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Jami, 39

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About Me

Well hmmm :)… First and MOST importantly I am a single mother of two young children ages 4 and 6. They are my world!! So, enjoying children is a must, my children are everything to me. :)I am here just to see what is out there and maybe chat with someone that has the same drive, focus and values as I do. Don't give up when looking for women, there are still some good ones out there!... My favorite quote that could be applied to dating... "You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!" As for me, I am an easy going jeans and t-shirt kind of gal. I am not in any hurry to jump right into anything... and I am not interested in games!.... life is too short for that nonsense. I want to make someone happy!!! I am "old fashioned" for the most part, dedicated, devoted, honest and open. I have a big heart which I tend to wear on my sleeve and would love to share it but won't give it to just "anybody". I am pretty sure that is why I am still single and looking for "Mr. Right!" ;) I would say I am looking for a fun, family oriented man with a good sense of humor and a nice smile! Someone that is close with their family, honest, and true to his word. I tend to show more interest in men that have children, since they seem to understand the wonders as well as challenges of parenting, but it is not a date breaker if a man can understand my busy role as a fulltime single parent. :) Someone that has a stable job and drive to better themselves by learning life lessons and not settling for second best. Someone that is not materialistic or egotistical. A man that would not be afraid to get his hands dirty yet is gentle and caring enough to lean over and give me a kiss as he checks his oil. ;) I find men that hunt and fish extremely attractive... I may not want to clean a fish but would love to sit next to a sweet guy and catch them! ...and maybe rub it in when I catch one that is bigger ;) I also should mention I have strong views about guns. If you do not like them or don't like to be around anyone that carries then you should probably keep looking, I am not your kinda girl! Turn ons: Tall men (I wear heels sometimes so a man still a bit taller than me with heels on!) Goatees, nice eyes, sweet smile... ;)I LOVE music, and enjoy pretty much anything but rap. Like country, and pretty much anything you hear on the radio with a good beat. Would love to learn how to play the guitar, it is on my "to do" list. ;) TV - I don't watch a whole lot but love Duck Dynasty! Anyone else think there is more in Si's cup than just iced tea?I love nature and the outdoors... especially the moon and stars. Life is short, so I try to enjoy the little things most people tend to *** Would love to become a photographer if I had more time! :)Want to know more? Just ask :) Something relaxed to talk. Maybe coffee or dinner...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mia

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    If you are not going to take the time to read my full profile, please do not contact me. It's frustrating to answer questions when the answer of some questions are aleady in my profile. Just sayin'. Also, I AM NOT ON HERE FOR A HOOK UP! I am looking for that one person that I can trust, believe, have faith in, who would never purposely do anything to hurt me. Someone who makes a conscience decision to not do things that might jeopardize our relationship. I am looking for my best friend. That one person I can do anything with, the one person that I can talk about anything to. I am not interested in drama, lies, betrayal, or anything negative. In return, I will do the same for that person. Life is too short to be unhappy, so happiness all the way, with the understanding that sometimes life throws us curveballs; but nothing too big within our control that we cannot overcome. Honesty is very important. Without trust, there is nothing. I don't have "favorites", meaning, I try to enjoy all things. I don't have a favorite song, music, movie genre's, activities, etc. I am open to doing new things, within reason that is. I try to find the positives in life. Some people might complain of a rainy day, I look at it more as: well, I can get stuff done around the house so I can enjoy the next good weather day. Or, I look at rainy days as "cuddle weather" time. There is so much that I am sure that I can put in this section of my profile, but if you are wanting to get to know me, then contact me and we will go from there. :) I do have children, but please do not ask me questions about them as I do not know you at this time. Also, please note that my profile says "separated". I am giving you the truth. I am not interested in making that work, I tried, but it failed. I have realized that with that relationship, no matter what I did, the other party involved would/could not step up to do the right things to maintain it. Until resolved, I have felt that I have been in limbo and that is not where I want to be. I do think that one should finish something before you goes on...but in this case...it is now a waiting thing and I choose to be happy, so who is with me?***I am not trying to be rude or mean by my next statement in anyway...but...I would prefer that you be atleast 5'10" maybe 5'9", but ideally 5'10" or taller. I love wearing my pretty shoes and I really don't want to put them on and then I'm taller than you. For me, it's just uncomfortable. Please also have witts to you. I just do not prefer to have a conversation with someone that seems to be clueless about everything. I don't expect you to know everything about everything, but I'm not wanting to talk to an idiot either. Players, liars, cheaters, beaters, drama filled people, negative people, no ambition/drive/motivation, and problem starters - STAY AWAY! Again, I am open to many things. I can't really say what I would prefer a first date to be, other than, use this time to get to know the person. I would not prefer the first date to be something like going to a movie. If we were to go to a movie, we are not giving the other person our attention. The attention would be on the movie...so I don't recommend that for a first date. Something more along the lines of a picnic, a museum, an amusement park, a zoo, or maybe even walk around a city/town and explore what that town has to offer. This way, we are doing something together, with the opportunity to talk and get to know what each likes and doesn't. I think those things would probably be good for a SECOND date...so how about, the first date be a casual, get to know each other conversation during a nice walk or a cup of coffee?

