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Wilda, 39

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About Me

About me... I am trustworthy, love to smile but don’t often, funny or at least I think I am, an amazing mom, I am honest, I don’t lie, and I want to always do what’s right but I don’t do such a good job of that but I try every day. I figure that if I am on here well then there has to be some normal average men on here as well... because honest all I want is a normal average guy... I don’t want the party guy, the DJ, the gym hound or the guy who jumps out of planes or travels all of the time.... Me I want the guy who will enjoy relaxing with me, who enjoys life, has fun, smiles and is happy who thinks about me during the day and can’t wait to talk to me at night… I don’t want to turn around and be alone. I want someone to do things with anything from bowling to making a dinner… I need someone who understands that my daughter will always comes first but that I can give him plenty of time as well I want in the end, to feel like a family again. I stay pretty busy with my daughter… I’ She rocks and is my world but she is 11 and growing upI you live more than 45 minutes away, its not going to work unless you plan on moving closer to me within the next 6 weeks cause, no matter how great a relationship it is. An hour and a half is just too far round tripI do not date black men... It’s a preference and personal choiceI do not date guys my height or shorterI do not like guys who take longer then me to get ready, and it only takes me a few minutes.I do not play games, been there done that and have moved passed it.If we don’t meet within the first two weeks of talking we probably will not everI will not settle for an “okay” relationship. I want happy and I deserve it.I will not put up with cheating.... EverI want someone I click with. That I can talk too for hours… about everything and anything, I want a male version of my best friend.There are a bunch of things I enjoy doing and lots of thing I want to try, I’m open for new experiences or at least I try to be. I am a flip flops and pony tail type of girl, I know how to dress up and I have a collection of heels but I don’t wear them often. I can run out the door with no makeup on and sweats and I am okay with thatI SMOKE I want to quit but have not yet and don’t see it happening anytime soon however I hope it does I have 1 Cat and 1 Dog I am always late I say 5 minutes but, its more like 15 or 20 I do try to be on time, it just never works out. I can be jealous and I have some trust issues… but I have gotten better with that. I have a job, please have one tooI have all of my teeth; please I hope you do as well. I have a car, please have one I do not want to date a child… I want a grown man. I am overweight, I know this. I work on it but will never be skinny… if you’re looking for a thin chick. Please keep going I am okay with that. I am honest… If there is anything else you want to know….. but I figure you can handle that if I have to handle sports or family guy?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Josefa

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a hard working, fun, loving life kind of person. I've had enough bad in my life it's time to enjoy only the good! I work many hours but what free time i have i like to spend it with my kid n family...or just sitting on the couch...i love movies, traveling, and just being happy.one of my favorite quotes is "A smile increases your face value." I'm a photographer by trade and have my own small business but i also have a full time management job. If u r looking for a booty call, keep looking I'm not ur gal. But if u r looking for someone who could possibly b the one...here i am:-) First date...hummm...dinner and drinks at a nice restaurant with good company and lots of laughter.

  • Marjorie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Lets get this out of the way at the very beginning so nobody is shocked later on,There are many different layers that comprise the whole of my personality. The one that gets me in the most trouble is the fact that I am ridiculously blunt. With that said, here is what I have learned while trying this online dating thing, really they are rather funny in my opinion: Sexual favors in a parking lot are expected if you buy me a beer (I kid you not this was actually suggested to me) A picture of me on the beach, in a bikini, is an offer of all kinds of interesting thing. Here I thought bikinis were appropriate attire for a day at the beach? Where did I go wrong? Lol There are so many more, but these two stand out the most in my mind. So if you are still reading and maybe even laughing, we might actually get along and I would love to hear from you? I have three amazing boys (17, 12, ***who are my life and keep me busy. I don't bring people in and out of their lives, so when you?re important enough to me, you will meet my children. Who am I? Well I am a contradiction. I am independent to a fault, blunt, and a bit too honest. I have a bad habit of saying what is on my mind, sometimes my timing sucks.I hate math, but have a degree in accounting. I cant spell to save my life, and I believe whoever invented spell check should win a gold medal. I am sarcastic most of the time and have a weird sense of humor. I can laugh at myself most of the time, but I don't have a problem laughing at you or with you. I would rather be hurt with the truth, than lied to for any reason. I believe honesty, integrity, a keen intellect, and a dirty mind are essential in all people. I am pretty straight forward and don't offend easily. I don't play games and I am pretty sure I have no idea what the "rules" to dating are these days (obviously), nor do I want to follow all the ridiculous "rules and guidelines" that are published online. Really who comes up with this stuff anyway? I am not desperate in anyway. I don't need a man to be happy or complete. Finding someone, who I enjoy spending time with socially and romantically, is an added bonus, but not essential to my happiness. I am not overly girly. I get along with men, have more in common with men, than I do most women. I have no problem playing in the dirt, but I can also pull off a killer dress and heels. I am a hopeless romantic and believe that love, when done right, can last a lifetime. Unfortunately, I don't have any proof to this theory. I am not looking for a one-night stand. Honestly, I am not sure what I am looking for, Maybe just to meet new people and if we click, I am open to possibilities. I won't limit my choices by picking a type of man because obviously my "usual type" hasn't worked out so well. I will be honest enough to say that physical attraction is a must, however it is not the only criteria. I have met a lot of men who were truly amazing to look at, until they opened their mouth. And I have met a lot of men who were cute, but not handsome, and their personality made them truly beautiful (can you call a man beautiful?) Call me greedy, but I want the whole thing, looks, personality, chemistry,..

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