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Linda, 49

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About Me

I love all sports. I have 2 great kids who are scholar athletes, ages 20 and 22. I'm fiercely loyal to my family, which includes my kids and former spouse. We get along great, he is a my friend and my family. But we are not in love, just family! I'm competitive. I think my best feature is my sense of humor/sarcastic wit! Still playing indoor soccer (poorly). My taste in music is varied-went to 16 concerts this year! Love the comedy clubs. Love to be spontaneous, just jump in the car. Love road trips to anywhere. Hate when people spend money on me. The words-Please and Thank you are VERY important to me. I truly do want to be that special someone that he cant live without, who he thinks of and smiles, who he cant wait to get home to, the one who gives him goosebumps.! I refuse to be a Drama Queen even though Ive encountered a few speed bumps in this life. I conquered them all and don't look back. Ive had my heart broken, but Ive learned from it. I'm baggage/drama free. I'm actually happy!! I love to mow the lawn bc I love the smell of gasoline and fresh cut grass. Love Yankee Candles. Love, love, love to laugh til it hurts. Love to cuddle, light fires inside or out, love movies. Love the drive in! And of course competitive in mini golf, trivial pursuit and someday beer pong! Love going to the gym early when the blue haired ladies are there cuz it makes me look young!! I love practical jokes and cotton candy! And the best thing is black jelly beans. Oh and sushi and anchovies on pizza! Love music from the 70's and 80's. But also love my kids music, too.Love to wear skirts, blue jeans, flip flops-love being barefoot all summer. LOVE fresh sheets on a bed. Love Mohegan Sun.Looking for Chemistry, but mostly Sparks.Future Goals include fulfilling my Bucket List each year- ........all with a cute, young, single, sweet, handsome, well built, sensitive, athletic man........giggle picnic, drinks, wings/beer watching NFL on a Sunday is very cool, or a bottle of wine with a fire and watching movies at home, best yet is having a guy cook for me while I sip red wine and watch his butt move.....just being honest... and silly. The beach at nite is amazing romantic and hot...Great dates often are just spontaneous-jump in the car and drive. Or mystery dates where he doesnt tell you where u are going......:)) Fun date wouldbe happy hour and then attempt Par 3 golf...really really want to go to the drive-in this summer with a cooler and a blanketNeed to recapture alot of the passion i had earlier in life and find those things that excite me. I gave all I had to my family and forgot about myself. Don't regret a minute of it, but now it's my time....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hazel

