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Trudy, 36

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About Me

About me... Well, i am very easy to talk to. I read people very well. I have worked in behavioral psych for many years now...I am open and honest and very nonJudgmental. I have absolutely no idea what I want out of this. I am funny, sarcastic, and real. I am not high maintenance. I have a very strong personality and a very animated face.. You will always know where u stand with me. Dude told me I have a great personality ... I was like omfg no I'm not the good personality chic?? We allKnow what that means. He was very reassuring that no ... Not THAT chic .. I have no expectations so surprise me . Well if we make it past the initial meeting and I'm not like .. Yea I need to leave now I have a root canal appointment I'mSo excited to get to, then I'm just a go with the flow kind of person. Best if the day turns into an experience that is memorable for the company not the place we went.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-60

    Hi! My name is Von. I am divorced other african woman with kids from Biloxi, Mississippi, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Brandi

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    So about me........Basically I am a simple girl looking for a simple kind of guy. I am 37 years old and at this stage in life I am not looking for any kind of drama nor am I looking to play any type of games. I am not looking for a fling and do not sleep around (if your looking for a booty call please do not message me. I wont waste your time, please do not waste mine). I tend to rush into relationships and ALWAYS wear my heart on my sleeve. I guess that's where I go wrong. My new tactic this time around is to take things slow and enjoy life. I have a huge close family that sticks together. We may argue and fight but in the end we are always there for one another and that is what counts the most. I have learned this lesson the hard way loosing my father a year ago not on speaking terms. I never got to say goodbye to my father and tell him for the last time I truly did love him despite our differences. Lesson learned... life is too short to be unhappy and to fight with the ones that mean the most to you! I feel I have a lot to offer that special someone. I am loyal, trustworthy, faithful, honest and have a lot of love to give ( you can be the judge of that). I am not looking for anyone for their money (I have my own) and not their looks (I have dated gorgeous men). I have a good job, a beautiful 4 bedroom house in a good school district, therefore, I am already established. I do not like to be misled nor do I cheat and expect that in return. I am a mother of a wonderful 11 year old boy (his father lives far away so there are no complications, we have maintain a good friendship). I am not looking for someone to be his "daddy" however, he would have to take a liking to my son as much as he would like me. "My ideal mate" would take my son under his wing and show him the role he would have to play being a male and grow up to be a GOOD MAN. Take him to games, go outside and toss a football around to each other, take him fishing, coach any sport he wants to join...etc.What I am looking for in a relationship is basically to be happy....to fall in love and anticipate coming home after work to a loving family. Cook dinner while I help my son/kids (if you have children) do homework and wait for the love of my life to come home and greet him with a huge hug and kiss to show him how much I missed him through out the day. I want to have family time until its time for the children to go to bed then have adult time snuggling up conversing on how our day was. I want to take family vacations and travel. Go on weekend getaways with my husband (yes I would like to get married one day, never been). I want to have friends over and have cookouts.......Sunday football gatherings if that's what your into.....Christmas parties etc. What I am looking for in a man would simply have the same outlook on life as I. Same characteristics and dedication in taking care of his family and making us come first.You will see pictures of me above both thin and heavy. I lost myself in my last relationship and gained unwanted weight which I am now working on in loosing and gaining my self confidence back. Just to be clear I am still heavy trying to get back to what I looked like.So basically, I just want to be in love and happy. I know it seems far fetched in this day, but I know it can be done if both our minds and hearts are in it.By the way.....I am not perfect by no means, I do have my flaws, But hey are their any "Perfect" people out there?I do wish everyone luck in finding "The One"!

  • Marjorie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Lets get this out of the way at the very beginning so nobody is shocked later on,There are many different layers that comprise the whole of my personality. The one that gets me in the most trouble is the fact that I am ridiculously blunt. With that said, here is what I have learned while trying this online dating thing, really they are rather funny in my opinion: Sexual favors in a parking lot are expected if you buy me a beer (I kid you not this was actually suggested to me) A picture of me on the beach, in a bikini, is an offer of all kinds of interesting thing. Here I thought bikinis were appropriate attire for a day at the beach? Where did I go wrong? Lol There are so many more, but these two stand out the most in my mind. So if you are still reading and maybe even laughing, we might actually get along and I would love to hear from you? I have three amazing boys (17, 12, ***who are my life and keep me busy. I don't bring people in and out of their lives, so when you?re important enough to me, you will meet my children. Who am I? Well I am a contradiction. I am independent to a fault, blunt, and a bit too honest. I have a bad habit of saying what is on my mind, sometimes my timing sucks.I hate math, but have a degree in accounting. I cant spell to save my life, and I believe whoever invented spell check should win a gold medal. I am sarcastic most of the time and have a weird sense of humor. I can laugh at myself most of the time, but I don't have a problem laughing at you or with you. I would rather be hurt with the truth, than lied to for any reason. I believe honesty, integrity, a keen intellect, and a dirty mind are essential in all people. I am pretty straight forward and don't offend easily. I don't play games and I am pretty sure I have no idea what the "rules" to dating are these days (obviously), nor do I want to follow all the ridiculous "rules and guidelines" that are published online. Really who comes up with this stuff anyway? I am not desperate in anyway. I don't need a man to be happy or complete. Finding someone, who I enjoy spending time with socially and romantically, is an added bonus, but not essential to my happiness. I am not overly girly. I get along with men, have more in common with men, than I do most women. I have no problem playing in the dirt, but I can also pull off a killer dress and heels. I am a hopeless romantic and believe that love, when done right, can last a lifetime. Unfortunately, I don't have any proof to this theory. I am not looking for a one-night stand. Honestly, I am not sure what I am looking for, Maybe just to meet new people and if we click, I am open to possibilities. I won't limit my choices by picking a type of man because obviously my "usual type" hasn't worked out so well. I will be honest enough to say that physical attraction is a must, however it is not the only criteria. I have met a lot of men who were truly amazing to look at, until they opened their mouth. And I have met a lot of men who were cute, but not handsome, and their personality made them truly beautiful (can you call a man beautiful?) Call me greedy, but I want the whole thing, looks, personality, chemistry,..

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