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Ernestine, 52
United States, North Carolina, Rocky Mount

Offline, last seen Wed, 29 Apr 2026 17:50:17

About Me

A few people have told me that I am beautiful inside and out. I TREASURE those compliments! I am looking for a man with integrity whose actions back up his words..who is very romantic. With romance, well, if you have to work at it, then it will end so romance has to flow from my guy..you know, come naturally (the romance part is EXTREMELY important to me). I would want him to have a good sense of humor, be frugabul and financially stable meaning you can take care of yourself financially. I myself don't need a man to take care of me in that area as I can do that myself as I do now. I'm not looking for money but for the richness of the relationship, to be able to have fun and live a comfortable life. My personal definition of comfortable is: having a fridge full of good food, being able to take it for granted that the bills are going to be paid, be putting some money away for savings, some for inexpensive fun and maybe a trip once/year (and even that cost can be cut down many ways). ...not a rich man's life, but a RICH life (that he and I would be satisfied with (with little or no debt). I would want someone good-looking enough that I would not have to sleep back-to-back with him the rest of my life:)..this is especially important as I have a ministry to suicidal and depressed women. Also important is that my guy is someone whom I can respect and trust their opinion and on another note, someone who likes a clean house...and this one...REQUIRED: when there is a disagreement, he, like myself, will attack the problem, NOT the person.My big question: What do you have to offer me that has NOTHING to do with money?And what do I have to offer? I will be your biggest fan! I am very romantic and when, down the line, I say I love you they are not empty words..I will give you everything I have in my heart to offer though I will not smother you. What YOU like is very important to me. We should BOTH have what we dreamed of in a relationship.I will always try to look my best for you..unless I'm sick or exhausted. I will be with you through the tough times..cuz I'm not in it for anything else but to be with you. If you ever have a chronic illness, you will not go to a nursing home or hospital, I would care for you at home...and consider that an honor and a priviledge. Once I fall in love with you, it is UNCONDITIONAL.I know this will run off a lot of guys and that TRULY makes me sad but I will not sleep with someone until marriage....I have to feel good about my choices in this area.But if you're willing to wait, you will find a girl that most dream of in ALL areas...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

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    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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