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Wilda, 39

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About Me

About me... I am trustworthy, love to smile but don’t often, funny or at least I think I am, an amazing mom, I am honest, I don’t lie, and I want to always do what’s right but I don’t do such a good job of that but I try every day. I figure that if I am on here well then there has to be some normal average men on here as well... because honest all I want is a normal average guy... I don’t want the party guy, the DJ, the gym hound or the guy who jumps out of planes or travels all of the time.... Me I want the guy who will enjoy relaxing with me, who enjoys life, has fun, smiles and is happy who thinks about me during the day and can’t wait to talk to me at night… I don’t want to turn around and be alone. I want someone to do things with anything from bowling to making a dinner… I need someone who understands that my daughter will always comes first but that I can give him plenty of time as well I want in the end, to feel like a family again. I stay pretty busy with my daughter… I’ She rocks and is my world but she is 11 and growing upI you live more than 45 minutes away, its not going to work unless you plan on moving closer to me within the next 6 weeks cause, no matter how great a relationship it is. An hour and a half is just too far round tripI do not date black men... It’s a preference and personal choiceI do not date guys my height or shorterI do not like guys who take longer then me to get ready, and it only takes me a few minutes.I do not play games, been there done that and have moved passed it.If we don’t meet within the first two weeks of talking we probably will not everI will not settle for an “okay” relationship. I want happy and I deserve it.I will not put up with cheating.... EverI want someone I click with. That I can talk too for hours… about everything and anything, I want a male version of my best friend.There are a bunch of things I enjoy doing and lots of thing I want to try, I’m open for new experiences or at least I try to be. I am a flip flops and pony tail type of girl, I know how to dress up and I have a collection of heels but I don’t wear them often. I can run out the door with no makeup on and sweats and I am okay with thatI SMOKE I want to quit but have not yet and don’t see it happening anytime soon however I hope it does I have 1 Cat and 1 Dog I am always late I say 5 minutes but, its more like 15 or 20 I do try to be on time, it just never works out. I can be jealous and I have some trust issues… but I have gotten better with that. I have a job, please have one tooI have all of my teeth; please I hope you do as well. I have a car, please have one I do not want to date a child… I want a grown man. I am overweight, I know this. I work on it but will never be skinny… if you’re looking for a thin chick. Please keep going I am okay with that. I am honest… If there is anything else you want to know….. but I figure you can handle that if I have to handle sports or family guy?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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