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I believe "People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime!"! After a "Crazy-Great" 1st date, (the kind that makes you wonder to yourself, "Is this THE ONE?") ..only to be over before it had a chance to start. (CRUSHING!) In hindsight , I choose to look at it as a "glass half full" experience and learned a HUGE life lesson from that crappy experience...so even though everyone I date isn't a "Love Match", they may teach me something new or possibly end up being a friend I can always count on.., BUT,(that being said) ...what I'm REALLY ready for is intense passion and lasting love...NOW and for a LIFETIME!I've been described as having "High maintanence looks - with a down-to-earth personality"! (I stole it, since it fits me perfectly! Thankx!)As the Queen of my life, I have dethroned my king and am ready to find his successor. (Court Jesters need not apply) I know...it sounds bizarre to think THIS is what it has come to...Looking for a potential partner on the same laptop I shop for FABULOUS SHOES on cracks me up! On the other hand, I HAVE found some REALLY GREAT heels this way! (I'm JUST sayin!)...So I'm open to the possibly of finding a FABULOUS GUY online, too! (Why not!) I am (honestly) the type of woman when you introduce me to your friends, they end up liking me immediately because I'm fun to be around. I LOVE Portuguese Bullfights and Festas (Wanna go together?) I'm look forward to being in a LTR that includes marriage (with the RIGHT guy, not the 1st guy I meet) that "RESPECT" is the word of the day...everyday! If you don't want an action or behavior to be done to you, is it really too much to ask that you not do it to me? As for "Adult Beverages", I am a social drinker and might tie one on a few times a year. That said, I hope to find someone that prefers being in my company MORE than keeping a bar stool warm with his buddies. Frankly, the reception you receive from me at the end of a long day is VERY FAVORABLE if I don't feel like you're only home 'cuz you didn't have any other friends to "play" with. Additionally, I think I might have to take a pass on the guy going thru some mid-life crisis...Someone who is comfortable in their current life, but wants to share THAT life with an outstanding asset of a woman (ME) sounds like my kind of guy. My work schedule is (for me) perfect! I put in long work days Tuesday-Friday and get to have Saturday-Monday as "Me Time", so I have plenty of time to enjoy life again, should I find the right guy to do that with. I am definitely a "Relationship" person, over a "New flavor of the week" kinda gal and think finding a like-minded, passionate (in ALL ways) , affectionate, hand-holder with a comfort for appropriate PDA that when he kisses me, I am transported to a place where only "we" are ..."- man". I don't see myself dating someone who, (by THIS point in their life) has NEVER been married. In my book, I believe that person is TOO set in their ways won't have the ability to make the compromising that is needed to sustain a mutually respectful relationship. Also, I am "open" to a partner w/ kids, but ask that you have time to devote to building "our" relationship, as well. I have a great relationship with my ex-hubby and his wife and do family events together still. My grown kids are still very close w/ my last BF,(of 13 yrs) so it's not out of the question he join in those events, as well. I look forward to enjoying LIFE! The smell of the ocean breeze while walking the beach is a great way for me to "relax"..throw in a bottle or 2 of champagne, I call that almost perfect...include a man that I could kiss for days rocks my world in every way..I CALL THAT HEAVEN! (Is that REALLY too much to ask for?)My BIG ***was in June. I have dubbed ***the 1st year of the rest of my life"! WHO KNOWS??? With any luck, MR Right could end up being "YOU"! I'm a GREAT catch! If you are too... Let's be each others LAST 1st date! I'm Ready, Are you?...I prefer to not start a long-distance situation, as it makes it impossible to do those last minute hang out & watch TV moments, dash over & cook dinner together, or (don't think poorly of me...but I AM a grown-ass woman)"bootie calls". It also doesn't allow for the dating stuation to progress into a real relationship & learn how to effectively deal with conflicts,.(since you tend to remain in the "honeymoon" stage) I like the idea of not being rushed through a 1st meeting. Lunch usually has an expiration time, unless it's on a day when neither of us are working. Something low-pressure for both of us. I can talk to anyone & have the ability to carry the conversation, but my hopes are that I don't have to. I want to walk away from a first meeting, feeling like I have a better idea as to who you are. Humor is a great ice-breaker, so lighten up & relax...You might just enjoy yourself!

  • Arline

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am looking for someone to share life with. At the age to have fun, travel, enjoy life. Work at two jobs to support 2 kids in college. Off times i like to go out with friends. Enjoy camping, hiking, golf, bowling or hanging around on couch. I am honest, direct with my words. Do not like games or drama. Depends on the situation

  • Jessie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am an easy going gal that is very honest. I believe communication is the most important thing in any relationship. I have a very kind heart and love to laugh and smile. So I do things for others so I can see them smile. It is easy for me to bend and blend with others. Family is very important to me, and I do hope it is to you. I enjoy riding my motorcycle whenever I can. I love the outdoors, camping and fishing. I miss playing softball and jet skiing. I also spend a lot of my free time embroidering on my machine.I do have tattoos but I am still a lady. I am a traumatic brain injury survivor from an accident that happened 5 years ago, but I am still a caring and loving person and capable of doing most things.Wanting a man to except me for who I am as I do him.I am not ***friendly and I don't care if it is legal now I am allergic to it. If you smoke it, please keep on searching.I have noticed that a lot of men have cats. I am truly sorry but my allergy to cats is extreme. I call this first meeting. I would say somewhere public but not noisy.

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