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Bertha, 49
United States, Florida, Jupiter

Offline, last seen Mon, 13 Jul 2026 20:43:22

About Me

Hi, I'm a retired Army officer of 20 years. Uncle Sam has blessed me with the ability to now spend more time with my children. I like to stay busy with DIY projects, yard work, and of course activities with my kids, friends, and family. Lets see....I have 12 children, but the good news is.... the triplets are almost potty trained!! Still here? Okay, seriously I have 4 children, 2 girls/2 boys. My oldest is in college, one is a HS senior, and my boys are 11 & 12. I was incredibly fortunate to adopt my three youngest and they are all the light of my life. That's pretty much all I'm going to say about them at this point because the mother bear in me is pretty protective. Okay now that I've got all the scary stuff out of the way....and you're still here....I have brown hair and big brown eyes. I no longer have the body of a 21 year old but I am a very fit size 6 and work out everyday (well M-F that is). All my pics are recent. What you see is what you get! So you don't have to worry about a "see and flee" first date! I'm a genuinely happy person. "Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass...it's about learning how to dance in the rain". Holding hands, giving massages, cuddling and gazing into each others eyes are important to me. I enjoy hiking and shooting (9mm & compound bow). But don't let the whole shooting or Army thing scare you, I still like to dress and look like a lady....hair, nails and all.Lets see...... I love hiking, camping, snow skiing, scalloping, going to sporting events (especially baseball), and love, the beach. I like to travel and experience different cultures. I like to joke and I like a guy that is not afraid to go toe-to-toe with a bright and vibrant woman. So if I pin your ears back from time to time, please know that it is all in fun. I am "honest" if nothing else and I truly mean that in all things. So I am looking for someone that is equally honest. I'd like a guy that is physcially fit, not necessarily ripped or buff (although that is nice too), but someone who is not over weight or who has simply let-themselves-go. Oh and bald is absolutely fine too. I love a guy with a great smile, the kind of smile that is reflected in his eyes. I'm very much an Independent. Fiscal conservative but pretty liberal in other areas. I enjoy someone who is open minded and can appreciate the diversity that life has to offer. I hope to find someone who understands that life is about continual growth and discovery. I have a good number of interests and am naturally curious, so figuring out a first date that we would both enjoy should not be difficult. But a simple lunch or drink is fine too and allows for a chance to just talk. If I order dessert or a second cup of coffee, that's a good sign ;) I'll assume it is if you do as well. I'm open to talking on the phone and text messaging a bit as well. So if any of this has sparked an interest just shoot me an *** look forward to hearing from you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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