Total users: 59,801,637 Online users: 215,094
Bertha, 49

Offline, last seen Thu, 06 Nov 2025 20:27:57

About Me

Hi, I'm a retired Army officer of 20 years. Uncle Sam has blessed me with the ability to now spend more time with my children. I like to stay busy with DIY projects, yard work, and of course activities with my kids, friends, and family. Lets see....I have 12 children, but the good news is.... the triplets are almost potty trained!! Still here? Okay, seriously I have 4 children, 2 girls/2 boys. My oldest is in college, one is a HS senior, and my boys are 11 & 12. I was incredibly fortunate to adopt my three youngest and they are all the light of my life. That's pretty much all I'm going to say about them at this point because the mother bear in me is pretty protective. Okay now that I've got all the scary stuff out of the way....and you're still here....I have brown hair and big brown eyes. I no longer have the body of a 21 year old but I am a very fit size 6 and work out everyday (well M-F that is). All my pics are recent. What you see is what you get! So you don't have to worry about a "see and flee" first date! I'm a genuinely happy person. "Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass...it's about learning how to dance in the rain". Holding hands, giving massages, cuddling and gazing into each others eyes are important to me. I enjoy hiking and shooting (9mm & compound bow). But don't let the whole shooting or Army thing scare you, I still like to dress and look like a lady....hair, nails and all.Lets see...... I love hiking, camping, snow skiing, scalloping, going to sporting events (especially baseball), and love, the beach. I like to travel and experience different cultures. I like to joke and I like a guy that is not afraid to go toe-to-toe with a bright and vibrant woman. So if I pin your ears back from time to time, please know that it is all in fun. I am "honest" if nothing else and I truly mean that in all things. So I am looking for someone that is equally honest. I'd like a guy that is physcially fit, not necessarily ripped or buff (although that is nice too), but someone who is not over weight or who has simply let-themselves-go. Oh and bald is absolutely fine too. I love a guy with a great smile, the kind of smile that is reflected in his eyes. I'm very much an Independent. Fiscal conservative but pretty liberal in other areas. I enjoy someone who is open minded and can appreciate the diversity that life has to offer. I hope to find someone who understands that life is about continual growth and discovery. I have a good number of interests and am naturally curious, so figuring out a first date that we would both enjoy should not be difficult. But a simple lunch or drink is fine too and allows for a chance to just talk. If I order dessert or a second cup of coffee, that's a good sign ;) I'll assume it is if you do as well. I'm open to talking on the phone and text messaging a bit as well. So if any of this has sparked an interest just shoot me an *** look forward to hearing from you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Robyn

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-36

    Heyyyy..... My name is Robyn. I am newly divorced and I live in jupiter fl and originally from NY. I moved to Florida 8 years ago to be near my family. I love living in paradise with the bluest skies and bluest water. I just love the beach and I love riding my pink beach cruiser bicycle all year round. I also go to the gym and practice yoga everyday. Right now I'm looking to just meet new people and make friends and lets see what happens. I am very old school with traditional values. I love listening to music and dancing. i love just to smile and laugh and have FUN!!! I don't smoke and i drink occasionally... As my party rock ⭐ dayzzzz are overrr ... I am very motivated in business. I love to cook and entertain. I also love animals especially cats. If your looking for a friend so am I ...

  • Dionne

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi, and thanks for checking out my profile.As a divorced mom with a grown child, I'm looking for a fun companion for traveling and romantic evenings. Here's my vision: we each live in our own homes, get together to check out restaurants, movies, go to the beach, travel, and anything else we like to do together. Marriage isn't a goal for me at this phase of my life, but spending time with a cool and fun guy definitely is. Could you be that guy? You don't have to worry about me being white trash gone wild or anything like that; what you see in my photos is what you get. I am really 49 years old and proud of my years, even though I'm often told I don't look my age (and sometimes I don't act it either). I'm a responsible girl with a good job and I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. I admit to having a preference for men on the taller side, and salt n' pepper hair is a big plus. I like a man who has his own interests and hobbies. If you like to take your Harley out for a ride, go for it. Hang out with the boys on Sundays for a Bucs game? Have at it! I think relationships are much better if people aren't stuck together like glue, and it makes the time spent together that much better. Be interesting, be fun, and be yourself. We're in our forties now, so we've moved past the emotional drama and 2.5 children requirement. Let's fill the blank spaces in our lives together. First date would be over a glass of wine in a quiet place where we could get to know each other. It will be a low-threat environment; if we don't click, we can say we've met a great person and move on.Best of luck to everyone out there, and remember not to take things personally. We're all trying to find that amazing person, and we don't always match up immediately. Be patient and keep trying!

  • Joann

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    In the spring and summer I enjoy gardening and RV camping (not tent camping). I really like country, rock and roll, and R&B music.Family and friends are very important to me. I have a 30 year old son and a 27 year old daughter, who each have families of their own. I am a grandmother of two and hope for more in the future. I really like family BBQs and picnics. My goals and aspirations involve finding a special some one who is looking to enjoy life. I would like to find a man with a positive disposition and a conciderate, and kind nature. My goal is to live as stress free a life as I can, filled with laughter and good people.... I want a man to protect me like a daughter, love me like a wife , and respect me like his mother! We can decide together!

Follow Us: