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Carmela, 42
United States, Texas, Bryan

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After much giggling and guffawing w/a male friend who is also on this site, I've rewritten this profile a gazillion times to be less descriptive and less informative than I'd like. According to him, more words than a sports blurb is too much reading effort. While I put up a good fight, I deferred to him b/c he's a man and clearly has the inside scoop. I'm a great girl - that's really all I want to convey. I'm silly, smart, sassy, wise, kind, intelligent, spirited, goofy, funny, responsible, practical, thrifty, adventurous, gentle, fierce, affectionate, loving, quirky and respectful. I can also be a right pain in the ass - stubborn, willful, anxious and restless. Nowhere near perfect...I know myself pretty well and I work to be a better me every day. Having said that, I like who I am right now just fine. I've never married b/c I spent my 20s on my education and my 30s on my career - I'm sometimes surprised that I'm 42 years old already. I don't have a shady past, I don't have a criminal record, I've never done drugs or suffered any psychiatric or behavioral disorders. I've been in a few long- term relationships that didn't work out for various reasons. I'm okay with that and am not lugging around a bunch of baggage. I grew up overseas and would travel the world if I could. Most of my friendships are lifelong and span the spectrum of personalities. I am fortunate to have surrounded myself with fun-loving, adventurous and supportive people.My political views lean to the liberal side. I support prochoice, gay marriage, separation of church and state, gun control, privacy of citizens and responsibly managed social service programs. If you are a like-minded stable guy who enjoys his life, takes care of his responsibilities, loves to travel and has a silly streak, we might hit it off. I'm looking to meet a man who makes me laugh, someone witty, someone kind, someone smart, someone willing engage in genuine conversation and share experiences. If you are the obnoxious life of the party, the player, the fitness or sports fanatic, the dude living on the fringe of society or the self-important rich kid, I'm probably not the girl for you. A few automatic brownie points: well written, descriptive profile (which includes grammar, punctuation and spelling) and *** "hey there". If I need a teenager to translate your message, I'm definitely not the girl for you (ex: ";). I will never meet you right away. If you don't have the patience to communicate with me in a way that I feel comfortable, please don't bother. I also respectfully request that you NOT send pictures of yourself flexing your muscles, bare chested in the bathroom mirror. Yuck.PS) A friend just informed me that "I want to date but nothing serious" is synonymous with "seeking a player" so let me clarify my interpretation. I chose the "not serious" category b/c the "looking to get married immediately and have lots of babies" is too much for me. Dating someone could lead to a commitment, which is why I didn't choose the "casual/no commitment" option. So, when I say "I want to date but nothing serious" it doesn't mean I want a player or that I am a player. It means there's a potential for commitment if you're the right one for me but it takes time to date to know that. A casual drink or dinner where we can talk is just fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Metal Reggae Collecting
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