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About Me

How do you not make this sound like a wanted ad lol..I enjoy all kinds of music but tends to lean towards rock and metal. Im a huge movie junkie from old black and white to recent from horror to comedy. I love to laugh and joke around and hope one day to meet that one who will be my lover and best friend, a man not a boy who can hold an intelligent conversation with me but will be ok being goofy as well. Im educated, feisty and Im not perfect..Im pretty much an open book so anything you want to know just ask : ) Im in no hurry to find him Im happy with my life and the way its going right now. A friend would be great if something happens and sparks fly then awesome if not and we remain friends thats ok as well..I know not everyone reads these profiles so to be honest Im not really gonna fill in everything Im in to, what I enjoy doing, yadda yadda because in all honesty people on here look at the pics first and decide from there if they wanna reach out or not including me however I try my best to not judge a book by the cover because the person Im looking for may pass me by..So, if you wanna get to know me cool : ) . Talk to me message me and I will be happy to discuss pretty much anything with you. Update: Just because I message you with a compliment DOESNT always mean I want to meet you. “If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”By Bob MarleyI, with a deeper ***, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.By: Anais NinI do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, f***kd, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anaïs Nin

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gina

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Yes i do speak french :)) I am very out going. Love the outdoor always ready to try new things. I hate drama can't stand it. I love cycling and working out to stay in shape! I snowboard in the winter it's something that I enjoy a lot. I like to stay active as much as posible . I enjoy hanging out with good food and wine. If you want to know more hit me up :))

  • Muriel

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Well, the rebirth started when I made the conscious choice to improve my living situation, moved out, dropped 70 pounds in little more than a year (and counting), and found balance in my new life as a single mom of two great kids. I am interested in making acquaintances and see what happens. I'm honest and will be upfront with you - if I'm interested, I'll respond even if it's not immediate. I manage a busy single parent life so you'll need a little patience. If it’s meant to be, we’ll both know it, reach for it, make the effort and make a true connection, and that’s what I hope for - a fresh start to share this short life with someone who can reciprocate a fulfilling existence.Little 'bout me - I'm a clean cut gal who became a Navy wife, focused on college, career, and family. I'm a closet Sci-Fi geek with a silly side who sings to herself and enjoys painting, loves to swim, go for walks, and enjoy the occasional video game. I like to do a mix of indoors and outdoor activities that generally center around my kids and prefer to be active and productive so I feel like I accomplished something meaningful in my day. I'm an organized planner who adds in the spontaneous to keep life exciting and fresh. I dream of traveling to see more of the world and show my kids there is more to life outside our standard routine. I've been an executive in healthcare for many years so management is in my blood but I believe in life/work balance and time with my family is VERY important to me. And yes, even with weight loss, I'm still a curvy BBW. I expect more substance to a relationship than the physical but I get that attraction is key for both of us. The journey to my ideal size continues, but as I walk this path I know my worth and beauty inside and out. On the upside, I've been told recently I'm not as big as I seem to think the label states, but I don't think I'm just 'a few pounds' more than ideal either. My height hides alot - you'll just have to gauge for your self :-)As for you, I don't want to pre-define my 'dream' guy with a few choice characteristics because everyone's unique and cliché’s are a dime a dozen (pun intended), but a girl’s gotta have her standards. You must value true honor, honesty, communication, and respect, have a sense of humor, be self-motivated and even tempered. I am looking for someone who carries his own (want to be a partner, not your mother). You need to be strong and I’m not speaking physically, although being able to open the jar after I’ve loosened it up for you is a plus! I’m referring to strength of self, supportive, confident - do what it takes in good times and bad to get things done and still be sensitive and thoughtful to the events around you. I'm interested in a man who may do things I don't currently do, because I'm happy to explore new adventures for myself, and for my kids in appropriate situations. Speaking of kids, and this is a deal-breaker, you have to be ok with kids. There's nothing more sexy about a guy who can be all the things I've mentioned and still be the thoughtful teacher, a fun yet disciplined father-figure, especially if the kids are not his own blood. Understand as a single mom this sentiment is important: win my kids genuinely, want my kids truthfully, be a role model for the kids, and you're halfway into my heart! The other half is between you and I :-)If you feel I've peeked your interest to attract you socially, and we both can hit it off with a mutual (yet superficial) attraction based on a few photos, I welcome the opportunity to make your acquaintance. Best wishes for your search. We should keep it simple, meet for a coffee so we can chat and see if there is chemistry to continue.

  • Crystal

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Femme d'action, allumée, pétillante, cultivée et bien dans sa peau recherche son penchant masculin pour faire de belles rencontres et avoir des discussions intéressantes et intelligentes.Rien de compliqué, juste profiter du moment présent en bonne compagnie et qui sait par après ce qu'il peut arriver. J'aime tous les petits plaisirs de la vie... que ce soit le resto, ma famille, mes amis ou une simple marche en montagne le dimanche matin.Ce que je demande chez vous messieurs;- des échanges intelligents et stimulants - un bon souper animé ( j'aime rire et avoir du plaisir // je suis très taquine)- faire des activités pour apprendre à mieux se connaître ( sportives ou culturelles)- etc... soyez imaginatifDonc, si tu es un HOMME célibataire, sportif, NON FUMEUR, aimant rire , alors tu as déjà une longueur d'avance...

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