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Been awhile since I edited, I think... In scrolling thru "my matches," I have found many men think this part is not important. Although actions speak louder than words, words are the FIRST impression we get of who you are inside... If you fail to write something of value, you fail in getting a meaningful response.I believe in honesty and being straight up in my communication. As a writer I recognize that I may be a bit too extensive, however, that is me and I won't change my core... I have an adventurous/spontaneous side as well as my inner child; they all come out at random. I love sports (except hockey) and love to talk smack during *** If you have read this far, cool. I am looking for someone who is JEWISH, stable, somewhat intelligent, funny, honest, and loyal. I am over the games, the "challenges," and the "rules." Been there, done that and am now looking for my lifemate.Stimulate my mind and you open my body, heart, and soul... think you are up for the challenge???signing off as: show me the Chutzpah :) thanks :) moonlight picnic on the beach? Fair/festival/outdoor concert? Sporting event? Anything goes except the norm- coffee, dinner/drinks etc... Too boring for me and not good enough for a first date..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ida

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person

  • Elisa

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I enjoy a variety of different activities but my fair skin keeps me from enjoying outside activities as much as I would like. I am a very friendly, outgoing person and make friends easily. I enjoy just hanging out talking as much as going out somewhere. I am almost finished with my Bachelor's degree in management and plan to start my Master's degree soon after. I enjoy R& B and country music. I love music with a beat that I can dance to. I am a very optimisitc person and try to see the good in every situation. I am fun to be with and have fun in whatever I do. I have been told that I am witty and have a great sense of humor. The location of a first date is not important. What is important is to stay relaxed and just have a good time and be yourself. I think it is good to have an opportunity to talk and get to know each other better so a location that allows you to do that is good. Other than that, the important thing is to just be yourself and let the other person get to know the "real" you.

  • Lorie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Just checking this out...will update info later when necessary...thanks for any advice about this site. I'm just a down to earth sweet country lady looking for friends to take the time to get to know me..if that changes will let you know.. Im not here for random hook ups, or to play games...If you aren't honest and a person of your word please keep looking...Sorry guys but I don't date younger men..just a preference no offense please don't try to change my mind ...best wishes to you all...we all at one point or another need to find a keeper... Guys post a pic...would you talk to me if I didnt have a pic...looks isnt everything but seeing a pic says a lot about a person....are they attractive to me..are they well kept..do they seem happy....etc.......it's part of putting yourself out there! I am serious about finding my match and meeting great friends along the way. I won't settle for less and you shouldn't either. I'm a country girl, love the simple life and the beauty of the outdoors! I have a sweet spot for country boys..lolTo all the gentleman out there: Thank you for showing the respect to treat her like a lady..some of us cherish it!

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