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Lela, 36

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About Me

I like adventure travel, so I'm willing to try (almost) anything once. I've been to many places in the world, but still have many to discover, before I start round two. I do like to unwind once in a while on the beach, and there's no feeling like ocean waves! I'm brutally honest (although I am learning about just keeping the mouth shut occasionally), and I want to hear the truth too (at all times, even if you have to tell me that the pants make my butt look big!). A good laugh is never far behind, so a sense of humour and a great smile is a necessity. Generally, I like the tall, dark and handsome types, and I tend to like guys with broad shoulders, and/or a strong or heavier build. I work to live - not live to work, looking for the same. My family and friends are very important to me, so make sure you come into the picture valuing both. A coffee can be fun, if you're not too shy (I can only hold a conversation by myself for so long...), otherwise, I'm totally open to activities around the city.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mia

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    If you are not going to take the time to read my full profile, please do not contact me. It's frustrating to answer questions when the answer of some questions are aleady in my profile. Just sayin'. Also, I AM NOT ON HERE FOR A HOOK UP! I am looking for that one person that I can trust, believe, have faith in, who would never purposely do anything to hurt me. Someone who makes a conscience decision to not do things that might jeopardize our relationship. I am looking for my best friend. That one person I can do anything with, the one person that I can talk about anything to. I am not interested in drama, lies, betrayal, or anything negative. In return, I will do the same for that person. Life is too short to be unhappy, so happiness all the way, with the understanding that sometimes life throws us curveballs; but nothing too big within our control that we cannot overcome. Honesty is very important. Without trust, there is nothing. I don't have "favorites", meaning, I try to enjoy all things. I don't have a favorite song, music, movie genre's, activities, etc. I am open to doing new things, within reason that is. I try to find the positives in life. Some people might complain of a rainy day, I look at it more as: well, I can get stuff done around the house so I can enjoy the next good weather day. Or, I look at rainy days as "cuddle weather" time. There is so much that I am sure that I can put in this section of my profile, but if you are wanting to get to know me, then contact me and we will go from there. :) I do have children, but please do not ask me questions about them as I do not know you at this time. Also, please note that my profile says "separated". I am giving you the truth. I am not interested in making that work, I tried, but it failed. I have realized that with that relationship, no matter what I did, the other party involved would/could not step up to do the right things to maintain it. Until resolved, I have felt that I have been in limbo and that is not where I want to be. I do think that one should finish something before you goes on...but in this case...it is now a waiting thing and I choose to be happy, so who is with me?***I am not trying to be rude or mean by my next statement in anyway...but...I would prefer that you be atleast 5'10" maybe 5'9", but ideally 5'10" or taller. I love wearing my pretty shoes and I really don't want to put them on and then I'm taller than you. For me, it's just uncomfortable. Please also have witts to you. I just do not prefer to have a conversation with someone that seems to be clueless about everything. I don't expect you to know everything about everything, but I'm not wanting to talk to an idiot either. Players, liars, cheaters, beaters, drama filled people, negative people, no ambition/drive/motivation, and problem starters - STAY AWAY! Again, I am open to many things. I can't really say what I would prefer a first date to be, other than, use this time to get to know the person. I would not prefer the first date to be something like going to a movie. If we were to go to a movie, we are not giving the other person our attention. The attention would be on the movie...so I don't recommend that for a first date. Something more along the lines of a picnic, a museum, an amusement park, a zoo, or maybe even walk around a city/town and explore what that town has to offer. This way, we are doing something together, with the opportunity to talk and get to know what each likes and doesn't. I think those things would probably be good for a SECOND date...so how about, the first date be a casual, get to know each other conversation during a nice walk or a cup of coffee?

  • Lena

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I enjoy being outside, parks, beach, lakes, and even just a backyard! Well, I'm not really into roughing it though. My idea of a great weekend get away would be staying in a luxury hotel and enjoying nature when we wanted to. Not having to make our own accommodations outside and surrounded by nature the whole time. Going to the movies is always fun and meals out are always a treat.It's important to me to take my role as mom to my six year old son, very seriously. I work hard at being the quality of mother I feel he deserves. Only having him 50% of the time is hard on me. So when I do have him, it's all about him.I come from a close family. We enjoy spending to with each other. When we get together we like to play bocce ball, go on picnics, family card games and BBQ.My music taste can surprise some people. I like punk, hard, fast music, but really enjoy lots of music. Rolling Stones, Beach Boys, Bob Marley but some of my favorites are old Misfits, Descendents, Fugazi, Queens of theStone Age, and The White Stripes.

  • Queen

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm here, that wicked kick ass girl that you have offen dreamed & wonder where I've been your whole life.I'm not new to this becuz I'm from another dating site.if your nice to me I will be nice to you,but if your rude to me I'll be rude right back. All I really want is to have someone to. laugh with me & smile with, then grow old with ! Is it really that hard

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