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Jaime, 30
United States, Alabama, Bessemer

Offline, last seen Thu, 07 May 2026 02:27:40

About Me

I am a single mom of 2 future rock stars, I love music, art, literature, thrift store shopping, chill evenings, mellow hang-outs,i like people that know how to be themselves, and who can appreciate the small stuff in life. I am a total amateur when it comes to dating sites, so I am "proceeding with caution". No liars, cheaters or people who don't know what they want and think they do. If you're a serial dater or serial killer I'm not the girl for you. Ill never lie to you and expect the same from the people in my life. I can't do superficial people, sorry but life is too short for that and you miss too many opportunities. If you don't like music we probably won't have much to talk about but I will try to school you with a mix cd. Music is my refuge and I'm a firm believer in every moment of the day needing a good soundtrack :). My kids come first. Always. That's a solid. I'll try anything once and usually I'll like it. I get comfort zones but not people who never leave them. Step outside the air is fresher out here.Sense of humor is extremely important as I myself am a bit of a smart arce and like to have fun. I have quirks but they give me character and there part of what makes me me. Quirks =uniqueness or so my mama says. Life is short so I want to appreciate every bit of it while I can. Open mindedness is a a must. Anything else message me and find out ;)Apparently my profile keeps showing I'm online, I assure you I don't live on meetville however me and my mobile are not on this same term of understanding and I can't figure out how I log out. :(Update:: I have gotten a obscene amount of odd ball request so I'm gonna be as straight forward as possible and say: I'm looking for someone who is stable in their life, and has a job they've been with more than 5 days, (let's say at least a year), I tend to like tall guys with athletic to average build, no drug users or people with a felony background (I don't want to be your pen pal prison gal), its great that you have abs but if I can't laugh with you or have a conversation that doesnt involve your gym schedule -than abs can only entertain a girl for so long but thanks for the ab image. I'm looking for someone who has there s*it together so even if you think you do ask a non partial third party and be sure. I've done the girls gone wild thing and now am ready for the grown up stuff (code word relationship). And someone who loves kids (in a none creepy way). Sorry to sound full of myself (I'm completely not) or picky but I just want to be on the same page to maybe weed through some of the constant booty call messages. Or if you didn't actually read this.... (Insert your choice of profanity here) I like the element of surprise so we can wing it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Skiing French Irish Vietnamese Adventure Documentary Martial Arts Thriller Bowling Boxing
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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Hey, what's up my fellow men??? Lol, enough of the bull shit... Obviously I'm single that's why I'm on such a lovely site like this... However this site is a JOKE & I'm on here to amuse... All a majority of you want is ****, oh hey some of you might actually get lucky.... I have a bi-racial son who is 8 so if you think I'm nasty for ****ing the opposite race get off my profile, I happen to like black & white men... Diversity is nice, should try it some time.... I thought when I 1st started this site that I was on here looking for my "soul mate"lmao, "stupid girl" how naive am I....? Now its whatever, if you message me & I'm attracted to you, than let's chat.... Don't waste my time with random b.s if you do your homework so to speak won't need to ask pointless question, & if I don't get back to you OBVIOUSLY I'm not interested, take a hint. Don't make me block you, :)..... Ya, so I'm looking for someone to kick it with & who knows what else. If we hit it off great, but I don't do FAKE & playa status charming... Come at me real, or don't bother.... Muah, ya all have a great evening/afternoon/morning.... Smiles I'm a woman, the first date I want to be intellectually challenged & surprised...

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Gym rat, self sufficient business professional, adventurous, foodie, traveler, photographer, cook, high on life, drives a truck! Coffee, dinner, drinks, an evening in the gym :)

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I'm a pretty easy going girl. I like to spend time with my family and friends. If I could retire and travel all over the world, I would. I do love my job, though...it gives me the opportunity to travel to new and exciting places. I enjoy volunteering and do so mostly with adults with special needs. I love being active, so I'm usually in a league of some sort or heading to the gym. I enjoy going to the movies, concerts, sporting events, musicals, an art museum...or seasonal events like the American Royal BBQ, driving around looking at Christmas lights, going to the lake or dirt track races. I grew up on a farm and now live in the city...I'm a country girl at heart looking for a gentleman, but he needs to be able to dress up and go to a nice dinner too! I plan things for a living...I would be happy just having the guy make the plans!

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