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Janis, 49

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About Me

I am a 49 year old widowed***white female. I am 5'4" tall, approximately ***lbs. and I have a M build. I am a former Iarge BBW***. There is still room for improvement and things that I cannot change. I am working on completing my personal transformation and looking into becoming a certified personal trainer to help others. I have long; naturally blond/curly hair and blue eyes. I consider myself average in appearance. I am a fashionista of sorts, but I am not high maintenance. I have a couple of small tatts and a nose and eyebrow piercing that I wear.infrequently. I tend to be very laid back. After burying a child and a husband before the age of 45, everyday life just isn't that serious. I am forever HOPEFUL. I am strong, independent, and self sufficient. I have a sarcastic and sometimes bawdy sense of humor. I like the simple things. I prefer daisies, camping and buffets over roses, luxury hotels and fine dining. I love the outdoors; being near the water(pool, lake or ocean) and I love the smell of pine. I love animals(the furry kind). I have 6 guinea pigs. They are my four legged children. I have 3 children of the human species.;; living in heaven with GOD. I have a huge heart that needs to be filled with love. I am 100% loyal and dedicated to those I choose to give my heart to. I am very demonstrative with my feelings; verbally, physically and sexually. I prefer younger men, but it is not a deal breaker; young at heart is fine. I do have a desired age range; it is 35 to 52. I prefer someone who is relatively fit; for health reasons and I don't need someone who will derail my own efforts to get fit. Looks are not important(exception: no long hair and/or full beards; body hair we can work on). Attraction comes with an emotional connection. I want someone who takes care with their appearance. They make amazing grooming products for men these days. Work clothes are for work; no dirty clothes or suits and ties. I love men in a trendy pair of blue jeans and a graphic tee. I would like someone who loves the outdoors and animals. I would love a man that comes with a dog. Older children are okay. Money, fancy cars and motorcycles are unimportant.I need to be with someone who can express their feelings physically and sexually. Your masculine parts need to work. I can't live the rest of my life without touch. I need someone who has a passion for me and shows it.It is not necessary to have all the same interests. I enjoy my ME time. Time apart is healthy. I don't need to be up anyone's A$$ ***.I took the time to complete my profile; so if you wish to communicate with me, you need to have at least a couple of short paragraphs about yourself in your profile or say something more than HI, when you message me for the first time. My chat is turned off. You must mail message me. Nothing fancy or expensive. Bar food or appetizers. We can even split the bill.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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