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Lenora, 44

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About Me

After a 17 yr marriage, it's time to rediscover myself. I have two amazing teenagers who keep me busy. But now, it's time to squeeze in some fun for myself, in between my busy lifestyle with my kids. One thing I don't tolerate: LYING.....hence, my impending divorce (which is taking longer than I ever thought possible). I've been separated for nearly 10 months (although I've been emotionally separated for many years) and am ready to move on with my life. What am I interested in? Maybe I should first list what I'm not interested in: old men with beer guts, biker dudes, farmers and cowboys, heavily tattooed men with ear gauges, fat men, men with long-hair, ZZ Top beards, men with gold teeth, nerds. IF ANY OF THESE DESCRIBE YOU, I WILL NOT REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGES. I have high standards, although not looking for perfection....just the perfect man for me. Things I like to do: I love to sing, go dancing, and love sporting events, except for NASCAR (which isn't a sport). I love running or playing anything competitive.! I'm a determined ball of fire and can compete with the best! What I want: I want a relationship with someone who is mature, respectful, full of conversation, even-tempered, accepting of my kids (ages 12 & 15), stable, passionate and attractive to me. No relationship should ever be exhausting. BTW, I'm learning that when men state they are "wanting a relationship," most of the time, that means a sexual relationship only. And I'm not interested in that alone. In addition, I am NOT looking for just a hot sexting/phone sex relationship. I deserve a real dating relationship that could potentially grow into something more. Anything less than that is not acceptable. Favorite music: R&B, pop music, smooth jazz, blues, contemporary Christian music. Turn-offs: Stupidity; excessively tattooed bodies; excessive facial hair; smokers; improper English (it's "you were", not "you was"); quiet men; hot tempers; lying; extremely hairy bodies; outdoorsmen; out-of-shape men; cowboys. In addition, if you don't know how to spell your profession, you're probably not going to be a good match. It's supervisor, not superviser. Also, note in a previous sentence how I used your and you're properly. ;-)Postscript: Messaging me for the first time "Mmmmm..." does not make a good first impression. And neither does the generic introduction, "Hi, how are you today?" Nor does the question, "Had any luck on here?" Be creative and make me smile! Please give me a reason to leave this site behind! Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rosalinda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ....well there a quite a few superficial qualities I can type in here to detail what I’m looking for in a partner, but honestly, a lot of guys I’ve dated have not had them and I still felt very lucky to have been with them. For ***, I’m not into football but if he is, then I can definitely open myself up to the experience. Many years ago, I even came to like bird watching. I didn’t sport the binoculars like he did, but I came to enjoy the beauty of hikes in the GA mountains and having a simple lunch on a huge rock. To me, it's all about chemistry and that feeling of....hmmm, I"d really like to get know this person more, they are interesting...Also, there’s something very sexy about a guy who does the right thing, especially when he’s standing in a sea of wrong-doers. It has nothing to do with physical strength (although that’s sexy too!) but has more to do with not being afraid to stand up for what’s right. l love this quote – “What starts off being difficult, usually ends up getting easier and what’s starts off being easy, usually gets more difficult.” It’s so true and it’s a phrase I remind myself of when I’m about to do something for my own good that’s either scary or difficult. Guys that are silly are very attractive. Being silly means keeping the kid alive and I’m all for that :) Well, there's the meet 'n greet and then there's the first date.........different events :) I think for a meet 'n greet sitting down for a drink is a good ice-breaker.

  • Tricia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a very nurturing,compassionate,giving,loyal,and genuine person. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I put 100% in everything I do. I consider myself to be a very strong and independent women. Im down to earth and enjoy the simple things in life. I love spending time with family and friends. I also enjoy spending time by myself.My hobbies include: going to the beach, traveling, fishing, gardening, reading, hiking, and photography.Goals: Being a nurse I try to make each patients day brighter and more fulfilling.I have a son that I raised on my own that attends VCU that I am very proud of. He is the light of my life and we have always been very close. What makes me unique is I find the best in people and Im not judgemental!I like a lot of diffrent music but mainly the 80'sI am looking for a man that is confident but not arrogant. Driven and knows what he wants out of life.He should be loyal, dependable, giving, nurturing, caring and trustworthy.A love for the outdoors and especially the ocean is a huge bonus as well as a good sense of humor.If you think we share things in common please send me an *** to dinner and have a nice coversation to get to know the other person better.

  • Chris

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    i love to take pictures,my favorite place to be is the ocean,i love music and art,i love my kids and spending time with them.I have a 14yr old son,joint custody,so if kids are not your thing..move on. I love fishing and football and I also like to read. Tattoos and piercings. Im happy and content and looking for the same. Good wine,great conversation and lot's of laughs and of course chemistry is a must.If your out there come find me. could be a coffee,dinner,a drink,who knows even just a walk to get to know eachother

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