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Kim, 29
United States, Alabama, Bessemer

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I do not respond to those "Wants to meet you" *** am a firm believer in communication so if you like what you see send me a message. I guess you could say that I am just me. I like a lil of dis a dash of that and a sprinkle of this just to spice it up. I am smart but also a smartalic lol. I am bright but I have my dim bulb moments, and many of them. I am outgoing but can have my shy moments. I am a real woman with real morals and ethics. Yes I am a BBW and I am not ashamed of it. Some of my hobbies are jewelry making and crafting. I am a major sci-fi nerd and right now seem to be obsessed with "Bow Ties are Cool" and seriously if you know what that means then MESSAGE ME!! Lets see I am acclectic in anything and everything I do; music, art, reading and food I like it all. Yes I am kinky and I am very open with my sexuality but if all you want to talk about is "ohhh my *** is so hard I want to ram it in your a$$!!" Then move on because behavior like that makes me sick. I am a good woman with a daughter and I know what I want out of my life and future relationship and that is NOT having it founded in sex.Must love children but ok with not having more, I can not have more children unless I adopt. Must be 4:20 friendly. Must be ok with the fact I have fibro and that it will be a part of whatever friendship/whatever might be. I need no Knight in shining armor. I want my best friend, my life mate, my Rory....I am who I am and most of all i like who I am. I am a mom first and foremost. I am a daughter and a friend. I am a sister and a pain in the ass. I am artistic and ditzy but I dare you to even try to take advantage of me. I have been beaten and belittled to the point of self hatred and I have fought my way back up to knowing I am one seriously kick ass individual. I am not perfect for everyone but I will be perfect for the right one. I have an attitude that would make a southerner blush and a temper to rival Madea. I will protect those I love with the ferocity of a momma wolf yet I am as tender as a baby pup. My love of animals is only out shined for the love of my framily. Gothy and Geeky make up only a part of me and my big ol beautiful curves well they help shape me lol. You can hate me but it only makes me stronger. You can bash me and put me down but all it does is make me determined to be the best I can be. My body may be failing me but my heart and soul gets better every day. Nothing is better then just being me. So all you haters KISS MY BIG WHITE SMEXY a***!! And Huggles to all my amazing true friends and admirers :) MUAH!!!My sister said I should add my *** she said "hmmmm yeah that about says it all..." so here it is...You wanna know the truth about me? Well I am to much to fully comprehend until you meet me. I am more true to me then probably many people you will ever meet/know. I am everything I do and say to the point that honestly I have no frackin filter no spell check in the noggin for politically correctness and people for social correctness well they hate me because if the thought pops in my head, I will say it. I want to start skipping down the hall at the mall because I am bored and want something to do... yeah done it....I am weird and annoying, sweet and caring, kinky and sinful, modest yet exposed a plethora of contradictions, catch-22's and just plain Wibbly Wobbly crazy. I will tell you like it is, flat out so you don't wanna hear it don't ask it. You're being a douche well guess what I can be a ****! You treat me with anything less then respect then guess what you will get in return... guess I dare ya...Honestly though I am all of this and so much more. I will be the first person to hold you if you need it, the first to get in a yelling match with you just to say something stupid get to laugh at myself and forget why I was mad. All I need is validation in my feelings as I validate yours and I am good. I don't hold grudges but if you hurt one of my pack you are gone from my life, no grudge held because I won't give you a second thought... sorry yeah truth... see no filter. People say that I should have a camera crew follow me around all the time cause well I would make millions. Me I just be who I am till the camera crew catches up. My sister who isn't blood but is more like me then me and who knows me inside and out, oh and the second sister who isn't blood but has been there for me for 19yrs and counting and is pretty much my sanity at times and there two guys, my brother by choice ( and that he comes with sister one) who fights with me like the little sister I am, protects me like the lil sister that I am and lays it on the line like only a big brother ever can, and brother number two who comes with sister two is the male me that I can't stand to be without but who has a brain that challenges me and the new found potential to be another amazing friend (and who will be very sweet come in and leave a comment with all the correct grammar and jazz cause he won't be able to help himself) and the two teenagers who are my daughters but my nieces and not blood who I swear took my personality and split it and the 6 year old who is my blood who if you have ever seen that car commercial where the car drives through the city changing colors for every person and reflecting their inside personality gets to the little girl all pink like but then you see her reflection and she is some dark angel... yeah my kid is that and then let us not forget the 3 year old who is not my blood but is oh so very much mine simply so I can yell at his little pain in the GRRRR (get all that?.. well that is how they sum me up.I am me and nothing more. I want nothing but to be myself and have the honor to know others just the same. Be you and be true.HUGGLES Not a clue. I have been out of the dating world for so long I wouldn't have the first clue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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