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Ashley, 49

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About Me

We all want the fairy tale so I would say thats what I want as well... someone who will be by my side through the hard times as well as the good times....someone you can depend on, someone who is honest and FAITHFUL...tired of the cheaters and those who want to play games or take drugs...if you're a drug person please pass me by!!!I like different kinds of music, country being my first choice.......cant handle the head banging stuff!I can be honest to a fault, I say whats on my mind and some people can handle it and then there are those who can not.... :-)I'm not interested in one night stands, its just not my thing as I will have to look at myself the next day....its a moral thing!For those of you looking just to get froggy, sorry its not going to happen...keep looking elsewhere :-)Drink of choice would be a venti 7 pump no foam no water chai from Starbucks...then would be a margarita :-)Friends first then lets see where it goes...I do have a question for you guys. ..I have a guy friend that says ALL men cheat but personally I dont see how he could speak for all men as he is just one man who cheats....but my question is, is it true and are we wasting our time trying to find someone true of heart and can only love and be with ONE woman?My theory on people who cheat have never truly been in love... First date...mmmmm...lets see maybe lunch or dinner.Not really into the bar scene, cant stand the smoke but will go on occasion :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bails

    Offline

    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-29

    Hi! My name is Bails. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Jupiter, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Hazel

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I believe "People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime!"! After a "Crazy-Great" 1st date, (the kind that makes you wonder to yourself, "Is this THE ONE?") ..only to be over before it had a chance to start. (CRUSHING!) In hindsight , I choose to look at it as a "glass half full" experience and learned a HUGE life lesson from that crappy experience...so even though everyone I date isn't a "Love Match", they may teach me something new or possibly end up being a friend I can always count on.., BUT,(that being said) ...what I'm REALLY ready for is intense passion and lasting love...NOW and for a LIFETIME!I've been described as having "High maintanence looks - with a down-to-earth personality"! (I stole it, since it fits me perfectly! Thankx!)As the Queen of my life, I have dethroned my king and am ready to find his successor. (Court Jesters need not apply) I know...it sounds bizarre to think THIS is what it has come to...Looking for a potential partner on the same laptop I shop for FABULOUS SHOES on cracks me up! On the other hand, I HAVE found some REALLY GREAT heels this way! (I'm JUST sayin!)...So I'm open to the possibly of finding a FABULOUS GUY online, too! (Why not!) I am (honestly) the type of woman when you introduce me to your friends, they end up liking me immediately because I'm fun to be around. I LOVE Portuguese Bullfights and Festas (Wanna go together?) I'm look forward to being in a LTR that includes marriage (with the RIGHT guy, not the 1st guy I meet) that "RESPECT" is the word of the day...everyday! If you don't want an action or behavior to be done to you, is it really too much to ask that you not do it to me? As for "Adult Beverages", I am a social drinker and might tie one on a few times a year. That said, I hope to find someone that prefers being in my company MORE than keeping a bar stool warm with his buddies. Frankly, the reception you receive from me at the end of a long day is VERY FAVORABLE if I don't feel like you're only home 'cuz you didn't have any other friends to "play" with. Additionally, I think I might have to take a pass on the guy going thru some mid-life crisis...Someone who is comfortable in their current life, but wants to share THAT life with an outstanding asset of a woman (ME) sounds like my kind of guy. My work schedule is (for me) perfect! I put in long work days Tuesday-Friday and get to have Saturday-Monday as "Me Time", so I have plenty of time to enjoy life again, should I find the right guy to do that with. I am definitely a "Relationship" person, over a "New flavor of the week" kinda gal and think finding a like-minded, passionate (in ALL ways) , affectionate, hand-holder with a comfort for appropriate PDA that when he kisses me, I am transported to a place where only "we" are ..."- man". I don't see myself dating someone who, (by THIS point in their life) has NEVER been married. In my book, I believe that person is TOO set in their ways won't have the ability to make the compromising that is needed to sustain a mutually respectful relationship. Also, I am "open" to a partner w/ kids, but ask that you have time to devote to building "our" relationship, as well. I have a great relationship with my ex-hubby and his wife and do family events together still. My grown kids are still very close w/ my last BF,(of 13 yrs) so it's not out of the question he join in those events, as well. I look forward to enjoying LIFE! The smell of the ocean breeze while walking the beach is a great way for me to "relax"..throw in a bottle or 2 of champagne, I call that almost perfect...include a man that I could kiss for days rocks my world in every way..I CALL THAT HEAVEN! (Is that REALLY too much to ask for?)My BIG ***was in June. I have dubbed ***the 1st year of the rest of my life"! WHO KNOWS??? With any luck, MR Right could end up being "YOU"! I'm a GREAT catch! If you are too... Let's be each others LAST 1st date! I'm Ready, Are you?...I prefer to not start a long-distance situation, as it makes it impossible to do those last minute hang out & watch TV moments, dash over & cook dinner together, or (don't think poorly of me...but I AM a grown-ass woman)"bootie calls". It also doesn't allow for the dating stuation to progress into a real relationship & learn how to effectively deal with conflicts,.(since you tend to remain in the "honeymoon" stage) I like the idea of not being rushed through a 1st meeting. Lunch usually has an expiration time, unless it's on a day when neither of us are working. Something low-pressure for both of us. I can talk to anyone & have the ability to carry the conversation, but my hopes are that I don't have to. I want to walk away from a first meeting, feeling like I have a better idea as to who you are. Humor is a great ice-breaker, so lighten up & relax...You might just enjoy yourself!

  • Lee

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I believe in Jesus and trees and colors and energy and respect and our responsibility for being good humans. I'm very dynamic. I'm really just moving into a new phase in my life and want to be around solid, good folks. I'd rather play word games than mind games. And it's okay to laugh with me but don't put me in a box. My time and your time are too worthy to waste. I believe in the power of going through things to discernment. I support personal preference and safety for who we really are inside. I believe in responding, not reacting. I believe that life is an adventure but to hold sacred the things that define us. I believe that dead plants in the yard don't need to be watered -- they can't always be uprooted completely or carelessly, so gentleness is a must. I am sincere. Hopefully, others' experience of me is one that makes them smile. I don't just look, but I see the good in others. I KNOW it's there. I seek wisdom and peace. I laugh and feel quite a bit.My match: Honesty. Kindness. Communication from every level you've created for yourself...be brave and comfortable; teachable and appreciative. Creative. Non-judgmental, but have your opinions and facts to toss around with me - we can observe and try to figure things out together. Give back to the world. Don't whine ALL the time. Show me new things. Open-mindedness and mindfulness is important. No drugs.... Courteousness. Enjoy music and the kid in you. Integrity. Trustworthiness - words and actions need to match or be awfully close as they are both yours. Be your best you. It's okay to recreate yourself and think outside of your box...it's a fresh start. So bring your lessons, challenges, and smile...don't forget your smile. Look at the past as experience to the greater you today. Don't be too stubborn but be you. Invest in yourself and the things that matter to you...and hopefully, they'll matter to me as well. Love children...especially your own. And, take it easy... (This reminds me of Mary Poppins, when the kids are placing an ad for their nanny....;) )... A nice time. Smiles and comfortable communication. Im not looking for a one night or even multiple one-night(s). Be real...be a good guy!!! I will show up, daddy. One daddy only right here!

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