SIMILAR PEOPLE
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ArinOffline
Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46
I\'m a very down to earth person that is very easy to get along with. I like football and baseball, but i’m not a sports nut. I’m on here to find someone I could build a relationship with. Wanna try?
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EanOffline
Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46
I am looking for someone who is honest, grounded and down to earth, and enjoys all the aspects of being in a relationship. Someone who gives 100% and deserves it in return. Optimism is a great quality to have as well. I'm looking for the one I can't stop thinking about. I like keeping things fun, sending surprises, flowers, edible arrangements, notes, things to make my partner smile. I like to laugh and make others laugh. I am independent. I don't live with mommy and daddy, I bought my house when I was 22 years old. I have a car "that runs." You get the point don't you? I mean what I say and say what I mean. I always do what I say I'm going to do, very dependable. Open to single moms because there are a ton of them out there and I do mean a ton. I ask that you put forth an effort as I will also. We are all here for the same reasons. We all want to love and be loved. As we date, we should have fun, be positive, and always respectable. If there is no spark or we have a bad date, we should not get discouraged. We should keep going forward and realize this is an opportunity to learn about ourselves as a person.A friend told me a true story. He travelled to Africa for his work. He said while he was there he noticed the locals had elephants tied to small stakes that were driven into the ground. He asked why the elephants didn't just pull the stakes up and break the ropes to free themselves. The local told him when the elephants are infants, they are chained to a tree with a heavy chain. The infant tries to get free but can't break the chain. Exhaustingly day after day the elephant tries to get free but can't. As time passes, the chain is replaced with a lighter smaller chain. The elephant tries less and less to get free. Eventually the elephant gives up and no longer tries to get free. This is why as an adult, the elephant can be restrained with a small stake and light rope. He could easily pull the stake up and be free but doesn't try because he has given up. The point is no matter what life throws at you, don't be like the elephant. NEVER GIVE UP. I liked this story so much because it inspres thinking. Like how many things are there that one could have already accomplished had they had no self doubt, had they not thought twice because of something they read or something someone said to them. I've heard one is sometimes one failure away from accomplishment. Sometimes you just have to try one more time. The first meeting, I don't like to label it a date, should be very simple. Maybe stop for some frozen yogurt or grab a couple happy meals and go to a park. Yes I'll push you on the swings if you want me too. We can go for steaks on the second date.
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AndresOffline
Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44
So I asked ex girlfriends and female friends to rate me on a few categories. I took the average scores in an effort to give my future date the most truthful *** me. With a divorce rate of 50% my conclusion is that both men and women just simply keep making the wrong choice at who they date. I'm guilty of that as well however I want to wake up happy 20 years from now and nothing less. I look at my parents and grandparents for clues to long relationships and the common denominator is a good heart and character. Yes attraction is important however is a person is maybe a 7 in looks once you see their heart and personality maybe they become a 9. And maybe the person that is a 10 from a distance becomes a 4 after they open their mouth and spew hate or nonsense. I am a work in progress and am far from perfect. I do know the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So why do a lot of us continue to go for the same people and not give the people a chance who probably would make our lives better?? The only thing I can think of is simply our own arrogance of who we think we should be with physically and other selfish reasons. I am guilty of it myself. At that point we risk, divorce, heartbreak, and possibly bringing a child into this world that didn't ask to be here and making that child with a broken home and a tougher life. Not judging but I'm just saying why not give people a chance when they are willing to give you one, of course within reason. My results below of how others see me and not how I see myself.Looks = 8 Personality = 10Smile = 8Sense of humor = 10Honesty = 10 Caring =10 Just having fun with little expectations