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ColeenOnline
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I am happy. I have had a really rough year or so, but have found a way to get through it all and end up on top with my own two hands. Because of all that I have overcome, I feel that I have a greater understanding of not only what I am looking for, but also what I bring to the table, and where my boundaries are. I dont have alot of "favorites," I more often opt for the variety pack. I have my master's degree in education/school counseling and love working with children and families. After work I like to let my hair down, and either relax with my puppies or go meet up with friends and new people. My favorite color is orange, i listen to everything but country, metal, and techno. I have danced 22 years. I love animals. I love new things. I love the beach, tanning, boats, bbq's, and everything about summer. I am guided through life by my moral code, ethics, and principles. I will always try to take the higher road, despite the nagging voice in my head to take the easy way. I take a stand against injustice, because I am THAT girl. I am independent, I have always paid my own bills. I had my midlife crisis early, so I'm smooth sailing now. I have been accused of having a broken picker in the past, and I'm determined to make better choices this time around in a mate for myself. I want a nice, responsible guy, not to be mistaken with unattractive, and/or spineless. I have a big personality and it takes a special kind of man to not only keep up, but to reign me in from time to time. Se since I have a master's degree, you should have some degree of some kind.I have worked hard to become who I am, I am looking for someone to enhance my life. Life is about progression, don't contact me if you are going to be dead weight to me. This girl has to fly. Now, tell me who YOU are...I will not ask for more than I can give. I can accept having a past, I'm more concerned with what you have done with those learning opportunities. I want and deserve the whole package. I want intellectual stimulation, stability, emotional health, attraction, ambition, accomplishment, honesty, kindness, sincerity. I need a balance and dependability when life is knocked off center. I don't need or want anyone to fight my battles, but I do want someone in my corner to pick me up when I fall, or to cheer me on through my victory. I will not settle, but I will explore. I have an open mind and acceptance for adversity, but that doesn't mean that I will immerse myself in someone else's bullshit. I am a control freak's nightmare, and will shatter the ego of any jealous man. I will rise to the occasion, and don't always step down. I am also filled with as much compassion and generosity as I can hold. I'm a dichotomy and versatile. Sweats and nachos or wine tasting and opera, you may find me anywhere...ON A SUPERFICIAL NOTE: Foreign accents drive me crazy (in a bad way). Attached earlobes creep me out, sometimes I like to kiss ears, and just can't do it. Please have a car, I don't want to do all of the driving. I don't do active military, I can't deal with deployment. I'm okay with dads, but not if ur kids mom is crazy or gonna make any kind of hell, (I am none of her business). By good I mean that I may actually want to be inside your mouth one day, and those odds greatly diminish if you don't take care of your teeth. I am a picker. Behind closed doors I may want to pluck your eyebrows, ingrown hairs, or pick at that thing on your back. I'm OCD about bumps I guess. Don't talk about sex in regards to us until I have decided that they may be something I am considering, it is creepy. I would rather you tell me no than say nothing in attempt to spare my feelings. My feelings don't get hurt easily, especially in the beginning. If you snort when you laugh, I will point it out, and laugh harder. The more you try to CONVINCE me that you are different from every man I have ever met, the more you are just like the rest of them. How I feel about you is none of your business, so don't ask, I'll tell you if it becomes relevant. I will not meet you for coffee, that tells me ur not sure yet if you really want to meet me and you want something quick and easy to escape from. If ur not sure, then you need to put more time in figuring it out. Dinner is fine, but a walk or a movie is out. Id like to see someone that has a creative side, I have gone to more dinner dates than I can count. If you want me to remember you, then stand out and sell yourself! You are your best advocate! If there is a second date, I am full of ideas, but I'm not going to tell you. Surprise me, and be suprised ;)
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RachaelOnline
Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
My absolute favorite thing in the world is spending time with friends and making art of some sort.I love art...from performing arts, live shows, music,ballet, theater, opera, symphony, and jazz to visual art museums, art walks, and galleries. I'm an actress, singer, pianist and writer and appreciate all different types of art.Two of my passions in life are art and social justice. I hope to spend much of my free time merging both.Travelling overseas is a great passion of mine. I have yet to get to Europe and can't wait to do it sooner than later!I'm currently working with non-profit arts organizations. as a day job and performing in a musical on the weekends. I also volunteer with a community center, theater school, and plan my friend's birthday parties when possible!Free-time is spent hanging out with friends, and talking people into swing dancing, backpacking, and letting me entertain them on their boat (the best way to sail is on a friend's boat) ;).I'm also passionate about emergency preparedness and inclusion and diversity, so I volunteer for organizations that support those values as well.It would be great to meet someone who shared some important similar interests such as social justice, spirituality, art, community, outdoors and...watching soccer! I'm also a big fan of trying new things.My friends describe me as emotionally-strong, caring, compassionate, creative and honest. I would love to be in a relationship with a man who values and needs those qualities in a supportive, equal, partner.I am an artistic thinker who loves being around fearless and compassionate people. And, if you don't mind a little dancing now and then, that can only sweeten the pot! I've never been picky about what I'm doing. I care more about who I'm spending time with. Whether it's going for a walk through a lovely park and getting a glass of wine, dinner, coffee, art walk or a book reading, I'm game to spend time with an interesting, thoughtful and creative individual whom I may have chemistry with.
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ElleryOnline
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I am 32 and recently divorced. Just happened to pick the wrong person to marry. I love live music, especially country and red dirt. I am currently not working now and haven't worked in almost 2 years now and it makes me crazy. It's kinda for personal reasons and I don't mind sharing them with the right person. I do not go out to bars and clubs as much as I would love to for the music but I am an alcoholic and have been sober almost 1 year now and I am very proud of that b/c I have had a crazy last year. I do have my AA in Business Admin but my ultimate goal was a BS in Justice Admin and I only have 2 semesters to get my degree but I got sick and was not able to finish school this May as I had planned. Crime and Law is my passion and even though I don't work in the field I am still knowledgeable in the area and love to talk about it and watch shows about it. I would love to meet my soul mate and have a family with in the next 4 years. I don't want to get married tomorrow or next month or anything but I think if you know it's right you know it. I have a friend that is 35 I believe now and he has beat it twice so I am on a team with his family to fun for him. I also love OSU Football or OSU in general...I bleed Orange but have can compromise with a Sooners Fan. My best friends husband played for the Sooners and I watch their games and cheer for them unless they are not playing OSU. Louis Cardinals baseball. I like to be outdoors as much as I do indoors. I am not afraid to get dirty. I grew up on a farm and I live my life my the standards and morals my grandparents *** me, or at least I try my best too. I am kinda old fashioned I guess. I love being on the lake and just hanging out or fishing even, but I don't like to run every weekend. I also like to spend some weekends at home relaxing and having dinner and watching a movie or cooking out with friends. I have a Shih Tzu Bella that is almost 5. She is the closest thing I have to a child. We have never been separated for more than about 10 days. She is very mild tempered and is not a little yapper dog. She only barks b/c my mom's dog bark really but she is sweet and loves everyone. She tries to be tough and bark at ppl but if they move towards her she turns and runs towards me. Geeze, I don't think I have much else to say about myself right now. PS I do have 3 tattoos, 2 of them are covered and one is on my foot but I am planning on 2 more before the year is over hopefully. I haven't been on a first date in a long time but I always think dinner is a good idea. I don't like movies or anything that keeps you from talking b/c it seems pointless to me if we can't talk and start to get to know each other. And even though I love live music I don't think that is a good first date either, too loud to talk. Bowling and arcades are fun with dinner, but I want to spend the first date getting to know who you are and you getting to know me.