  • Martina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have a difficult time writing about myself, but here are the basics. I'm looking find an awesome connection with someone that has a great sense of humor. Sense of humor is a must!! You must not only be able to dish it out, but be able to take it as well! I love cooking, reading, shopping and most of all spending time with family and friends. I'm a single Mom with a 12 year old son, so you must be ok dating someone that has a child. I'm sweet, caring, funny and loyal and looking for the same in someone that I may potentially date.I think building a strong friendship is very important with somone you may potentially date. To be able to take time to build that bond and trust is essential. However, that doesn't mean I want to date someone that is also dating several other women. Even though taking time is important, I believe exclustivity is also very important when there is a connection.I am a bit shy at first, but tend to open up to someone that can make me laugh and I feel comfortable with. I would like to find a man that is pretty well established, what I mean by that is that you have a job, a car, the basics. I don't care what your job is or what kind of car you drive as long as you have one! I'm a pretty simple girl and as I long as I am having fun with someone it doesn't really matter what we do. I'm usually attracted to smart, intellectual type of guys. Someone with good vocabulary, that is polite, and has good manners is definitely a plus!There of course a lot more to know about me, if you'd like to know more just send me a message :)P.S. My proflie says I'm a Gemini but I'm actually a Cancer and I'm unable to change it.....in case it matter to anyone :) Lunch or coffee, something simple to see if we click :)

  • Pam

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    How do you not make this sound like a wanted ad lol..I enjoy all kinds of music but tends to lean towards rock and metal. Im a huge movie junkie from old black and white to recent from horror to comedy. I love to laugh and joke around and hope one day to meet that one who will be my lover and best friend, a man not a boy who can hold an intelligent conversation with me but will be ok being goofy as well. Im educated, feisty and Im not perfect..Im pretty much an open book so anything you want to know just ask : ) Im in no hurry to find him Im happy with my life and the way its going right now. A friend would be great if something happens and sparks fly then awesome if not and we remain friends thats ok as well..I know not everyone reads these profiles so to be honest Im not really gonna fill in everything Im in to, what I enjoy doing, yadda yadda because in all honesty people on here look at the pics first and decide from there if they wanna reach out or not including me however I try my best to not judge a book by the cover because the person Im looking for may pass me by..So, if you wanna get to know me cool : ) . Talk to me message me and I will be happy to discuss pretty much anything with you. Update: Just because I message you with a compliment DOESNT always mean I want to meet you. “If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”By Bob MarleyI, with a deeper ***, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.By: Anais NinI do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, f***kd, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anaïs Nin

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