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Esther, 38

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Sweet,Very independent compassionate female looking for friends first and fun! My life has gone backwards (having a child out of wedlock and leaving that relationship but, I have done really well and raised a amazing little man of 16 years. He has been a blessing and has given me a reason to wake up every day. So really I think I have done well. But I put my life/love life on the back burner because I felt he was number one (my son). I really need someone for me this time around,to care for me and give me someone to talk to after a long day, have an adult relationship and little massage after a crazy day would be a bonus. I want the type of relationship with a crazy trust where you can go out all night and there are no questions asked and all you would say is I missed you. I don't want the jealous type, a little healthy jealously can be good for the relationship so you need to find the balance I'm not a cheater and don't want to meet someone who is dating someone else as then they will probably do that to me. I am not against dating multiple people but once you define a relationship then I would expect a little more commitment. I love kids and animals. I'm a hard working girl looking for a break in life. I want to meet someone who has a great job that they love, has some secondary education, makes a good living (like I said I want a break and don't want to be the bread winner again !) A great speller does help, does anyone use spell check here? I do love the old fashioned dating style where the man takes care of his lady, opens doors,etc,He doesn't ask me out for dinner and when the bill comes say it is dutch, unless it is agreed upon) I want someone to buy me flowers on a rare occasion just because. I seem to have been in relationships where I have been the breadwinner and the person that works and pays the bills. I want the opposite this time around. I don't need a billionaire but someone who isn't in debt up to their ears. So surprise me I hope you are out there. I am very caring, generous and just want to make the best of things. I would prefer if you had a picture on your profile if you mail,No smokers please!Please tell me about yourself and don't just have 3 words on your profile such as "don't know what to put here" I appreciate someone intellectual and able to put their thoughts into words.No I don't want to give you my MSN because I don't use it!!Please don't *** you have read my profile and know a little about me and see if we would clickI am a believer in chemistry but I also need to know I can spend hours talking with you all night about hot topics and debate life! I would prefer someone who shares a biblical believe. I'm not into any strong religions but I do include God in my life and would love to be with someone who shares the same. I have viewed lots of profiles and everyone says they are non religious? beyond me.I will try my best to get back to you as soon as possible but I don't check in all the time thanks for looking Please have a recent picture and be honest!I'm not wanting to meet for intimate encounters!!!!Life is short have fun. Today is a good day to start living like u were dying, what r u going to do? "Dance as though no one is watching you. Love as though you have never been hurt before. Sing as though no one can hear you. Live as though heaven is on earth." I would just like to share an amazing life, be ecstatic, love deeply, learn constantly, be inspired & feel the experience fully. For those that might be shy or intimidated, don't be we can start slow and work up to it. For those confident and outgoing, race you to the finish line. ok now for real.... I like to be different!!quick coffee make sure it works, then something fun different, you surprise me. casual summer drinks,nature walks, love fishing (even though I don't eat meat and I put them back???)anything to do with animals/animal rescue, traveling, walking, hanging with my friends camping, flower gardening (sharing plants), yoga, reading/learning something new, taking a course on something I have no experience in. I would love to find a partner for ballroom dancing.! I also make time each week to attend service and to put God first in my life daily by joining in on church small groups, reading the bible and related christian books. I try to volunteer with my church group as well.You surprise me show me your spontaneous side. Tell me what you would like to do as a first date!ps. I love Orchids!!! any any other types of flowers especially coloured Roses among others!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ida

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person

  • Jami

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Well hmmm :)… First and MOST importantly I am a single mother of two young children ages 4 and 6. They are my world!! So, enjoying children is a must, my children are everything to me. :)I am here just to see what is out there and maybe chat with someone that has the same drive, focus and values as I do. Don't give up when looking for women, there are still some good ones out there!... My favorite quote that could be applied to dating... "You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!" As for me, I am an easy going jeans and t-shirt kind of gal. I am not in any hurry to jump right into anything... and I am not interested in games!.... life is too short for that nonsense. I want to make someone happy!!! I am "old fashioned" for the most part, dedicated, devoted, honest and open. I have a big heart which I tend to wear on my sleeve and would love to share it but won't give it to just "anybody". I am pretty sure that is why I am still single and looking for "Mr. Right!" ;) I would say I am looking for a fun, family oriented man with a good sense of humor and a nice smile! Someone that is close with their family, honest, and true to his word. I tend to show more interest in men that have children, since they seem to understand the wonders as well as challenges of parenting, but it is not a date breaker if a man can understand my busy role as a fulltime single parent. :) Someone that has a stable job and drive to better themselves by learning life lessons and not settling for second best. Someone that is not materialistic or egotistical. A man that would not be afraid to get his hands dirty yet is gentle and caring enough to lean over and give me a kiss as he checks his oil. ;) I find men that hunt and fish extremely attractive... I may not want to clean a fish but would love to sit next to a sweet guy and catch them! ...and maybe rub it in when I catch one that is bigger ;) I also should mention I have strong views about guns. If you do not like them or don't like to be around anyone that carries then you should probably keep looking, I am not your kinda girl! Turn ons: Tall men (I wear heels sometimes so a man still a bit taller than me with heels on!) Goatees, nice eyes, sweet smile... ;)I LOVE music, and enjoy pretty much anything but rap. Like country, and pretty much anything you hear on the radio with a good beat. Would love to learn how to play the guitar, it is on my "to do" list. ;) TV - I don't watch a whole lot but love Duck Dynasty! Anyone else think there is more in Si's cup than just iced tea?I love nature and the outdoors... especially the moon and stars. Life is short, so I try to enjoy the little things most people tend to *** Would love to become a photographer if I had more time! :)Want to know more? Just ask :) Something relaxed to talk. Maybe coffee or dinner...

  • Pam

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    How do you not make this sound like a wanted ad lol..I enjoy all kinds of music but tends to lean towards rock and metal. Im a huge movie junkie from old black and white to recent from horror to comedy. I love to laugh and joke around and hope one day to meet that one who will be my lover and best friend, a man not a boy who can hold an intelligent conversation with me but will be ok being goofy as well. Im educated, feisty and Im not perfect..Im pretty much an open book so anything you want to know just ask : ) Im in no hurry to find him Im happy with my life and the way its going right now. A friend would be great if something happens and sparks fly then awesome if not and we remain friends thats ok as well..I know not everyone reads these profiles so to be honest Im not really gonna fill in everything Im in to, what I enjoy doing, yadda yadda because in all honesty people on here look at the pics first and decide from there if they wanna reach out or not including me however I try my best to not judge a book by the cover because the person Im looking for may pass me by..So, if you wanna get to know me cool : ) . Talk to me message me and I will be happy to discuss pretty much anything with you. Update: Just because I message you with a compliment DOESNT always mean I want to meet you. “If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”By Bob MarleyI, with a deeper ***, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.By: Anais NinI do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, f***kd, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anaïs Nin

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