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Velma, 39

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About Me

Laid back, free spirited down to earth .... what u see is what u get kinda girl down 4 meeting new acquaintances & possible friendship ...... No time 4 BS or games. Must come real:)I am a classy, single, mother of four. ***yr old twins, 6 & 5) My kids come first and foremost so granted, kids are not for all. Those without mad love for the lil' people, need not apply.I am far from perfect, yet i am a perfectionist ......In my spare time I prefer to enjoy some quiet time. I have 4 kids ... quiet time is a rarity in my world!I am a born fashionista! LOVE LOVE LOVE 2 dress. Thank Goodness the kiddos follow in mommy's footsteps :)Also a huge passion for decorating. I truly have an undiscovered gift.And, the million dollar question. What am I looking 4 on pof? Drum roll ........ Looking 2 meet cool, interesting, honest friends in hopes of someday meeting that one person whom i cannot live without.When u look, u will not find. But I am also aware that going from the day care to work and home everyday is not exactly allowing for the opportunity to put anyone in a point TO cross my path and my impatience has caused me 2 try and take matters into my own hands and create that path ....I'm not a man hater nor a physcho. Don't exactly dig it when some of u guys feel the need 2 send pictures in the nude. Told ya, One, i'm classy. Two, a fashionista. Let me see how well u can dress not undress!! If u can't, no worries, i have a design consulting business that can help lend u that fresh eye for that perfect outfit to that perfect room ....I can tell a little about one's personality based on their style and their approach ... Naked has "CREEP" all over it! "SORRY! just keepin it real".If you're looking 4 a wife or a mother, no need apply. Those looking 2 cheat on their wives, need not apply.Currently, the most I can offer is an interview. Interview is pretty much pass/ fail. FEW pass .... I do not give out my phone #. IF u pass the the interview and prove 2 be someone worthy of my time, at that point, digits will be provided.Surprisingly, few even make it 2 the interview round. Some of u guys have no clue how 2 come at a lady! The interview is 4 the position of "friend" .... anything more than that is up 2 fate!!!!!I guess u can kinda say, I march 2 my own beat and i guess my goal is 2 meet someone who gets my beat as rythymless as it may be!!!Happy Fishing ..... ;)x Dinner & a coctail or two perhaps :)x

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Imogene

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    You must not make yourself wrong if you have a pattern you are creating over and over, for the clearing of that pattern is one of the ways you evolve. It is time now to bring this self into consciousness, talk to it, and give it a new image of what kind of love you want." ---Sanaya Roman, Living with JoyAbout who I am looking for: I am personally looking for someone that is well grounded in their relationship values and who is ready for a long-term relationship. That being revealed I would like to meet someone who is somewhat educated and can carry a conversation about anything that night arises; someone of at least slightly above average intellect with maturity, wit, intellect, generosity and good manners.I am looking for a calm and self assured man between the ages ***who is kind and good hearted. I think my type is the intelligent, well spoken, creative, nature and art loving, man's man type. Idealy 6ft or over, educated,and easy going. I am looking for a man whom I can get lost in conversation with, just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silence in each others arms. My ideal match would have a strong personality and a good outlook on life - love to go out as much as to stay in. A night reading a book can be better than a fine dinner. I prefer classy and sophisticated gentlemen who enjoy foreign travel, jazz, exotic dining, fine wine and contemporary art. Charm and manners seem to hold little value for many but I hold them dearly. You must have a sense of direction in your life and be successful in whatever you do.Yes, IM single, and you have to be amazing to change that :)Thanks for reading, if you came this far... ********************************** ****I do hope that everyone finds their soul mate...lover...companion....or friend on here.. Will be something like a quiet ambience with a glass of wine where we can talk and get to know eachother. I am not into bars and clubs!Also, bike ride sounds great: I love outdoor activities :-)

  • Dorothy

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I come from a big family & I am very family oriented.; 11 years older than me & we are all really close. We grew up in a ***year old stone farm house on 25 acres. So I love antiques...anything old really, the outdoors, gigantic trees, flowers, gardening & I actually know what it means to get your hands dirty!;; majored in business & accounting.;;;;; I spend a lot of time with my family. I have a bunch of nieces and nephews and I do love going to their performances & sporting events. My mom has 7 siblings, so I have tons of aunts, uncles & cousins. It's definitely comical when we all get together and it always revolves around the meal...and dessert!I love to travel, but would do it a lot more if I had a handsome travel partner. I enjoy long country drives with loud music playing & long walks on a beautiful day. I like all kinds of music really...jazz, blues, rock, whatever. Probably my favorite way to spend a day is going to an outdoor concert. I love yoga, especially bikram...the hotter the better. I am pretty passionate about doing my part for the environment. I do like to cook & seafood is my favorite.Personality wise, I am genuine, easy to talk to, direct, honest & usually smiling. I am fairly laid back, I guess that is just a by-..you kind of have to learn how to take it & dish it right back. So with that said, I like to have fun, can play & take jokes & it typically takes a lot to get a rise out of me. And strangely enough, after growing up completely surrounded by boys...underneath it all, I do have a sweet side...well...for a red head:-)I am looking for a good man, my soul mate & best friend whom I have undeniable chemistry with. He is a gentleman, loyal to the core, respectful, genuine and honest. He has a smile on his face most of the time, has a great sense of humor & knows how to have fun & make me laugh. He likes being outside, traveling & exploring new things & places. I want someone who is family oriented, or at least willing to jump in with my family. I'm looking for someone with a relaxed intensity: laid back, but at the same time knows what he wants & has the drive to go after it. I like a straight shooter, one that doesn't play games. I want someone who realizes that I am a big girl & can handle just about anything, even if it hurts. He is able to express how he is feeling in the moment & where he stands when issues arise. I want someone who fights kindly when we have disagreements & is willing to work through the issues until we resolve them & not run from them. He accepts me for who I am, the great characteristics & the imperfections because that is what makes me special & unique.

  • Charlenemahogh

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-44

    I just joined ***to search for a relationship that is ***will end up in long term commitment that is if I get lucky four6one who knows zero.. Merge the digit and test let get closer.. Cheers...

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