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Della, 39

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About Me

I like to hang out and do a lot of "normal" things. Bowling, going to movies, eating out, cooking and enjoying a nice bottle of wine, walking around our many lakes too. In the summer I tend to hang out at my neighborhood pool a lot with my three kids and go fishing also at my family cabin.I hope to eventually find someone who I can be with in a committed relationship again. I am happy being single too but I also do look forward to being part of a couple again. When I am with someone I like to spend time a couple days a week with them too - even if just for a couple hours each time. It makes me feel like we are still connected even when we're apart - to remember the fun we had when we were together. Texting is a fun way to stay in touch when we're apart as well, but still nothing like being in the same room with someone you really like.Things I'm looking for in a guy I guess would be first and foremost honesty - I've dealt with a couple that weren't and it just end badly when you can't be up front and honest. I would like whoever I am with to have a good sense of humor and not take life too seriously either. I am not looking for someone that has to be at the gym every day but also knows how to take care of themselves and takes pride in their appearance, but hasn't "let themselves go" either. Someone who has good family values and knows how to treat a woman he's with - how to make her feel cherished and loved. And knows how to treat his kids and my kids right (if a relationship gets to the point where I introduce them to my kids).I tend to like just about every kind of music except extremely heavy metal or rap - I just don't get either of those types of music. Other than that my range is pretty wide -I do like to let whoever I am in a relationship with at the time know that I appreciate them and like them to do the same to me. A lot of times its the little things that let each other know that you appreciate them and love them too. I have been described by friends as a great listener and friend who is there for them whenever they need me.FYI about me...I'm severely allergic to cats and dogs, so if you have one or the other we probably won't be a good match. A lot of people don't pay attention to this paragraph and end up *** anyways. Its not that I don't like cats and/or dogs - its that I cannot be around them for more than an hour without my throat starting to close up on me and it gets tough to breathe. Sorry if this is a deal breaker for anyone. but its just part of who I am. Also, I do consider myself conservative too...so if you consider your political beliefs more on the liberal side we probably wouldn't get along too well either. I'm not outspoken about politics at all but its hard to have a relationship with someone who feels so differently than you do about some pretty big things in life.If you have any other questions about this just ask away - I will answer just about anything you ask. Well depending on what type of date it is it can differ. On a typical first date I'd tend to just meet either for lunch or for coffee or drinks - possibly dinner if we hit it off. From there we'd have to see how we get along and on future dates try to plan them out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beachin

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-54

    Hi! My name is Beachin. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Woodstock, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Myrtle

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First and foremost, Please be who you say you are....If you feel you have to fabricate your life to look better or sound more interesting, I'm definitely not the girl for you....You can't build a relationship starting out on a lie, be it small (your height) or your occupation (You don't have to be rich)....Just be honest and everything will fall into place...Also, I'm not looking for a "hook-up", friends with benefits, or someone who is married. Ok..Sorry, had to get that out of the way! I digress.... ;)About Me: I am a confident, educated, loyal, and down-to-earth mother of two wonderful kids ***& 20). My friends would describe me as funny (I absolutely LOVE to laugh), kind/caring, understanding, trustworthy, patient, independent, successful and empathetic (almost to a fault- I'm always rooting for the underdog). I tend to be a little bit shy at first, but warm up quickly with the right company.I have a wonderful job that I absolutely love, but have spent entirely too much time focusing on my career up to this point. I have to finally put my personal life first and I'm looking to live life to the fullest. I have a strong desire to try new things. Anyone up for exploring what this world has to offer?Also, I absolutely love animals, so you must too! I currently have two dogs and two cats. I'm also a "foster parent" at the SPCA and can have a new dog, puppies, or kittens at any time.What I'm looking for: My ideal match would be a non-smoker, be easy to talk to and have a focus in life. I am looking for a man who has a sense of humor, a love for children and animals, and a heart of gold. I am looking to start out as friends first, then possibly more if that's the direction we choose to take.I'm looking to date a caucasian male (sorry, personal preference) who is taller than me. Someone who is willing to give as much as he receives. Someone who is considerate towards others and their feelings. Someone who is willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work. Also, I have just recently started trying to live a more healthy lifestyle. I would love to find someone who I can be active with (hiking, kayaking, etc).**UPDATE ***** I am still recovering from a broken kneecap- Although it happened earlier this year, I am still having some issues. I have just started going back into the gym and working with a personal trainer for knee rehab....In addition, and just to clarify, I put "not sure" about having more children. That in no way means I wouldn't consider having more kids if the opportunity arose...It would just have to be with the right guy. ;)There's definitely a lot more to me than what I could possibly write in this profile, so if I've sparked your interest in the least, please don't hesitate to send an ***'ve very easy to talk to.... :)** I have been single for quite some time now ( I'd like to say by choice since I'm not willing to settle, but it's probably more that I haven't really put myself out there to find the man of my dreams) and I feel that I'm finally ready to find the right guy to start a friendship with and see if there is a possibility for me....Message me, what have you got to lose? **Good luck in finding what you're looking for... :)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any alternate/associated sites for any studies, projects, advertising, sales, or for any other purpose DO NOT have permission to use any portion of this profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. You are hereby notified that any dissemination, distribution, or copying of the information contained in this profile WITHOUT CONSENT AND COMPENSATION is strictly prohibited and protected under copyright and other applicable law and any violation of same is unauthorized and subject to legal action and/or remedy under Common Law. There is no implied consent with respect to the posting of this profile. Entirely up to you, but remember- this could be your last first date ;)

  • Melinda

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am 39, single, independent, no kids, i work full time, have my own place and car and looking for what i hope turns into forever.I rarely drink or go to bars but not against it.I am a bigger girl so if weight/size is a problem then keep looking because my size does not define who i am. I am open and honest and i do not cheat and when I'm with someone i give my everything and I'm looking for the same in return.I have a huge family and they are very important to me. ******** I am not into games, cheaters, liars, one night stands or unemployed men with no transportstion so if that is you please don't message me!! Open to suggestions

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