I guess would be first and foremost honesty - I've dealt with a couple that weren't and it just end badly when you can't be up front and honest. I would like whoever I am with to have a good sense of humor and not take life too seriously either. I am not looking for someone that has to be at the gym every day but also knows how to take care of themselves and takes pride in their appearance, but hasn't "let themselves go" either. Someone who has good family values and knows how to treat a woman he's with - how to make her feel cherished and loved. And knows how to treat his kids and my kids right (if a relationship gets to the point where I introduce them to my kids).I tend to like just about every kind of music except extremely heavy metal or rap - I just don't get either of those types of music. Other than that my range is pretty wide -I do like to let whoever I am in a relationship with at the time know that I appreciate them and like them to do the same to me. A lot of times its the little things that let each other know that you appreciate them and love them too. I have been described by friends as a great listener and friend who is there for them whenever they need me.FYI about me...I'm severely allergic to cats and dogs, so if you have one or the other we probably won't be a good match. A lot of people don't pay attention to this paragraph and end up *** anyways. Its not that I don't like cats and/or dogs - its that I cannot be around them for more than an hour without my throat starting to close up on me and it gets tough to breathe. Sorry if this is a deal breaker for anyone. but its just part of who I am. Also, I do consider myself conservative too...so if you consider your political beliefs more on the liberal side we probably wouldn't get along too well either. I'm not outspoken about politics at all but its hard to have a relationship with someone who feels so differently than you do about some pretty big things in life.If you have any other questions about this just ask away - I will answer just about anything you ask. Well depending on what type of date it is it can differ. On a typical first date I'd tend to just meet either for lunch or for coffee or drinks - possibly dinner if we hit it off. From there we'd have to see how we get along and on future dates try to plan them out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kate

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am attractive, intelligent, funny, and adventurous. Working professional in healthcare, would appreciate spending time with other professionals. Looking for someone to explore the city and enjoy good conversation. I am kind and thoughtful. Polished, but down to earth. Interested in lunch/dinner, sporting events,social and outdoor activities. I like to laugh, and you should too. Love many different types of music and ambiance, whether it's at a quiet restaurant or a noisy ballpark.Would like to travel more and try new things.I am happy dating, but I would like to be in a relationship with the right person. I am open to that in the near future.I like to be active, I don't watch alot of tv. I have two children 12 & 10 , who are my primary focus. I will not introduce them until I am in a relationship that will be longterm.My preference is that I spend time with people who's compassion level exceeds their arrogance level. Even if it's by a little bit :)Ready to share new experiences and enjoy life now!

  • Mattie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I want to share this happiness with a partner who can grow with me as we become best friends.I am not looking for a penpal. If you want a penpal and don't plan to meet in person...please move onto the next profile.I am an ESFJ.Sense of humor is important to me; I have been told my laugh is contagious, and I would enjoy meeting a man that is comfortable just talking and laughing for hours. Some of the best times in life can come out of random moments of laughter about nothing or something that is truly thought provoking. I am looking for someone who is compatible with me and is looking for a long term relationship. Someone I can grow with who wants kids and is a dog lover (including little dogs). Someone who is 5’10” or taller man person is honest, kind, affectionate, intelligent, considerate and confident. Someone who believes in the power of prayer (does not mean goes to church). Someone who thrives on getting out and about, yet also enjoys a little down time when the weather takes a turn for the worse and enjoys taking a little nap while snuggling under a comfy blanket.; Bash, Wilfred, Parenthood, Happy Endings, New Girl, Don't Trust the B******I love music and movies....the lists are always growing and never ending!Food: Italian, Mexican, Thai, Indian.A favorite book: Five Love LanguagesFor fun here are 5 random facts about me:~Although I have never driven a race car, I would love to be a race car driver. I have a need for speed!~I Love cheese, but not some melted cheese.~I do best in groups of 4 people or less.~I participated in breaking 2 World Guinness Records in ***.~Every workday morning I listen to KEXP and anxiously await John in the Morning to say "Good Morning"....I look forward to finding my best friend and someone I can grow with in life. Share some fun random facts about yourself. :) Depending on the weather....

  • Yolanda

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm done playing games. So don't even try. The only games I like are on a field, track, or in an arena or stadium. I thoroughly enjoy a good "cold drink". I work hard, but I'd much rather be on the water somewhere. My family spoils me which makes me a little bit of Like I said, no games. What do I want? I want someone to take care of me (not financially) so that I can take care of them. I love just as hard as I work. Need more? Just ask. It would be nice to just go out for dinner and drinks.

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