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Bertha, 41

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About Me

I am a very laid back person who has a beautiful daughter. She is, and always will be, the light of my life! I love to look at life as a new adventure, I try to help people find the best in themselves and am easy to talk to. I am not a girly girl, but rather tend to spend my life in jeans and a t shirt....sometimes shoes :) Once a decade, I may dress up, towering over most people in my high heels! I take myself seriously when I need to, but have a childlike outlook to life. I tend to be better friends with men, as shopping and hair/ make up talk is soooo boring! I am looking for someone who can laugh out loud, dance in the rain, and who doesnt take themselves too seriously. I am always honest and expect the same from those around me. I am getting back into being more socially active now that my daughter is older. :) Things I have noticed about myself:* I have ugly feet and really don't care :) * I enjoy people watching and sometimes *** social situations, talking on elevators, sitting next to someone on a completely empty metro train, asking people if they like the items in their shopping cart while waiting in line.*I have the worlds WORST luck....I have tried to change this with no success.....at least it makes life interesting.*I cannot complete simple life tasks without something unusual happening, I always expect, and encourage, the unexpected. **I am competing in my first Warrior Dash soon and may be dead as a result.*I don't easily embarass, but have been known to try and embarass others. *I would rather be back country hiking in Yellowstone than attend any function where I have to dress up.....unless I can attend that function in my back country hiking clothes :) *I truly like to help people in need*I watch Dog the Bounty Hunter....*I refuse to buy a new car *My cell phone is just that, a cell phone.....may have a camera on it, but would have to check ;)*I am not as big of a pizza fan as I should be.*I love broccoli*I burn easily, but am convinced that it will peel off into a tan......hasnt worked so far but I am hopeful*I am a good driver*I have a torn acl and am putting off surgery......UPDATE- recently sucked it up and had the surgery.....now in recovery.....ugh! *The only hair product that goes in my hair is shampoo. Cant see the sense in paying for hair supplies when I barely brush my hair :) *I have strong opinions and love to play devil's advocate. Healthy debates are good. *I still own 2 VCRs and watch movies on them regularly*I am a pole fitness dancer....no, not stripper pole, but hard a hell athletic pole fitness.Pet Peeves:*People who insist that they dress their dogs like people....yuck!*This vampire movie/ book phenomenon....ewwwwww*and 2 pet peeves on this site:*Photos of guys with no shirt....I find it creepy*Edit/ spell check/ complete sentences.....if I can spell check and use complete sentences, so can you! That should be all for now! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bridget

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Je suis une personne bilingue, déterminée, fonceuse et qui aime la vie. Je suis travaillante mais garde ma famille et mes amis proches à mon cœur. Je ne pratique pas beaucoup de sports en ce moment par manque de temps. J'aime le camping, la pêche et être autour d'un bon feu de camp. J'aime aussi cuisiner c’est une passion pour moi. Je cherche quelqu'un similaire qui profite pleinement de la vie. Quelqu'un de mon âge, mais qui ne passe pas tout son temps dans le gym... rien contre cela, mais il ya tant à découvrir dans la vie.. un homme qui se prend pas trop au sérieux et qui aime rire et avoir du fun. Mes enfants ont maintenant grandis et je suis dans une autre phase de ma vie. Ne vous trompé pas, je les aiment beaucoup mais j’aimerais plutôt rencontrer quelqu’un qui est dans la même situation que moi. Ma première langue est le français et je m'exprime beaucoup mieux dans ma langue donc il serait bien que vous compreniez le français. Et svp je sais que l'âge n'a pas d’importance mais pour moi je constate que mon âge en montant est plus approprié pour moi :)I’m a bilingual determined go-getter that loves life. I’m a hard worker, yet, I keep my family and friends close at heart. I do not practice a lot of sports right now due to time constraints. I love camping, fishing and being around a good campfire. I also love to cook, which is a passion of mine. I'm looking for someone similar who enjoys life to the fullest. Someone around my age, but doesn’t spend all his time in the gym ... nothing against this, but there is so much to discover in life.. A men that does not take himself to seriously and loves to laught and have fun. My kids are all grown up now and I am in another phase of my life. Don’t get me wrong, I love them but I rather meet a guy which is in the same situation than me. My first language is French and I express myself allot better in my language therefore it would be nice that you would understand French.And please I know that age does not matter but for I find that my age and up is more suitable for me :)

  • Jacquelyn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am just an average woman seeking fulfillment from an average man. I have a good life but have always dreamed of that extraordinary relationship that few seem to have in their lifetime. I want YOU to think I am something special and I will be YOUR biggest fan. Together we are rare and incredible. I like to learn and grow but have no desire to jet off and see new countries every other month. I want a simple life that includes spending time with our extended families. Yes, I would love to go on some great vacations in our years together. I like to do and see things but value my time at home immensely. I like nice things but do not value a materialistic life. I like planning for retirement. I like an intelligent, professional, educated, funny and sexy man (a little geeky is cool, too). Chemistry and connection are so random and cannot be defined. In general I do NOT like younger men. I am only interested in men who want a relationship that has true intimacy, and a strong physical and emotional closeness. These things take time to grow. I love music and poetry. I am educated and down to earth. I am a mom first (two wonderful, fun, well adjusted boys ages 7 and 12). I am sarcastic and silly. I enjoy live music in small venues with great company. I do not want more children of my own but would love to blend families with the right man. Local guys only. You should be within a reasonable distance for realistic possibilities. I hate to put this out there but might save us both some time...I have mild herpes (have had this over 25 years). It is insignificant in my life and I get an "outbreak" maybe once every other year tops. I have never passed this on to a partner. I am cautious. ...hasn't hurt my sex life. My Motto: If I can't wear jeans then I don't want to go- OK, I do like to play dress up on occasion- see a show or the theater. Mostly I am happy with the simple life, watching my kids play baseball and soccer. I like to catch up with friends over drinks, read a good book, see an occasional movie. I hope to one day find a man who dreams of a great love. The ideal match would be so many things. He would be debt free with the exception of the house and car. He would be confident but not arrogant. He would LOVE touch, snuggling, hand holding, kissing and massages. The ideal man will be good with kids and enjoy throwing a baseball back and forth or shooting hoops. He would understand that while he would date only me for a while, if we were to hit if off that I am a package deal. I treat people with respect. I want to be adored. I want someone to adore. I want the sun, moon, stars all rolled up in a simple, happy real life. I want someone to emotionally grow with. I do not want to make the first move. If you are interested please send a note. Margaritas?!

  • Valeria

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like a bit of everything. I like being outside but I don't want to spend days trekking up a mountain. I like watching tv but not every night. I like getting dressed up to go out but I also like sitting at home in my pyjamas. I like talking and thinking but sometimes I need to just do stuff *** like old things that have history but I appreciate the newness of new things. I don't feel comfortable describing myself . After 24 hours of plenty of fish.. I never considered myself a particularly visual person but perhaps this might be less problematic for all if I tentatively request photos as part of the process. So I guess that means please dont communicate without a photo. Don't mind really what the first date is. Probably would prefer something during the day. It's difficult when it becomes an interview though

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