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Chandra, 39

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About Me

yes, i upgraded so that i can block only those idiots that look at pictures.Make sure you read about what i want & need!If i like your pics, i find something attractive about you. I will contact you in some form or fashion. it may be that I favorite you, looked at your profile or *** If you find me to your liking and I've done one of the above, by all means take the leap. I'm a busy person and have pockets of time that I occasionally can get back to you and if I find you to MY liking, I'll make sure I connect. If you dont hear from me, well...we all know how this goes, right?If you dont meet my needs or wants, I do block you. Its to take you out of the loop or from getting nasty with me because I wont reply to you.From here, i actually read your profile. Little to no info or informative things about you shows how little effort you find toward dating and probably relationships too. I do move fast too. If you dont meet me in the first week of talking, I move on. I'm not here to be your online pet or to sext you or send dirty pics. Im sure there are other women on here that you can do that with or better yet, move your ass to craigslist or meetville sex classifieds and find you a skank to play with and let those of us that actually want to date and find love do so without creeps like you jamming up the *** like men that are in shape and care about what they eat. You need to love kids and animals. You must have a good job/career, a running car, and functioning life. A sense of humor is a must!! You should also like to cook or eat home cooking and like sports and the wild outdoors. Hiking, bonfires, fishing, gardening etc. I am a loving, caring giver. Im smart and witty. I have been known to be a smartass but i use it wisely.Ive been called a fire cracker. I wont put up with any games, rudeness, or inconsiderate behavior. You can only control some of me when I'm in love with you, if not, dont even try. I'm not a toy and i want to be treated like a lady. Manners are important and so is communication.Im a Navy vet, Army brat and a single mom of two teens (both honor students***is graduating this year and the other one stays with me two weekends a month.I work 40hrs. I also own my side business. Own my own home and car. I have been a jill of many trades, dog groomer/business owner, party planner, Realtor, Professional photographer, and graphic artist.I have had many of my works either published in the National Archives, papers, and even architectural renderings have been chosen and constructed.(very proud of that one). I have taken care of my grandfather with Alzheimer's and had cancer myself. I've been abused but I'm NOT damaged. I learned from it and all of this has made me stronger and smarter. I've been to rock bottom and up to the very tops. This is my character, my persona, my experiences. I'm actually quite well rounded and to top it off a very happy, fun person. :) Im busy but i FIND TIME for those i care about.I am a homebody. I would LOVE to travel the world, meet new and interesting people and do wonderful things. I value traditions, family and memories made. If you think that decorating for a holiday, eating at the dinner table occasionally or spending a quite night at home around the boob tube is not for you...well it is for me.I like to take weekend trips to anywhere. No planning, but then I also like to plan one fun Big trip a year. Skiing, Amusement park, beach, Vegas, Any where I haven't been or want to go...i'm open to many ideas and places.I love anything old! Houses, cars, furniture, culture, towns, stuff, movies, music. etc.I love all kinds of music.I love rustic and natural things and romance ( i am a girl).I'm just looking for that true chemistry type of love. The love that when your apart you ache or feel a part of you is missing. I want passion in the bedroom, I want tenderness when I'm ill and I want understanding when I'm pissy. lolI will give all this and more to the right person. You don't have to be rich or is super shape. I'm not perfect and I sure as hell don't want someone that THINKS he is perfect either. If your not ready to love, or just want a hook up...just be real with me. I'm a big girl and can make up my mind what I want. You should at least give me this chance. If you try to head game me, lie or fake me out....I'm NOT a nice person. My personality can match my RED hair quickly.So, let me leave on a happy note...not a warning. Get to know me and I'll charm the pants off of you (NOT LITERATELY!!!!)You'll see that I'm not just a pretty face and have a great sense of humor and charisma but that my many layers are very interesting and I have so much to give to the right person.This song is the love i'm after. You must listen to it to understand the depth of what i'm needing from love.http://youtu.be***p7goxZqg Concert, ride, hike, food, comedy, show, hooka bar, a city event.Flea mkts, drinks, tours, parks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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