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About Me

How do you not make this sound like a wanted ad lol..I enjoy all kinds of music but tends to lean towards rock and metal. Im a huge movie junkie from old black and white to recent from horror to comedy. I love to laugh and joke around and hope one day to meet that one who will be my lover and best friend, a man not a boy who can hold an intelligent conversation with me but will be ok being goofy as well. Im educated, feisty and Im not perfect..Im pretty much an open book so anything you want to know just ask : ) Im in no hurry to find him Im happy with my life and the way its going right now. A friend would be great if something happens and sparks fly then awesome if not and we remain friends thats ok as well..I know not everyone reads these profiles so to be honest Im not really gonna fill in everything Im in to, what I enjoy doing, yadda yadda because in all honesty people on here look at the pics first and decide from there if they wanna reach out or not including me however I try my best to not judge a book by the cover because the person Im looking for may pass me by..So, if you wanna get to know me cool : ) . Talk to me message me and I will be happy to discuss pretty much anything with you. Update: Just because I message you with a compliment DOESNT always mean I want to meet you. “If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”By Bob MarleyI, with a deeper ***, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.By: Anais NinI do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, f***kd, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anaïs Nin

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kelsie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-41

    Hi! My name is Kelsie. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Canton, Michigan, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Marissa

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hello,I am a woman who is missing that someone special who I can share my days with. I have 3 beautiful children that I share custody with there dad. I would like to meet someone who considers himself a family man. My ideal man would believe family comes first and enjoy spending time with both me and my children. I have pets and love animals so you would have to like animals as well. It's always a bonus if a guy is funny and can make me laugh. It's important for me to find a man who can be a good role model for my children, they do have there dad who loves them, but when they are with me its nice to know they can have someone to look up to and learn from if it came to the point where I wanted you to meet and hang out with them (which wouldn't happen right away of course)I would say I am a bit of an introvert, I don't always like to be around lots of people for small talk, I'd rather be around a few people I feel comfortable with. I am not a person who parties, smokes or does drugs, so if you do any of these I am NOT interested (sorry) !!I am looking to meet that special someone who thinks the world of me, is loyal, dedicated to the relationship and loves spending time with me. I want you to feel like you can't wait to see me again after you just left :) Being physically attracted to each other is important, and a killer smile on a guy will make me melt !!! I love it when a guy has nice straight, white teeth lol seriously though, its kind of a must for meOne last thing....if you are going to message me please be prepared to have a conversation or don't message....It's tiring to have a one way conversation, I can only ask so many questions without being asked one in return...lol. I am NOT into messaging for many days or weeks before meeting, I think meeting sooner in person is a better way to see if there is a connection.Thanks to the guys who read all of this so far haha ;) Send me a message if you would like to chat.... I think meeting for a drink is a good way to get to have a conversation to see if there is potential for a second date.

  • Elisa

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I really don't no what to say on here so if u would like to no anything just ask I feel the Only way to get to no someone is in person so just message me I am a easy person to get along with. But please only message me if you are wanting to get to know me i am not on here for just sex. Go some where to get to know each other

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