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Bettie, 29
United States, Alabama, Bessemer

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 20:04:08

About Me

In a nutshell i am one big mass of contradictions and confusions....but hey...at least it is never a dull moment when i am around.I work rather odd hours (overnight weekend shifts) hence why I'm here. I am always on the hunt at self expression. The acceptance of my quirky weird and some what twisted nature has been long in the past and I embrace this side of me with open arms. I love to be creative. Photography, painting, drawing, charcoal and graphic design. I'm a mac lover and pc hater *sorry no offense!*. I'm not really the girly girl, make up wearing type. I'm a pretty down to earth, t shirt n jeans kinda chick that can spend a night in cuddling on the couch watching a movie but also likes to go out on crazy times with friends.What I’m doing with my lifeEnjoying the little moments and not taking anything for granted.I’m really good atBeing there for people. I try not to judge others on the decisions they make, or the situations that life throws at them. People make mistakes, its human nature. I am good at empathizing with people while being their cheerleader as well as that swift kick in the ass when needed. Did i forget to mention I'm a believer in tough love? :PThe first things people usually notice about memost likely my smile...and oddly enough I have been told more than once by people that they like the way I talk, not really sure what that means.Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and foodi'm pretty much open minded and not picky about anything. I love all genres of music. I love going to concerts. I have too many favorites to list. It also depends on my mood what ill listen to. Movies and food, pretty much the same thing. I'm up to try anything at least once. I am a bit of a bookworm, and yes the geek in me loves to be on my mac with my adobe programs. Photoshop is my favorite.I spend a lot of time thinking aboutFriends family, life. Where i will be in the future. Ideas and emotional feelings tied behind my inspirations for photos and art. And of course if this online dating stuff is going to work out.On a typical Friday night I amat work...i work night shifts fri-sun

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Dance English Greek Irish Adult Adventure Sci-Fi War Western Cricket Golf
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