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Bette, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rocky Mount

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About Me

Short version: Attractive, athletic, active lifestyle, educated, love libraries and bookstores, kids grown and successful, professional with a steady job, financially stable, love national parks and baseball games. Oh yes, good assistant deck builder. For a bit more detail, here we go...I am at a good place in life with a nice home and a steady job that, I believe, makes a difference. Financial responsibility is important to me. When faced with the choice of making a purchase or making a memory, I hope my sons will say I always chose the memory. They are wonderful young men ***are college grads and the youngest attends WSU. While not a super athlete by any means, I enjoy the peacefulness of hiking away from the noise of the city – Still, I am a NYC girl at heart and I always enjoy going to the theater. (Bonus points for men who wear ties.) A feminine tomboy, I have been known to get a manicure before heading off to the indoor rock gym. I also love to read - whether on a summer day in the backyard or, on a rainy winter day, wrapped in a WSU Snuggie (my son gave me that).Hmmm, what else?I don't consider patriotic liberal to be an oxymoron. One son is an Air Force officer, so I have a high regard for those who serve. I connect best with people who choose to make a difference, in some way, with their lives.So, what am I looking for? Chemistry, Character and Compatibility. Intelligence is a very attractive quality. So is kindness. I do work hard to watch my weight and stay in shape and find that I am attracted to the same. Common interests allow us to enjoy doing things together. I tried to hike every mile of trail in the park.I will dress up to go to the theater with you on Saturday night and then spend Sunday afternoon cheering for your fave team, but please, let it not be the Yankees.Nothing makes me happier than having all 3 sons at home. But, my job was to give them wings and they are, indeed, soaring. Distance is not necessarily a deal breaker and I look forward to meeting you soon. Addendum: this is a dating site - photos should be close up and RECENT - don't you agree? In the summer, I love to share an outdoor activity together - a ballgame; a concert; an urban hike; a bike ride and a picnic; Winter is harder, but catching a game at Big Al's while you teach me to shoot pool is always an option.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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