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Esther, 38
United States, Michigan, Canton

Offline, last seen Fri, 07 Nov 2025 13:50:48

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Sweet,Very independent compassionate female looking for friends first and fun! My life has gone backwards (having a child out of wedlock and leaving that relationship but, I have done really well and raised a amazing little man of 16 years. He has been a blessing and has given me a reason to wake up every day. So really I think I have done well. But I put my life/love life on the back burner because I felt he was number one (my son). I really need someone for me this time around,to care for me and give me someone to talk to after a long day, have an adult relationship and little massage after a crazy day would be a bonus. I want the type of relationship with a crazy trust where you can go out all night and there are no questions asked and all you would say is I missed you. I don't want the jealous type, a little healthy jealously can be good for the relationship so you need to find the balance I'm not a cheater and don't want to meet someone who is dating someone else as then they will probably do that to me. I am not against dating multiple people but once you define a relationship then I would expect a little more commitment. I love kids and animals. I'm a hard working girl looking for a break in life. I want to meet someone who has a great job that they love, has some secondary education, makes a good living (like I said I want a break and don't want to be the bread winner again !) A great speller does help, does anyone use spell check here? I do love the old fashioned dating style where the man takes care of his lady, opens doors,etc,He doesn't ask me out for dinner and when the bill comes say it is dutch, unless it is agreed upon) I want someone to buy me flowers on a rare occasion just because. I seem to have been in relationships where I have been the breadwinner and the person that works and pays the bills. I want the opposite this time around. I don't need a billionaire but someone who isn't in debt up to their ears. So surprise me I hope you are out there. I am very caring, generous and just want to make the best of things. I would prefer if you had a picture on your profile if you mail,No smokers please!Please tell me about yourself and don't just have 3 words on your profile such as "don't know what to put here" I appreciate someone intellectual and able to put their thoughts into words.No I don't want to give you my MSN because I don't use it!!Please don't *** you have read my profile and know a little about me and see if we would clickI am a believer in chemistry but I also need to know I can spend hours talking with you all night about hot topics and debate life! I would prefer someone who shares a biblical believe. I'm not into any strong religions but I do include God in my life and would love to be with someone who shares the same. I have viewed lots of profiles and everyone says they are non religious? beyond me.I will try my best to get back to you as soon as possible but I don't check in all the time thanks for looking Please have a recent picture and be honest!I'm not wanting to meet for intimate encounters!!!!Life is short have fun. Today is a good day to start living like u were dying, what r u going to do? "Dance as though no one is watching you. Love as though you have never been hurt before. Sing as though no one can hear you. Live as though heaven is on earth." I would just like to share an amazing life, be ecstatic, love deeply, learn constantly, be inspired & feel the experience fully. For those that might be shy or intimidated, don't be we can start slow and work up to it. For those confident and outgoing, race you to the finish line. ok now for real.... I like to be different!!quick coffee make sure it works, then something fun different, you surprise me. casual summer drinks,nature walks, love fishing (even though I don't eat meat and I put them back???)anything to do with animals/animal rescue, traveling, walking, hanging with my friends camping, flower gardening (sharing plants), yoga, reading/learning something new, taking a course on something I have no experience in. I would love to find a partner for ballroom dancing.! I also make time each week to attend service and to put God first in my life daily by joining in on church small groups, reading the bible and related christian books. I try to volunteer with my church group as well.You surprise me show me your spontaneous side. Tell me what you would like to do as a first date!ps. I love Orchids!!! any any other types of flowers especially coloured Roses among others!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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