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Sharlene, 36

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About Me

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, It's about learning to dance in the rain!" Life is a journey. I am looking for someone to share mine with.I am just finished my ATA in medical assisting; I am a certified medical assistant with an AA degree. Now I am working on my CHT (certified hemodialysis tech). I do believe in romantic love; love at first sight; soul mates; the stuff we only see in movies. I do not, however, seek it out. I am a realist but I will never rule out the possibilities!I am strong on the outside, but once you get to know me you will find my soft side. I am sweet but I don’t cause cavities.I love chocolate! But I eat it sparingly.I work out 4 days a week at a minimum because it makes me feel good and gives me energy. I love to go on hikes and mini adventures as well as doing crossfit and Zumba. I often think about how awesome it would be to have a work out/hiking buddy!(Don't worry, I won't drag you to Zumba with me!)I love movies, snuggling up on the couch with a great guy to watch them with, and having deep, thoughtful conversation. I enjoy being mentally stimulated. If you are not the kind of guy who enjoys conversation I am not your type (and you are not mine!).I am a confident woman. I can laugh at myself and laugh at you. I find humor in most uncomfortable, non-humorous situations. If you are self-conscious about locking your keys in your car with the engine running, the wipers going and the headlights on, I am probably not your woman because I will most likely laugh and have a good time with this. Like for *** “blonde-star is great for situations like these…”I appreciate a man who knows the difference between “you’re” and “your”.My deal breakers are: You must not ENJOY wearing women’s clothing/panties. I am very open minded and non-judgmental but this one just creeps me out! (Halloween costumes are acceptable. I am talking on a daily/weekly basis!). SERIAL meetville DATERS: If you insist on keeping your meetville profile up the entire time we are dating and keep checking it, please click next user now! I am a woman who enjoys sex and will try anything at least once, but it is important to me to have that connection with someone before diving in. Sex is just sex, but sex with someone you connect with is AMAZING.Communication is and always will be at the top of my list. I believe in being 100% monogamous and with that I understand that if I am not happy about something, or vice versa, it is extremely important to talk about it and hopefully fix the fixable before it’s too late. This doesn’t imply that I am out to “fix” you, by the way. It means that if you feel you need more game time or time hanging with your boys, that you be able to communicate this need. Or if I need more affection/cuddle time I would like to be able to just tell you and find a way to make both parties happy :p I don’t “need” a man in my life; I “want” a partner/best friend. I am not the kind of woman who sits back and makes you do all the work in the relationship either. I have a voice and my own opinion. And please, don’t EVER order my food for me unless we are at the drive thru. THANKS in advance!I am serious but don’t underestimate my ability to be goofy. I like to have fun with my man and enjoy him. I expect that he has a great sense of humor and loves to laugh and smile with me. Be a big kid but also know when to draw the line between immature and having a good time. I am looking for my best friend; a man who will enjoy me and want to spend time with me. If you are too busy to put forth genuine effort towards the relationship, it probably won't work out!If you would like to know more about me or add to my lengthy post, or feel we have stuff in common, feel free to send me a message!~AmberPS: If you are still married, seperated or not ready for a relationship, I am not your girl. Something simple. Lets save real dates for the 2nd date :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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