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Ila, 38

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About Me

All about me? Here goes…Single Mom to a wonderful little girl. Outside of my time with her I play in a competitive pipeband.I enjoy hiking, exploring, skiing (when I can find time), spending time with friends & family (I have a wee nephew that I just love to bits), reading, music (I play multiple ***, bike riding & just enjoying life!I have plans for my life & I know what I am looking for in a relationship. You should have a happy personality & like yourself! Enjoy your own hobbies (I might enjoy them too) & getting out with your friends. Would be nice if we had some things in common, but the most important thing is that we "click".Say hello & lets go from there. If you don’t have an updated picture, please move on. In this day and age it’s easy to take a selfie. Also, please leave on your shirt.If you favorite me, send a message.“There is a difference between interest and commitment. When you are interested in doing something, you do it only when it is convenient. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses: only results.” ~Meet up at a nearby hiking area, or find some trails for biking.Live near a lake, why not a nice stroll around it with lunch after?I don't believe movies or clubs/bars are really good places for a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm happy, fun, loyal, easy going and I take life as it comes. I have two children***grown and not at home and a junior in high school. I enjoy staying at home just as much as a great night on the town. I am feminine; however, I do like to drink a beer and go to sporting events. I am more of a jeans person but I can rock a little black dress. I do hair and makeup and I love it...it consumes a lot of my time. My taste in movies are more on the comedic side...There's Something About Mary, Kingpin...to everything like 300, and Django Unchained. I love a wide variety of music; one day I might listen to the Lumineers and the next it might be Foo Fighters or Seether. What am I looking for? I want to meet an attractive, intelligent, loyal, kind, successful, funny, strong (mentally and physically) man. I have a strong presence; I need someone that is more dominate (kind and patient, too) so I can pass the reigns. I prefer someone that has his own interests but will listen to me ramble on about mine. I listen, too. A great guy who will go out on the town one night but is just as happy curling up on the couch watching comedy central (or whatever) after a long day. I don't want to change anyone and I don't want to be changed - It's all about balance - give and take.I am a slightly taller and solid sized gal. The height I have listed is not my height...but I DO wear heels often! I don't want to tower over anyone. Men say they say are 5'10 and they are 5'7...come on!!!I have found men I date tend to look a general way....all of us do, so not to waste time, if you are 5'6" and bald, I am sorry, but I will probably not date you.6'0" or taller***pounds or more- prefer the moreDark hair (salt & pepper)- I am 40! :)Professional/clean cutAthletically Inclined Typically a few years older than meOne last note...this is NOT a deal breaker. I am almost an empty nester; I want someone that's there or almost there, too. I realize I had children young (early 20's) and I am at an interesting age to be single. I am not a grandparent yet, thank goodness! Several of my friends are! Let's see if it's out there... A great casual meeting with drinks and dinner. I want to laugh and share funny stories...I have a lot of them!

  • Frances

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a professional with a flare for the dramatic! Not in the crazy, watch out, sort of dramatic sense, but in the, I sew my own renaissance garb and love being on stage kind of dramatic. I have one daughter at home and two that have left the nest, I stay very busy with my daughter, sewing and of course my horse when time permits. I would love to meet someone easy going, honest, and not afraid to open a door now and then. I don't believe chivalry should be dead and I think the art of being a lady is often lost lately. Magical first date: if I put the fantasy to paper, I would say the date should start with a knock on the door with flowers, a quiet dinner with candlelight and wine, long quiet conversation, maybe a stolen brush of the hand or a lingering glance... If the moon was full, a walk might be nice, and the date could end with a soft kiss if the mood was right. Or.. A BBQ dinner, some boot scootin and a bonfire could work too.. But warn a gal how she should dress!

  • Christina

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Music is a big part of my life, as exemplified by my CD collection, which includes everything from Frank Sinatra to 50 Cent, but I have a deep affection for a number of obscure college bands (e.g., Ocean Blue and Trashcan Sinatras). I love how much NYC has to offer in the way of theater, art, etc., and take advantage of these opportunities regularly. Culture and diversity are important to me and I enjoy connecting with citizens of the world through various cultural outlets and groups. One of my absolute favorite things to do here is walk the streets of the city with no destination in mind. I have a great sense of humor. I care deeply about making a difference in the world (even if it's a small corner of it), challenging convention and being a dependable, thoughtful and motivational friend/companion. I am fiercely loyal to those I care about.I love a quick wit, nice smile, great sense of humor and an easy-going manner. I don’t mind if you’re someone who’s a bit work-focused, as long as you make time for personal and social relationships, and can fully engage when you're off the clock. I appreciate men who pay attention to the "little things." Please drop me a line if you're genuine, funny, kind, a good kisser, intellectually curious and looking for a woman who cares less about what you do than who you are. Great people watching + fun date and nice vibe = awesome evening!

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