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About Me

I am checking out what's out there....;) it appears that there are a lot good catches, and hopefully I am not reading too much into what is said. It gives me hope to believe that there are good guys out there.....and hopefully I can meet one, and see where it goes. I am 39, single and looking for something serious. I would like to start slow, but hopefully connect with a mature, respectful, funny, honest, intelligent, loyal man. Is that too much to ask for??? I am not looking for someone to take care of me, but someone to spend quality time with, and start a new life together.I moved to NC over five years ago from CA, and have made some really good friends, finally, however, they are all married. I am tired of being the third, or five wheel. I am finally at a place in my life, that I feel confident that there is someone out there for me. I am ready to take the next step, and put myself out there, and take a chance. Internet dating seems the easiest way these days, to connect, with singles.I work full time Monday through Friday. I work out at the gym a lot, and am a work in progress. I also work out with a personal trainer at least 2 days a week. I am dedicated to getting in better shape, and having fun learning new active ways to get there. I enjoy playing baseball/softball, basketball, as well as watching on tv and live. I enjoy all kinds of music, and am starting to even like a little country. lol. I am kindhearted, smart, funny, loyal, honest, and respectful. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I was taught, if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. I am a positive person, and want to be surrounded by positive people and attitudes.If you are at all interested, and have more questions, let me know...I look forward to hearing from you. If this has not intriqued you, I wish you all the best, hope you find what you are looking for! something casual, and see if there is a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lucile

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Im back......thought i would try this dating thing again lol.....i am looking for a real man who loves god his family and stands for what is right.....who isnt afraid of his feelings also.....im looking for the best years of my life with that someone special beside me!!!! Coffee and conversation

  • Myrtle

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First and foremost, Please be who you say you are....If you feel you have to fabricate your life to look better or sound more interesting, I'm definitely not the girl for you....You can't build a relationship starting out on a lie, be it small (your height) or your occupation (You don't have to be rich)....Just be honest and everything will fall into place...Also, I'm not looking for a "hook-up", friends with benefits, or someone who is married. Ok..Sorry, had to get that out of the way! I digress.... ;)About Me: I am a confident, educated, loyal, and down-to-earth mother of two wonderful kids ***& 20). My friends would describe me as funny (I absolutely LOVE to laugh), kind/caring, understanding, trustworthy, patient, independent, successful and empathetic (almost to a fault- I'm always rooting for the underdog). I tend to be a little bit shy at first, but warm up quickly with the right company.I have a wonderful job that I absolutely love, but have spent entirely too much time focusing on my career up to this point. I have to finally put my personal life first and I'm looking to live life to the fullest. I have a strong desire to try new things. Anyone up for exploring what this world has to offer?Also, I absolutely love animals, so you must too! I currently have two dogs and two cats. I'm also a "foster parent" at the SPCA and can have a new dog, puppies, or kittens at any time.What I'm looking for: My ideal match would be a non-smoker, be easy to talk to and have a focus in life. I am looking for a man who has a sense of humor, a love for children and animals, and a heart of gold. I am looking to start out as friends first, then possibly more if that's the direction we choose to take.I'm looking to date a caucasian male (sorry, personal preference) who is taller than me. Someone who is willing to give as much as he receives. Someone who is considerate towards others and their feelings. Someone who is willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work. Also, I have just recently started trying to live a more healthy lifestyle. I would love to find someone who I can be active with (hiking, kayaking, etc).**UPDATE ***** I am still recovering from a broken kneecap- Although it happened earlier this year, I am still having some issues. I have just started going back into the gym and working with a personal trainer for knee rehab....In addition, and just to clarify, I put "not sure" about having more children. That in no way means I wouldn't consider having more kids if the opportunity arose...It would just have to be with the right guy. ;)There's definitely a lot more to me than what I could possibly write in this profile, so if I've sparked your interest in the least, please don't hesitate to send an ***'ve very easy to talk to.... :)** I have been single for quite some time now ( I'd like to say by choice since I'm not willing to settle, but it's probably more that I haven't really put myself out there to find the man of my dreams) and I feel that I'm finally ready to find the right guy to start a friendship with and see if there is a possibility for me....Message me, what have you got to lose? **Good luck in finding what you're looking for... :)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any alternate/associated sites for any studies, projects, advertising, sales, or for any other purpose DO NOT have permission to use any portion of this profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. You are hereby notified that any dissemination, distribution, or copying of the information contained in this profile WITHOUT CONSENT AND COMPENSATION is strictly prohibited and protected under copyright and other applicable law and any violation of same is unauthorized and subject to legal action and/or remedy under Common Law. There is no implied consent with respect to the posting of this profile. Entirely up to you, but remember- this could be your last first date ;)

  • Polly

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    Woman. 83 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-65

    I'm a happy person and I like to surround myself with positive people. No I do not live in a bubble, although sometimes I like to pretend I do. I'm here looking to meet someone I can connect with. Would love to meet someone to spend some time with....having coffee, a glass of wine....

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