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Brenda, 39

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About Me

Hi I am a single mom of 3 wonderful kids, a son 19, out of the house making a good life for himself and 2 girls who are 15 and 10! I'm a honest, faithful, caring, charming, funny, drama free, independent, strong woman, looking for a special man to spent time with and has similar expectations as me. I'm mostly a homebody but I enjoy going out with friends every once and a while, love bbq'in too! I'm not on here to play games or looking for a hook up, if this is your intentions, PLEASE DO NOT BOTHER WASTING MY TIME OR YOURS!! I am the real deal! My preference for an ideal man is under 45, please be at least 6 foot tall, within my own race and over 34 in age. I hope this doesn't offend anyone, I just know what I want. I have a big heart and am somewhat sensitive, so please don't make inappropriate comments to me, by all means, be respectful!! :-) any other questions, feel free to ask! Oh and I hope you read all of my profile before you message me: I'm 5'9 so I'm pretty tall and I'm not a petite woman, not fat but not a twig! Hope to hear from a gentleman! If you put on your profile- looking to date but nothing serious, DONT BOTHER ME PLEASE!! Dinner or drinks? Maybe romantically?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Juliana

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    PLEASE READ THIS PARAGRAPH BEFORE YOU *** please don't judge me because I like what I like. There are supposedly over 300,***people on this site, so I am sure someone is interested in you. If you are not what I am looking for please don't waste my time or yours and don't *** am looking for a strong, educated, tall, black man that wants to date and get to know each other first. I am a loving & caring woman that wants a man to be the same. I am very outgoing and fun and I have a great head on my shoulders!I love sports (basketball, football & baseball), like to go to movies, hang with friends and spending time with my family. Anything fun...will try anything once! Or just meet for a drink to see if there is any chemistry.

  • Peggy

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm an easy going person who enjoys having fun. I love being outside. I enjoy a healthy lifestyle and regularly run or bike. I love my job and it's flexibility. I listen to all types of music and love movies, art and reading.

  • Eunice

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm on here to find someone to have some fun with and just hang out. I'm a very easygoing down to earth woman. I am not necessarily looking for a serious relationship so no pressure. I am the kind of person who just goes with the flow if it happens it happens and if not hopefully we have at least made a friend. I don't really like the awkwardness of trying to impress someone new so I don't expect someone else to be uptight. Be yourself and I will also. So a little bit about me: I will be the first to admit I have Flaws. I do not let people into my life very easily and it takes me a while to trust people. I am a "Lil' Bit" of a control freak and "slightly" hardheaded and I have a very low tolerance for stupidity. I am also very loyal and will walk through fire for the ones I love and will fight to the death over something or someone I believe in and care about. All of these things have both helped and hurt the relationships in my life. I am working on my flaws everyday but it gets very difficult..... I don't want to sound like a man hater because I am far from that, I absolutely LOVE men. Everyone has their idea of what the roles of "The Woman" or "the Man" in a relationship are supposed to be...For example a woman cooking or a man taking out the trash... I feel like all the men I have had encounters with are not what I consider "a real man". Somewhere along the line I feel our roles got reversed. I have been very shocked because I was not informed of this change. I did not receive a post card, e-mail, a text message or a phone call letting me know that it was now my job to take care of a grown ass man and that my feelings and my happiness no longer mattered. Also that the new man is a selfish one and satisfying his woman is now a thing of the past. Yep...I missed that memo. With that being said I still have high hopes that somewhere out there there is a man who still plays the role of a "real man". Until I find that one man who is the man of my dreams and knows how to accept a good woman "Flaws and All" I just want to have fun and live life. So if your interested message me.I love all men but only date black men

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